Most of us have an ex right, but how often do you think about them and is it even a concern if you do? Join Fola and Rukiya to discuss how normal it is to think of an ex and why this week's submitter isn't necessarily still in love with her ex even if he does weigh on her mind.

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As promised, join us for a cheeky chinwag about what we think settling in a relationship actually means, the age-old debate of settling vs compromising, and some uncomfortable truths around how we think we should choose our partners!

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Join Fola and Rukiya this week as they delve into the candid truth about how loneliness impacts Black women in the UK, and the importance of creating spaces where vulnerabilities can be openly shared. Tune in for an honest and empowering conversation about the taboo we call loneliness!

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This week's submitter is feeling disheartened by their (lack of) prospects for ever buying a house in this crazy climate, and thinks most of us need to accept we'll probably be renting forever at best. To talk through their concerns, we're joined by none other than Dani, founder of Home at Last to debunk all of the myths around home-buying for regular people who are clueless about their options, finding it hard to save money, and have counted themselves out of the house-buying race.

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There's no denying relationships require maintenance, but how much effort should a partner put in to ensure they're still physically attractive for their partner? Join Fola and Rukiya discuss this week's dilemma whilst they give super wise advice (we hope).

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What a crazy time to be us! We're sorry for the impromptu break, but we promise we had our reasons. Lock in for an explanation for why we needed some time to ourselves. Anyway, we're very happy to announce that we're back! Thanks for rocking with us lovers <3

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Whether you're in a relationship or a single pringle, you'll know that getting into and maintaining romantic relationships can be difficult. This week's toxic submitter plans on settling with their current partner, in the hopes that something better eventually will come their way. Join Fola and Rukiya discuss the importance of "Loving yourz" a word to J.Cole, again x

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This week we gave our toxic submitters a break from the heat and focused on some of our own toxicities!!

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Supporting a loved one with depression can be difficult, but what happens when their poor mental health starts to impact your joy? This week’s toxic submitter is struggling to support her friend who is struggling with her mental health. Join Fola and Rukiya as they discuss the difficulties poor mental has on the individual and their loved ones.

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According to this week's submitter, people of today aren't worthy of being role models to anyone. Between aunties who culturally don't seem to get it, and everyone else just being "basic" our toxic submitter fears they'll never have luck in finding people to look up to in their adult years. Do we think they're being harsh or can you relate?

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