What would it look like to present your life and feel proud of how you grew? We dive into progression as a way of living—how small, brave choices stack into character—and map six practices that pull us out of ourselves and back into meaning: sacrifice, bravery, education and critical thinking, curiosity, gratitude, and faith. Along the way, we get honest about aging and purpose at 99, the joy and work of grandparenting, and why some lunch tables become complaint clubs while others stay alive with ideas.

We start with sacrifice as the antidote to a “make it about me” culture, using parenting and service as training grounds for purpose. Then we break down bravery through the “buffalo vs. cow” storm metaphor—face it and shorten it, or flee and get worn out. Real stories show how hard conversations earn respect and reset relationships, and why motive matters more than optics. From there, we wrestle with classrooms where attention is collapsing, the danger of treating feelings as facts, and how boundaries can protect without turning into walls.

Curiosity returns joy to learning and relationships, expanding your world beyond your own head. Gratitude shows up as a reliable marker of mental health—quiet, practical, and contagious. Finally, we talk faith: for some it’s native, for others it’s chosen; either way, service is a powerful on‑ramp to a larger, steadier life. If you’ve felt stuck, isolated, or bored, these six practices offer a grounded path forward—no hacks, just habits that hold up in storms.

If this conversation sparked something, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a buffalo nudge, and leave a quick review—what’s one practice you’ll lean into this week?

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Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson dive deep into the transformative power of coaching and how it unlocks emotional intelligence for meaningful personal growth. They explore how the Color Code personality system provides unparalleled clarity about who we truly are, quickly cutting through layers of self-deception that might otherwise take months to unravel in traditional therapy.

The conversation reveals how each color personality brings unique gifts essential for emotional intelligence: Reds naturally excel at motivation, Whites demonstrate exceptional self-control, Blues possess innate empathy, and Yellows offer outstanding people skills. Understanding these distinct strengths allows us to learn from personalities different from our own, developing areas where we might naturally struggle.

What makes this discussion particularly compelling is their honest exploration of why some people experience profound transformation while others remain stuck. Those who embrace growth with statements like "I'm good with who I am, but I want to become more" progress rapidly, while those who resist self-examination often remain trapped in patterns of blame and resentment. Through powerful real-life examples, they demonstrate how unresolved trauma can cause us to adopt behaviors contrary to our true nature—like a naturally peaceful White personality taking on negative Red characteristics as protection—preventing authentic healing and growth.

Taylor and Cat also address contemporary mental health challenges, distinguishing between those using psychological labels as excuses versus those genuinely working to overcome difficulties. They emphasize that effective coaching provides both compassionate support and necessary accountability, helping clients take ownership of their lives regardless of past experiences.

Ready to discover your true self and unlock your full potential? Join us on this journey of self-discovery and transformation. The Color Code might just be the tool that changes everything for you, as it has for countless others seeking authentic growth and healing.

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What legacy will you leave your children? This thought-provoking question frames our heartfelt conversation about the profound impact of parenting on future generations.

We begin with a touching story of a man in his seventies longing for one more conversation with his mother who had been his "rock" – a powerful reminder that family connections shape us in ways that echo throughout our lives. From this emotional starting point, Dr. Taylor Hartman shares his expertise on how parents can create meaningful legacies by first mastering the art of loving their children effectively.

The Color Code personality system becomes our guide as we explore how children of different personality types need to be loved differently. Red children fear failure and need validation for their accomplishments. Blues seek security and reassurance they won't be abandoned. Whites require space and connection on their terms. Yellows thrive when engaged in the present moment. By understanding these differences, parents can move beyond their natural tendencies to connect with their children on a deeper level.

We delve into what makes expectations healthy versus harmful, how married couples blend different family cultures, and why intentionality matters when building your family legacy. Whether your family values emphasize travel, education, service, or spiritual development, the key is making conscious choices about what you hope to instill in the next generation.

Perhaps most touching is our discussion about reconciliation and the eternal nature of family bonds. No matter your children's age or what conflicts may arise, there's always opportunity to repair relationships and reconnect.

Ready to deepen your parenting journey? Join our upcoming workshops designed to help you navigate these complex issues with greater self-awareness and understanding. Contact us at [email protected] or follow our Instagram for details on virtual and in-person events coming this fall.

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Are your daily actions aligned with who you say you are? That's the challenging question at the heart of this thought-provoking exploration with Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson. They dive deep into the concept of creating a moral backstop—a clear definition of who you are that acts as a foundation when life throws challenges your way.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Dr. Hartman shares his personal journey of choosing truth over being liked in his thirties, a decision that fundamentally altered his life path. This choice between authenticity and popularity represents a crossroads many of us face, often without recognizing its profound significance. As the discussion unfolds, we see how these seemingly simple choices form the bedrock of our mental health and relationship quality.

What sets this episode apart is its unflinching look at congruence—the alignment between our stated values and our daily choices. Through compelling examples, including a young woman who claims to value travel yet works at a job with no vacation days, we witness how incongruent living creates frustration and unfulfilled potential. Dr. Hartman challenges us to examine our true motives, going beyond surface behaviors to understand the root causes that drive our actions. This deep self-examination isn't easy, but as the conversation reveals, it becomes more natural with practice and yields profound rewards in authenticity and personal growth.

Ready to create a foundation that allows you to live with greater purpose and authenticity? Listen now to discover how defining yourself can transform your relationships and mental health. Share your thoughts about your own journey toward congruent living in the comments below!

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What if the question isn't whether to choose an easy or difficult path, but rather which difficult path will lead to your greatest growth? Dr. Taylor Hartman tackles this profound question in a thought-provoking exploration of life's inevitable challenges and how we navigate them.

Drawing inspiration from M. Scott Peck's "The Road Less Traveled" and its opening statement that "life is difficult," Dr. Hartman introduces a powerful framework through the refrain "Choose your hard." Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your heart. Education is hard. Being uneducated is hard. Choose your hard. These paired statements reveal the truth that difficulty is inevitable, but the right kind of difficulty leads to growth, strength, and ultimately, joy.

The conversation with colleague Cat Larson delves into why we often remain unaware of our dysfunctional patterns until they cause breakdowns in our lives. They discuss how modern therapy sometimes enables victimhood rather than building resilience, and how developing a clear moral definition helps establish boundaries that protect our wellbeing. Using the Color Code personality framework, Dr. Hartman explains how different personality types need to blend logic and emotion for balanced growth—teaching logical types to embrace feelings and emotional types to incorporate rational thinking.

Perhaps most importantly, Dr. Hartman emphasizes that growth is sequential. The challenges we face in each life stage prepare us for greater responsibilities ahead. Those who avoid necessary difficulties find themselves unprepared when life inevitably presents bigger challenges. By choosing the "right hard" at each stage, we develop the strength to live fully and authentically.

Ready to transform how you view life's difficulties? Listen now to discover how choosing the right challenges can lead to your most fulfilling life. Leave us a comment about which "hard choice" has led to your greatest growth!

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Ever wondered why some people achieve extraordinary success while others get lost in distractions? Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson unlock powerful insights about personal commitment and focus that could transform your approach to life's priorities.

Drawing from an unexpected source—Elon Musk's ex-wife—they reveal how knowing what truly matters and quickly saying "no" to everything else creates the foundation for meaningful achievement. This clarity of purpose isn't just for tech billionaires; it's a principle that helped Dr. Hartman develop the Color Code personality system and can help you stay on track with your most important life goals.

The conversation deepens as they explore character development across different personality types. Rather than merely understanding other personalities intellectually, truly "charactered" individuals actively incorporate strengths from all colors into their behaviors and perspectives. This multidimensional understanding gives what Dr. Hartman calls "second, third, and fourth sight"—a richer, more empathetic way of navigating relationships and personal growth.

Perhaps most profound is their discussion about releasing the past. Whether you're holding onto trauma or past achievements, defining yourself by yesterday limits your growth today. Using an illuminating example from tennis champion Roger Federer, they demonstrate how letting go after each point—whether victory or defeat—allowed him to win 80% of matches despite winning only 54% of points. This same principle applies to anyone seeking freedom from limiting beliefs or experiences.

Ready to clarify what truly matters in your life and develop the character needed to stay committed to your path? Listen now, and discover how understanding your core values can help you say "no" to distractions and "yes" to what truly fulfills you.

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Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson explore the critical connection between mental health and personal accountability, challenging the notion that circumstances rather than choices determine our wellbeing. They discuss how society's increasing focus on comfort and validation has created a generation struggling with resilience and personal responsibility.

• Busy people accomplish more while those with abundant time often struggle with motivation
• Taking ownership of your life is the foundation of good mental health
• Making excuses and shifting blame indicates deeper psychological issues
• People seeking mental health often surround themselves with others who don't hold them accountable
• Clean motives—aiming for mutual benefit in all interactions—are essential for wellbeing
• Looking outward and helping others is more healing than endless self-examination
• Comfort-seeking behaviors and excessive protection from parents can create fragility
• Building resilience requires facing challenges rather than avoiding them
• Common sense is the greatest gift in mental health but is often overlooked

Fight for the right to be here and recognize that life's challenges are opportunities for growth, not proof that something is wrong.

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Ever felt lost in a sea of expectations, both personal and societal, not knowing which way to turn for true fulfillment? Join Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larsen as they share stories of real people navigating life's trials, like a man wrestling with dissatisfaction in marriage and career. Dr. Hartman and Larson explore the essence of emotional connection and the struggles faced when it's lost, particularly the heart-wrenching choice of staying in a relationship for the sake of children. Discover insights about how past contentment can shape present decisions, and the necessity of finding new meanings after losing significant people in our lives.

In our exploration of self-awareness, we unravel how different personality types—red, blue, white, and yellow—experience growth uniquely. Emphasizing vulnerability and discipline, we discuss the crucial need for aligning self-perception with reality through feedback from close relationships. This episode is a call to action, urging a commitment to intentional self-improvement without making excuses for stagnation. We set our sights on becoming more self-aware by 2025, and with gratitude, invite you to embark on this journey of self-discovery alongside us.

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Discover the transformative power of relationships through the colorful insights of Dr. Taylor Hartman, as he joins us to explore his latest work, "Hartman Color Code for Couples." Through an engaging conversation with Cat Larsen, we unravel the profound dynamics of connection, decision-making, and intimacy, all viewed through the vibrant lens of color personalities. Dr. Hartman shares his passionate motivation behind the book, offering practical solutions for everyday relationship challenges. From understanding how the qualities you seek in a partner can shape your marriage, to learning how to be your best self for a healthier union, this episode promises enlightening discussions filled with real-life examples.

Navigate the complex world of boundaries and communication in relationships with us. We'll highlight how recognizing and respecting differences can lead to deeply enriching partnerships, particularly when approached with openness and humility. Listen as Dr. Hartman reflects on a 50-year marriage, emphasizing the roles of commitment, positive communication, and growth in maintaining healthy connections. Learn how acknowledging your partner's strengths and practicing humility can create an environment of mutual respect and understanding. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking to nurture and evolve their relationships through the unique perspective of color blends.

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Have you ever wondered why joy often feels so distant as we grow older? Join me and my wonderful co-host Cat Larsen as we navigate the complex landscape of joy, especially during the dreary months of January and February. We categorize people into three groups: those who are dispirited by life's challenges, those who bounce back, and those who emerge stronger. An eye-opening exercise awaits you—listing the ten best and worst moments of your life. It’s a reflective practice that reveals surprising insights into how closely linked our highs and lows are, offering a roadmap to rediscovering joy and understanding our roles in both success and adversity.

This episode also uncovers the transformative power of adaptation and growth. Inspired by a couple who turned their Jeep into a local adventure hub, we contrast their meaningful journey with my own superficial experiences to highlight how challenges can morph into profound learning opportunities. We dive into personality types, classified by colors, to explore how each adapts differently to change. Blues, for example, struggle with their quest for perfection, while reds and yellows adapt more swiftly. Drawing from Darwin’s theory of adaptation, we encourage embracing change as a vital survival trait, offering empathetic suggestions for those coping with trauma or chronic pain.

In relationships, fostering empathy and gratitude is crucial, as illustrated through a humorous anecdote of a client’s frustration with her husband’s contradictions around weight loss. We discuss the delicate balance between empathy and giving straightforward advice, urging a shift from inward focus to an outward-looking perspective that enriches others’ lives. Channeling the wisdom of St. Francis of Assisi’s prayer, we stress the importance of understanding over seeking validation, advocating for resilience over self-protection. As we wrap up, we express heartfelt gratitude to you, our listeners, wishing you a joyous season and eagerly looking forward to our next reconnection.

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