Stop treating your burnout with toxic habits. Explore the unexpected safety of letting go of control. In this episode, we sit down with Mistress Mia, a therapeutic dominatrix who uses her practice for deep inner work and self-development. We break down the cultural taboos surrounding kink, clarifying that the Hollywood image of leather and whips only makes up a small fraction of her actual profession.

Mia details how she helps high-achieving adults, trauma survivors, and people with ADHD break destructive patterns through extreme accountability.

By entering into a "sacred power exchange", individuals can release the heavy burden of constant decision-making and find freedom in a completely non-judgmental space.

We discuss the psychology behind the Gateway Theory of pain, exploring how a calculated, safe dose of physical pain can successfully silence chronic psychological distress and overactive thoughts. Mia also outlines her strict safety rules, including her hard boundary against heavy play for anyone under the age of 26 to protect brain development.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why the traditional understanding of a dominatrix is mostly a misconception.
• How taking away the need to have everything figured out promotes emotional healing.
• The psychology of undressing to bypass internal defenses and shame.
• Why successful people use calculated pain as a rite of passage to get unstuck.
• Using the Gateway Theory to find relief from dull, chronic emotional aches.
• Crucial advice on how to properly vet a practitioner before engaging in therapeutic BDSM.

About the Guest

Mistress Mia is a Transformative Life Coach, Certified Therapeutic BDSM Practitioner, and Sacred Kink & Intimacy Coach who helps people step into their power, release shame, and claim lives that feel bold, authentic, and deeply their own. A founding member of the Kink Professional Standards Alliance and part of the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network, she blends embodiment, resilience practices, and intentional BDSM to support meaningful, lasting transformation.

Through her self-development program (The ARC Protocol™), as well as sessions, workshops, writings, and coaching, Mistress Mia offers a grounded yet daring path to confidence, courage, and self-acceptance. Her work welcomes anyone ready to grow stronger, more expressive, and more unapologetically themselves.

Connect with Mia:

• Website: www.myarcprotocol.com
• TikTok: @mistressmiapayne
• Instagram: @callmemistressmia
• Telegram: @mistressmiapayne
• Email: [email protected]

Resources Mentioned:
Kink Professionals Standard Alliance: https://thekpsa.org/

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In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:

"I've been running on empty for so long that I genuinely don't remember what it felt like to be okay. I don't know what I like anymore. I don't know what I want. I don't even know who I am outside of everything I do for everyone else. How do I find my way back to myself when I don't even know where to start?"

We examine the reality of "Burnout Identity Erosion" and why forgetting who you are is a logical outcome of chronic survival mode. This conversation shifts the perspective from finding a lost version of yourself to actively writing your next chapter.

Inside This Episode

• Burnout Identity Erosion: How your nervous system trades joy and curiosity for basic survival.
• The Shame of Losing Yourself: Why abandoning yourself to hold everything together is not a personal failure.
• Radical Authorship: Why identity is not something you find, but something you actively write.
• Breadcrumbs to Yourself: How noticing small moments of connection and buried values can help you rebuild your foundation.

If you feel like a function rather than a human being and want to reconnect with your authentic preferences, this episode will help you pick up the pen and start writing your next iteration.

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In this episode, I sit down with Maria Gallucci, a multi-award-winning real estate agent, author, and a proud Child of Deaf Adults (CODA), to uncover the hidden realities of navigating a world built for the hearing. Maria reveals to me the heavy emotional burden of acting as a childhood interpreter, the massive accessibility gaps in the housing and medical systems, and how she turned a life of feeling "othered" into a nationwide mission for radical inclusion.

Key Takeaways

• The unspoken trauma of children forced to interpret complex, life-altering adult situations.
• Why treating everyone "equally" is actually a massive mistake when trying to foster true inclusion.
• The hidden accessibility crisis in the real estate market, and the exact steps needed to fix it.
• How growing up as a CODA shaped her 30-year mission to protect Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and LGBTQ+ homebuyers.
• The simple, everyday habits that accidentally isolate marginalized groups (and how we can correct them immediately).

Chapters
00:00 The Heavy Burden of Being a Child Interpreter
03:54 How We Accidentally Exclude The Deaf Community
08:02 Turning Childhood Isolation Into a Fight for Inclusion
13:02 Why True Empathy & Inclusion Starts At Home
23:06 The Real Estate Industry's Massive Accessibility Problem
31:50 Protecting an LGBTQ+ Child From Intense Bullying
38:30 Maria’s Book: Raised In Silence & ASL Realty
40:53 Dismantling Systems of Comparison and Shame

About My Guest, Maria Gallucci
Maria Gallucci is a multi-award-winning real estate agent, author, and a proud CODA (Child of Deaf Adults). Growing up as one of six hearing children raised by Deaf parents, she learned American Sign Language before English and began interpreting for her family in complex adult situations at a young age. This unique childhood shaped her lifelong passion for inclusive communication and helping often-overlooked communities feel seen and respected.

For over 30 years, Maria has specialized in supporting homebuyers in the Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and LGBTQ+ communities. She is the founder of ASL Realty, a national platform that connects clients with signing agents, and her work is dedicated to bridging communication gaps and fostering a more compassionate world.

Resources & Connect with Maria

• Explore ASL Realty: https://aslrealty.com/
• Work with Gallucci Homes: https://galluccihomes.com/
• Read Maria's Book, Raised in Silence: raisedinsilence.com
• Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-gallucci-18725b9

Full episode transcript available here: Episode Transcript

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In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:

"I finally started putting myself first. Boundaries, saying no, protecting my time. And instead of feeling better, I feel worse. My relationships are tense. People are pulling away or frustrated. Now I'm wondering if this whole taking care of myself thing is just selfish. How do I deal with the fallout of finally choosing myself?"

We look at the concept of "Unspoken Contracts" and why setting healthy boundaries often leads to friction rather than immediate relief. This conversation examines how systems push back when you change your role and why choosing yourself is not the same as being selfish.

Inside This Episode

• Disrupted Systems: Why things getting harder does not mean you are doing something wrong.
• Unspoken Contracts: The invisible agreements in your relationships and what happens when you stop honoring them.
• The Shame Spiral: How shame disguises itself as conscience to make you feel bad for growing.
• Navigating the Fallout: The three typical responses to change (resistance, negotiation, and exit) and how to tolerate the discomfort of holding your ground.

If you have ever felt guilty for setting a boundary or worried that taking care of yourself is ruining your relationships, this episode will help you renegotiate your connections with radical responsibility.

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Listen in on another vulnerable conversation between Bronwyn and Kyira, both therapists, as they share their own challenges and insights on engaging with their parents. This conversation broaches the conflict many feel as we see how our unhealed wounds of childhood affect us today. Which begs the question: how do we have a relationship with that parent? What do we do with all our resentment so it doesn't spill out on our own children? How do we have empathy for our parent while still having boundaries for ourselves? How do we give grace while also holding accountability? When do we decide to cut off a parent?

Bronwyn leads Kyira in an Integration exercise with her young self in order to accept her mom as she is, not as Kyira wants her to be. Bronwyn also leads Kyira in a Grief exercise to say goodbye to the mom she had in her early childhood, which helps Kyira accept the mom she interacts with now.

Episode Chapters:

00:00:00 Introduction & Welcoming Bronwyn
00:01:00 Bronwyn's Background & Path to Therapy
00:05:00 The Physical Cost of Suppressing Anger
00:07:30 Understanding Triggers & Emotional Repression
00:22:10 The Integration Exercise: Healing the Inner Child
00:33:36 Live Integration Exercise with Kyira
00:48:43 Daily Rituals for Emotional Regulation
00:56:46 Why Flourishing is Never Selfish

About the Guest:
Bronwyn is a licensed marriage and family therapist, podcaster, and self-described "anger expert". As the host of the Angry at the Right Things podcast, she helps people understand the profound connection between suppressed emotions, physical illness, and mental health challenges. Drawing from her own lived experience navigating severe, debilitating depressive episodes, Bronwyn transitioned into counseling as a second career to offer the kind of deep, root-cause healing she once sought. She holds a master's degree in counseling psychology and another master's degree in nutrition.

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In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:
"I’m doing everything I’m supposed to do. I sleep, I take breaks, I even started saying no to things. But I still wake up exhausted and drag myself through every day. I feel like I’ve tried all the things and none of them are working. Is something actually wrong with me, or am I just bad at resting?"

We explore the concept of the "Invisible Load" and why chronic exhaustion often remains even after we add rest to our schedules. This conversation shifts the focus from managing your time to relating to your energy.

Inside This Episode

• Rest as a Ratio: Why adding more routines cannot restore what is being continuously drained.
• The Invisible Load: The high cost of monitoring emotional temperatures, performing competence, and rehearsing conversations.
• Energy Audits vs. Productivity Audits: Shifting the question from "how do I get more energy" to "where is my energy actually going?".
• The Armor of Patterns: How making yourself smaller to keep the peace creates a heavy, draining weight you might have forgotten you are wearing.

If you have ever felt like you are doing everything "right" but still feel completely depleted, this episode will help you identify the leaks in your container and move toward radical responsibility for your own restoration.

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In this episode, we explore shame not just as a feeling, but as a deeply ingrained training system. Ingrid Hu Dahl returns to unpack how silence, obedience, and performance are often learned early as survival strategies, especially in families shaped by heavy cultural expectations or generational trauma.

If you grew up learning how to perform for love instead of how to actually be safe, this conversation is exactly what you need to hear.

Inside the Conversation:

• The Shame Rulebook: How hidden shame dictates our adult behavior and decisions.
• Conditional Love: The painful difference between spoken unconditional love and lived conditional love.
• Emotional Shielding: Why children subconsciously learn to protect adults emotionally.
• Performance as Safety: The exhausting reality of proving your worth, and the heavy toll it takes on your nervous system.
• Untethering: How to break these patterns and find freedom without blaming yourself.

About the Guest:
Ingrid Hu Dahl is an author, speaker, and guide for those breaking generational patterns. Her work focuses on dismantling the deep-seated rules of shame and obedience that dictate how we operate in adulthood. By bringing awareness to these hidden survival strategies, Ingrid helps high-performers transition from seeking conditional approval to creating genuine, lasting safety in their lives and relationships.

Connect with Ingrid Hu Dahl:

• Website & Book: https://www.ingridhudahl.com/
• Instagram: https://instagram.com/ingridhudahl and https://instagram.com/sunshiningonmorningsnow
• LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/ingridhudahl

Resources Mentioned:
Where the Past Begins by Amy Tan: https://www.amazon.com/Where-Past-Begins-Writers-Memoir/dp/0062688197?&linkCode=sl2&tag=kindakreati0e-20&linkId=eabce7ca9f1ae5a59e93cb4557cffbaa&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl

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In this powerful conversation, we welcome back Elizabeth Kipp for the third time to discuss the missing puzzle piece in addiction and recovery: shame. Rather than viewing shame as a mindset issue or a moral failing, Elizabeth explains the biological reality of our nervous system. This episode breaks down what happens when the body senses a threat, why we seek out immediate soothing mechanisms, and how the mind creates stories to explain physical dysregulation.

Whether you are navigating addiction, struggling with parenting stress, or simply feeling overwhelmed by modern life, this episode offers a practical, science-backed approach to finding your center again.

Key Topics Covered

• The Biological Root of Shame: Why your nervous system is acting exactly as designed to keep you safe.
• Understanding the Polyvagal Lens: How the body cycles through sympathetic activation, dorsal shutdown, and ventral calm.
• The Anatomy of Addiction: Why the body seeks the fastest possible route to soothe a dysregulated nervous system.
• Trauma Loops: What happens when you bounce between fighting your circumstances and completely detaching from them.
• Real-Life Dysregulation: Kara shares a vulnerable story about parental panic, highlighting how "micro-doses" of shame compound during high-stress moments.
• The 40-Day Reset Protocol: A highly accessible practice using deep breathing for three minutes, five times a day to actively rewire the brain.
• Meeting Your Resistance: Why the urge to avoid this practice is actually your evolutionary edge.

About the Guest: Elizabeth Kipp

Elizabeth Kipp is a Stress Management and Historical Trauma Specialist, Certified Addiction Recovery Coach, Ancestral Clearing Practitioner, and international best-selling author of The Way Through Chronic Pain: Tools to Reclaim Your Healing Power.

Elizabeth blends neuroscience, somatic awareness, and spiritual wisdom to help people release ancestral and personal patterns of suffering. By integrating these modalities with meditation, breathwork, and energy healing, she guides others toward balance and inner harmony. Having healed from over 40 years of chronic pain, anxiety, and addiction, Elizabeth’s mission is to help others reclaim their inner freedom, embody resilience, and live from their highest truth.

Connect with Elizabeth

• Website: https://Elizabeth-Kipp.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elizabeth.kipp.3
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizi.kipp/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabethkipp/

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In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:

“I decided to separate from my partner after years of feeling unheard and emotionally unsafe. Now that I’ve pulled away, they’re suddenly being kinder and doing things I begged for in the past. It’s messing with my head. Does this mean I gave up too soon?”

We explore the intersection of shame, attachment, and self-trust — and how late effort can trigger old hope, grief, and self-doubt all at once.

Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:

• Why sudden kindness after separation feels so destabilizing
• The difference between crisis-driven change and sustained repair
• The grief of realizing “they heard me all along”
• How to focus on patterns over moments when making hard decisions

If you’ve ever questioned yourself because someone started showing up differently after you pulled away, this episode will help you separate hope from reality — and return to self-trust instead of shame.

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In this episode, I sit down with Andy Regal, a former television executive producer for major networks including MSNBC, CNBC, and Court TV, to discuss the pervasive issue of workplace bullying. Andy shares his deeply personal experiences with toxic leadership, detailing the severe psychological toll that covert and overt corporate abuse takes on high-performing professionals.

From the inherent limitations of traditional HR departments to the deep shame that victims internalize, our conversation exposes the realities of a problem that costs companies billions of dollars annually. Most importantly, Andy outlines a practical framework to help targeted employees reestablish their self-esteem, find psychological safety, and reclaim their joy.

• The Definition of Bullying: We define workplace bullying as repeated, targeted conduct that provides no benefit to the employee or the business.
• The Target Profile: We explore why toxic managers rarely target underperformers; they typically direct their abuse at the most productive, devoted, and loyal employees.
• The Heaven's Fallacy: Doing everything right and working incredibly hard does not guarantee a fair, supportive, or safe environment in the corporate world.
• The HR Problem: We discuss how Human Resources departments often lack the autonomy to protect employees because their salaries are controlled by the executives perpetuating the abuse.
• The Cost of Silence: Allowing a toxic culture to thrive costs US companies an estimated $300 billion a year due to employee burnout, absenteeism, and healthcare expenses.
• The Six Tenets of Healing: Andy shares how true recovery requires establishing psychological safety, rebuilding self-esteem outside of your job title, finding renewed purpose, reigniting joy, practicing positive self-talk, and finding forgiveness.

Download Andy Regal's free Bullying Recovery Guide: https://bullyingrecoveryguide.com

Regal worked his way up to Executive Producer, Executive Vice President of Programming, and VP of Original Programming at major media organizations such as Court TV, CNBC, and MSNBC. He served as Global Head of Video at The Wall Street Journal, overseeing journalists in New York, Washington, San Francisco, London, and Hong Kong.

He garnered honors, including the Loeb Award for Excellence in Business Journalism, the Associated Press Media Editors Award, "Innovator of The Year," and Emmy nominations for Obamacare "Prescribed" and "Consumer 101" on NBC.

• Website: https://andyregal.com/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andyregal-nwb/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/noworkbullies
• Substack: https://substack.com/@aregalmedia
• Link to the book: https://amzn.to/4slDzp9
• Workplace Bullying Recovery Guide: https://andyregal.com/tenents/

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