Unrelenting Pursuit

Unrelenting Pursuit

By Brad and Lisa ValenciaSociety & CultureRelationships
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Unrelenting Pursuit episodes

  • 175. Why Do We Stop Short? Faith, Marriage, and a 2 Degree Shift

    Join us as we get a chance to share about our son, and what God is doing right now. We serve the same God of power and might who answers prayers and moves TODAY


    We also dig into the question: why do we stop short? Whether it’s in our marriage, our faith, our relationships, or boldly sharing Christ—what could happen if we went all in and truly believed in the power of the One we serve? What if we shifted our faith, our life, what we do in our marriage by 2 degrees.


    Our hope is that this conversation will challenge, encourage, and remind you that Jesus is still in the business of doing the impossible.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    54 min
  • 174. Built to Last: Foundation and Pivots inMarriage

    In this episode, we’re sharing some powerful lessons God taught us while building a home in Guatemala with Casas por Cristo—and how those same truths apply directly to marriage.


    From the importance of a firm foundation to learning how to pivot when plans change, we saw firsthand how trust in God transforms everything. We talk about how the Body of Christ works together in unity, the power of perspective, and why the light of Christ must be evident in our homes and relationships.


    We also get real about how marriage requires adaptability, and the reminder that nothing has power over us when we’re standing on the foundation of Christ. His light drives out darkness—and that light should shine in us…in every area. 


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    59 min
  • 173. 24 for 24 – Part 2: The Grit, Grace, and Growth of Marriage

    In Part 2 of our anniversary special, we’re diving into the second half of the 24 pieces of marriage advice we’ve learned over 24 years together. 


    These are the deeper lessons—about forgiveness, fun, intimacy, and fighting for each other instead of against. 


    If you’ve ever wondered how to stay connected through chaos, how to rebuild trust, or how to let laughter and faith carry you through the darkest nights—this one is for you. Join us for honest stories, practical wisdom, and the hope that your marriage can grow stronger no matter what season you’re in.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    53 min
  • 172. 24 Years, 24 Lessons: Part 1 – Marriage Advice You Don’t Want to Miss

    After 24 years of marriage, we’ve gathered a list of 24 pieces of advice that have shaped, challenged, and strengthened our relationship—and in this two-part series, we’re sharing them with you.


    In this episode, we dive into the first 12 lessons, from the practical to the deeply personal. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, there’s something here for you. Tune in for real talk, hard-earned wisdom, and a few laughs along the way. Part 2 is coming soon—because we’ve got more to say!


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    1 hr 1 min
  • 171. Living Offended: The Silent Sabotage

    Let’s be honest—offense is heavy. And if we’re not careful, we start carrying things we were never meant to hold. In this episode, we open up a raw, no-judgment conversation about what happens when we live offended—and how it affects our heart, our relationship with God, and our marriage.


    We talk about how bitterness doesn’t just isolate you—it starts to shape how you see everything. You begin expecting rejection, even when no one’s trying to hurt you. The lens of past pain starts filtering out present love. And before you know it, the very relationships you crave—closeness, connection, real love—are the ones being pushed away.


    Proverbs 19:11 reminds us: “It’s to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” Not because it didn’t hurt—but because freedom matters more than staying stuck. Forgiveness is never about pretending, and it’s not weakness. It’s about laying down the weight and trusting God to be your healer and defender.


    If you’ve been feeling distant, guarded, or exhausted from carrying pain you never asked for—this episode is for you. There’s hope, healing, and a way forward.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    55 min
  • 170. Trusting God … Not the episode we planned, but the one we needed

    This episode hit different—because as we were recording it, God was working on us. What started as a conversation about marriage and trust in dry seasons quickly became a moment of conviction. We had to face the truth: we weren’t trusting God as much as we thought we were.


    And most importantly we talk about how God uses the desert—yes, even the hard, frustrating parts—to shape something holy in us.


    It’s not a teaching moment. It’s a real-time surrender. So if you’re struggling to trust God (or each other), you’re not alone—and there’s grace here for you too.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    52 min
  • 169. You’re Not Just ‘Mom’—You’re Called, Covered, and Chosen

    As moms, it’s far too easy to live under the weight of guilt, comparison, and the constant feeling that we’re not doing enough. 


    In this episode, we’re breaking down the lie of failure that so many of us carry—and replacing it with the truth: this role matters deeply. 


    You are seen by God. He has equipped you for this sacred work and the seeds you are planting in this season matter! 


    Whether you’re in the middle of chaos or calm, this is your reminder that you’re not alone—and that encouragement isn’t a luxury, it’s a lifeline.


    Happy Mother’s Day (a few days late) to all the moms that make it happen day in and day out. Keep clinging to Jesus through it all.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 168. Let Them Feel It: The Healing Power of Consequences

    What if the most loving thing you could do… was let someone face the full weight of their choices?


    In this episode, we unpack the hard truth that rescuing isn’t always love. We dive into why stepping in too soon can actually delay growth, how consequences can be the very tool God uses for transformation, and how to release the people we care about to His process — even when it hurts.


    We’re redefining kindness, challenging our own need to control, and learning how to trust the God who redeems even the messiest situations.


    This one’s for the fixer, the parent, the spouse, the friend — the one who’s tired of carrying what was never theirs to fix.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    1 hr 15 min
  • 167. The Warrior and the Helper: Reclaiming Biblical Roles in Marriage

    “Be strong and courageous.” (Joshua 1:9)

    God calls men to be protectors — not to dominate, but to defend with love. Women were created to strengthen, not diminish. In this episode, we break down God’s original design for marriage: where leadership is sacrificial, help is powerful, and true protection honors, covers, and brings life. We reclaim the beauty of these roles—and why stepping into them is the path to freedom, not control.


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    1 hr 6 min
  • 166. Quirks, Perks, and Love That Works

    Ever notice how the little quirks in your partner’s behavior can be endearing, amusing, and quickly shift to irritating? 


    In this episode, we dive into the everyday idiosyncrasies that can sometimes drive us up the wall—like leaving cabinets open, repeating stories, or even being hilariously enthusiastic about dishwasher organization—and uncover how these quirks can actually be the secret ingredients to deeper connection in your marriage.


    • The Quirk List: We share common, lovable habits that every couple has, and hear some real-life anecdotes that remind us we’re not alone in our quirks.

    • The Irritant Shift: Discover why those tiny habits can seem annoying over time, especially during moments of stress, and learn how shifting our perspective can transform irritation into affection.

    • Reframing the Quirks: We’ll discuss practical ways to see these quirks as reflections of what makes your partner unique—and how reframing your perspective can change everything. 


    Join us for a lively conversation that challenges you to appreciate the little things and reminds you that love, in all its quirky glory, is truly worth fighting for. 


    As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. 

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    56 min

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Whether you're facing challenges, navigating a crisis, enjoying a strong marriage, or dreaming of one in the future—we invite you to join us. We’re all about keeping it raw, unfiltered, and real, with plenty of laughter along the way, all while keeping our focus on Jesus.

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