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This week's toxic submitter is worried her boyfriend may not be able to meet her lifestyle needs as he prepares to become an entrepreneur. Join Fola and Rukiya discuss the difficulties that may arise in a relationship when a partner decides to change their circumstances.
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Should interracial dating come with so many complications!? This week's submitter is concerned that her best friend seems to think she's earned a "Black card" because of the man she's dating, and feels she is overstepping on some cultural barriers as a result. Join Rukiya & Fola to chat about the nuances to interracial dating and the difficulties that come with gatekeeping when it comes to culture.
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We all know how important attraction is when dating, but are we blocking our blessings by being too shallow, or even potentially problematic? This week's toxic submitter has met a lovely guy, but is struggling to get past his high pitched voice. Join Fola and Rukiya discussion how important attraction is when dating and how as women we may be feeding into toxic masculinity.
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International Women's Day has just passed and while it'll always be an amazing prospect at to celebrate women at its core, Rukiya has realised she's always felt disconnected from the holiday. Join us to chat about why we think days like IWD can feel a little exclusive, and things we can do to better include ourselves!
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Surprise, surprise women cheat too! In this week's episode Fola and Rukiya discuss the importance of honesty when being unfaithful in a relationship and whether the ex Love Islander, Marcel Somerville should forgive his wife Rebecca Vieira for cheating.
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This week we're joined by the award-winning Medical Doctor Dr. Jessica Katanga to talk about all of the nuances to health for Black people of our generation. We get into everything from uncle "wake the fack up" Eddie's controversial tips for healthy diet, to the history of why we can internalise self-hate when it comes to traditional African and Caribbean dishes.
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Join Fola and Rukiya this week as they discuss all things about SEX! From practical tips (from non experts), to insecurities that may arise during sexual intercourse with your partners or f buddy.
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Join Fola and Rukiya discuss why busy Brits are becoming more and more lonely despite living in one of the most fast paced countries in the world!
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In this week's episode Fola and Rukiya discuss the role Black women are expected to play in protecting, nurturing and uplifting others all whilst sacrificing their own safety, prospects and well-being.
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This week's submitter is feeling an imbalance of love in their relationship and is convinced her boyfriend doesn't love her as much as she loves him. Is it possible for love to be equal between partners, or is it a sign that it's time to leave the relationship? Let's get into it!
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