Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss boundaries and limits in episode 62 of the Loving BDSM podcast.

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What are limits and boundaries?

Is there a difference?

Hard limit vs. soft limit.

Hard limits can be anything. Twitter friend mentioned tickling as a limit for her. Whatever it is, must be respected.

Soft limits often come from a place of lack of knowledge

Use checklist to learn your limits and discover what you both like (or don’t like)

Talk about what you think your limits are in the beginning of a relationship but update as you go along.

As you get used to your partner or learn more about what you like and don’t like, your limits change.

When trying something new, start slowly. Exercise patience.

How you handle a new experience will color your feelings about that boundary or limit forever. Take it slow. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

Every aspect of BDSM has a boundary or a limit for you, even if you haven’t discovered it yet.

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MeetHum.com Use coupon code “kaylalords” and save 10 percent!

I Wanted Him to Watch (review for the Hum)

Using Checklist to Figure Out Your Kinky Limits

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