Insecurity quietly steals what God meant for connection. When we fixate on our flaws, we shift our eyes off of God and onto ourselves—placing a weight on our spouse and those closest to us that they were never meant to carry. 

In this episode, we’re talking about how insecurity robs us of intimacy, why it distorts our view of God and others, and how to start reclaiming truth. 

Challenge yourself this week: three times a day, speak God’s truth over the lie you’ve been living through. Freedom starts with shifting your focus.

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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In today’s episode, we’re talking about why consistency trumps intensity in your faith, marriage, and parenting.

You can’t build a strong spiritual foundation by chasing emotional highs or trying to make up for inconsistency with one big moment. True growth comes from faithfully showing up every day, even when you don’t feel like it.

When you choose to show up — in prayer, in your marriage, and in your parenting — you move towards where you ultimately want to be. 

It’s those steady, obedient steps that help you both enjoy the intense moments and persevere through the hard ones.

Challenge of the Week: Ask God, “How do You want me to show up?” Instead of doing it your way, let Him lead your consistency.

If you’ve been struggling to stay consistent in your spiritual walk or home life, this episode will encourage you to slow down, trust God’s timing, and keep showing up faithfully.

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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What does it look like to truly live your faith out loud? In this powerful and personal episode, we sit down with our son, Gage, to talk about his incredible missionary adventures and the boldness it takes to share Christ in everyday life.

Gage opens up about how God called him into missions, the moments that stretched his faith, and the ways he’s seen God move across cultures and conversations. You’ll hear stories of transformation, lessons learned through obedience, and what it means to trust God fully—no matter where He leads.

We’ll also talk about what’s next for Gage as he continues his missionary journey, and how you can come alongside him through prayer, encouragement, and support as he steps out in faith once again.

If you’ve ever wondered how to live courageously for Jesus, how to share your faith with confidence, or how to support the next generation of missionaries, this conversation will encourage and challenge you.

You can keep up with Gage’s ongoing missionary journey and reach out about support opportunities here:https://www.instagram.com/valencia.gage

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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In this episode, we’re talking about the power of gratitude in marriage — how shifting your focus from what’s missing to what God is doing can bring hope, healing, and deeper connection. Gratitude doesn’t deny the hard seasons; it reminds you that God is working all things for good.

Verse: “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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We’re more “connected” than ever—but many of us feel more disconnected than ever. Phones, endless scrolling, constant noise, and the pressure to always be “in the know” are leaving us unable to fully sit with ourselves or the people we love.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why silence and stillness feel so uncomfortable—and why that’s exactly where growth begins.

• How constant distraction is making us incapable of deep connection with ourselves and others.

• The importance of community, presence, and creating a smaller, more intentional world.

• Practical ways to step back from noise and cultivate meaningful relationships and spiritual grounding.

God designed us for connection, for presence, and for depth—not for endless scrolling and superficial interaction. If you’re ready to stop just existing and start truly connecting, this episode is for you.

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As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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We weren’t created for comfort—we were created for strength. In this episode, we explore why challenges are not meant to break us but to build us, how capacity is developed through resistance, and what it really means that God’s power is made perfect in our weakness. 

You wee made for hard things- things that are impossible without God, and so much of life is learning to trust Him through the hard, to trust the process He brings you through, and to learn to depend on him more and more. If you’ve ever wondered how to face the hard things in front of you, this conversation will remind you that you can—with Christ’s strength in you.

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As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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A mother’s love offers comfort and safety. A father’s love calls a child into courage and resilience. 

In this episode, we unpack the powerful role of fathers—how their presence (or absence) shapes the way children view God, handle life’s pressures, and walk out their faith as adults. Blending research, biblical wisdom, and real-life insight, we’ll explore why dads matter more than they often realize, and how carrying the weight of fatherhood is both a challenge and a sacred privilege.

Hebrews 11:1 reminds us—faith is the assurance of things hoped for. The calling of fatherhood may feel heavy, but Christ multiplies your strength for the role He’s entrusted to you.

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As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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Let’s be real—what you invest in is what you truly value. In this episode, we share our own resources and dreams, and the faith it takes to speak them out loud. We also want to challenge you: are you pouring more into your lifestyle, hobbies, or comfort than into your marriage?

The truth is, God designed marriage to reflect His covenant love, and that kind of love requires sacrifice. If the thought of shifting your investment stings a little, maybe that’s God stirring something in you. Because growth costs something—but the return on a marriage rooted in Him is worth every bit of it.

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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Join us as we get a chance to share about our son, and what God is doing right now. We serve the same God of power and might who answers prayers and moves TODAY

We also dig into the question: why do we stop short? Whether it’s in our marriage, our faith, our relationships, or boldly sharing Christ—what could happen if we went all in and truly believed in the power of the One we serve? What if we shifted our faith, our life, what we do in our marriage by 2 degrees.

Our hope is that this conversation will challenge, encourage, and remind you that Jesus is still in the business of doing the impossible.

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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In this episode, we’re sharing some powerful lessons God taught us while building a home in Guatemala with Casas por Cristo—and how those same truths apply directly to marriage.

From the importance of a firm foundation to learning how to pivot when plans change, we saw firsthand how trust in God transforms everything. We talk about how the Body of Christ works together in unity, the power of perspective, and why the light of Christ must be evident in our homes and relationships.

We also get real about how marriage requires adaptability, and the reminder that nothing has power over us when we’re standing on the foundation of Christ. His light drives out darkness—and that light should shine in us…in every area. 

As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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