This week we’re talking about something we’ve mentioned in dozens of episodes but never really focused on before – understanding bad tapes (yours and your partner’s) and how they impact your life and your relationships. We also talk about to deal with bad tapes and ideas to help overcome them.

In this episode:

* Our 100 episode giveaway is still going on – sponsored by Godemiche!

* Kayla has a random lube giveaway on her website through October 12, 2017

* Kinky Book Club is reading The Siren by Tiffany Reisz in October

* The next submissive meeting – live-streamed and available for Kinky Fuckery members – is September 30, 2017 at 8pm eastern

* What are bad tapes?

* Figuring out your bad tapes

* Talking about them with a partner

* Be careful about “diagnosing” your partner with bad tapes

* Bad tapes can impact who you choose as a partner

* Understanding how bad tapes affect your relationship

* Communicating about your bad tapes – and your partners

* How to work through them together

* Seek professional help for bad tapes or the situations that created them that are severe or overwhelming

Links from the show:

Random Lube Giveaway

Godemiche

Word Wytch

Brene Brown

5 Bad Tapes That Can Interfere in Your D/s Relationship

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