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Episode 2495:

Jeff Rose breaks down exactly how much you need to save based on when you start, showing how even a few years of delay can significantly impact your monthly savings goal. Whether you plan to cover the full cost or only a portion, this guide helps parents take control of their child's financial future.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.goodfinancialcents.com/how-much-should-you-really-save-for-college-paying-kids-tuition-bill/

Quotes to ponder:

"From the day your child is born you will have approximately 18 years to be ready for the day your son or daughter is ready for college, but the question is, how much should you save?"

"The key takeaway from this information is that the earlier you start saving for your child’s education, the better off they will be in their adult lives, and the more debt free they will be."

"As you can see, just because you’re late doesn’t mean it’s over. It is just a long road ahead."

Episode references:

College Cost Calculator: https://www.collegeboard.org

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Episode 2494:

Isaac Morehouse reflects on the complexities of growing up with a father who was both present and absent, alive yet profoundly changed by a head injury. Through personal memories and raw emotions, he explores the duality of having "two dads" and the challenge of processing loss that isn’t quite loss. A deeply moving meditation on love, gratitude, and the unspoken struggles of navigating unconventional fatherhood.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://isaacmorehouse.com/2015/06/21/fathers-day-is-a-little-weird-for-me/

Quotes to ponder:

"My dad was always there, kind, impossible not to love, and also unable to walk, remember anything of consequence, or be independent at all."

"I love both of my dads. My relationship with my head-injured dad is actually great, and makes me smile just to think about it."

"It’s really hard to miss him and feel ripped off because of his absence. That feels like it would be a slight to the dad that’s still here. But I do miss him."

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Episode 2493:

Jana Rooheart highlights four common missteps, including expecting detailed conversations when a child prefers brevity, intruding too much into their private world, forcing social interactions, and intervening in friendships. By respecting their child's need for space and embracing their natural tendencies, extroverted parents can foster a more supportive and understanding relationship.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/introverted-kids-mistakes-extroverted-parents-make/

Quotes to ponder:

"Introverts often don’t know what’s worth mentioning in conversation, so you may have to be more concrete and creative."

"A parent shouldn’t demand a border pass into an introvert’s private space as a payment for everything they have done for the kid."

"Introverts have a right to be their true selves, to get energy from their own sources, to value things that matter only to them, and to make friends with people they really like."

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Episode 2492:

Dr. Diana Kirschner shares how this nearly ruined her own marriage and reveals a powerful practice, the 10-Minute Miracle Session, that can transform communication and intimacy. By simply listening without judgment or interruption, couples can reconnect, strengthen their bond, and avoid the common pitfalls of misinterpretation and resentment.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/confession-how-not-to-ruin-your-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"He doesn’t care about me. Or I am invisible. Or, one of my self-sabotaging, gloom and doom favorites, I am just not attractive anymore. It was always about me."

"Anything that a partner says during the Miracle Session is sacred. Don’t bring it up during an argument."

"If you do want to start doing this exercise with your partner, come to an agreement about how to further address certain subjects that it brings out if you need to."

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Episode 2491:

Evan Marc Katz breaks down the difference between forgivable slip-ups and true red flags in dating. By shifting your focus to the bigger picture, you’ll learn to recognize which behaviors are momentary lapses and which signal deeper incompatibility, making your dating decisions clearer and more confident.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/letting-go/do-you-stay-or-do-you-go

Quotes to ponder:

"We ALL have lapses when someone could judge us harshly."

"The couples that make it are the ones who don’t sweat the small stuff; and don’t tolerate the big stuff."

"A guy who finds other women attractive doesn’t necessarily have a character flaw. He’s a man. He’s attracted to other women. But if he’s going home with you, you probably shouldn’t care too much."

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Episode 2490:

Sharing a meal with strangers in a remote Burmese village taught Kat Medina a powerful lesson: true generosity is given freely, without expectation. In a world where many struggle to accept kindness without feeling indebted, embracing the act of receiving can create deep connections and mutual joy. By letting go of pride and allowing others the pleasure of giving, we open ourselves to a richer, more meaningful experience of human connection.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thejoysofjetlag.com/article?id=myanmarmeal

Quotes to ponder:

"By attempting to politely refuse what someone is offering, we aren’t just rejecting the gift from the giver, we are denying them the joy of giving."

"To receive is to create connection. And through connection, you are able to cultivate presence, gratitude, and joy."

"A magical thing happens over food. It acts as a modality for togetherness."

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Episode 2489:

Answering “How are you?” with a surface-level response might seem harmless, but Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis reveals how this everyday exchange holds a powerful opportunity for connection. By practicing small moments of vulnerability, tailoring your responses based on the relationship, you can deepen friendships, foster authenticity, and create meaningful interactions. A simple shift in how you answer this common question can lead to greater connection in your daily life.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drallisonanswers.com/relationships/you-answer-this-question-wrong-10-times-a-day-hear-why-it-matters/

Quotes to ponder:

“How you answer this question has the power to dramatically change your relationships, deepen your friendships, and help you feel more connected to the people around you.”

“When someone asks, ‘Hey, how are you?’ and you answer, ‘Good, fine, or ok,’ you’re literally telling the other person nothing about you.”

“In a day and age where we have a million different devices and demands that keep us disconnected, being intentional about connection is critical.”

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Episode 2488:

Encouraging a loved one to adopt healthier eating habits requires patience, empathy, and understanding their motivations. Dr. Neal Malik explains how to shift the conversation from demands and guilt to open dialogue and empowerment. By identifying what truly inspires them and making small, manageable changes, you can help guide them toward sustainable progress without resistance.

Quotes to ponder:

"The need to be known, to have our experience understood and accepted by someone who listens, is food and drink to the human heart."

"Instead of trying to force them to change, listen to their wants and desires - show that you care about their goals and motivations."

"Everyone is motivated by something; we just need to find what that motivation is and use it to empower them."

Episode references:

The Lost Art of Listening by Michael P. Nichols: https://www.amazon.com/Lost-Art-Listening-Second-Edition/dp/1593859864

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Episode 2487:

Adina Soclof highlights the importance of listening to our daughters without judgment, giving them space to process their feelings and develop their own solutions. She also reassures parents that while external advice can be valuable, trusting their instincts is key so long as they remain open to reflection and growth.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/social-skills-girls-manage-friendships/ & https://parentingsimply.com/trust-your-parenting-instincts/

Quotes to ponder:

"People who know how to choose good friends look for steady confidantes, and people who like you for who you really are."

"When we empathize with our daughters and reflect back what they are saying, they can hear themselves think, they are also more likely to come to their own conclusions on how to manage their own social situations."

"If a parenting blog’s advice doesn’t feel right for you or for your kids, it probably isn’t. Trust your gut."

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Episode 2486:

Shawna Scafe challenges the idea that a "happy child" equals successful parenting, emphasizing the importance of guiding children through discomfort rather than shielding them from it. By fostering contentment and resilience instead of an endless pursuit of happiness, both parents and kids can develop emotional stability and a healthier outlook on life.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/happy-kids-content-kids/

Quotes to ponder:

"You’re fine,’ ‘get over it’, these are for my comfort. My ultimate comfort as a parent is a happy, cooperative, occupied child. But does a happy kid mean I’m a successful parent?"

"Contentment is a life skill that will likely make us more emotionally stable, successful, and capable than the pursuit of happiness."

"We don’t have to fix everything: right away, the best way, the happiest way. We can all be a little uncomfortable sometimes, and that is okay."

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