Waiting for Marriage...Is It Really Worth It? with Nights at the Round Table

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   We are back with part two of the conversation I had with the hosts of the Nights at the Round Table Podcast (actress/comedian, Anjelah Johnson; singer/songwriter/producer, Manwell Reyes; and story-teller/preacher Brandon Smith). If you missed part one all about doubt and faith, go ahead and listen to that here. This week, we’re gonna talk about sex, ba-by. All of these guests are married and so I just had to ask them: Did you wait for marriage to have sex? Was it really worth the wait? Make sure you stay until the very end for this one!   Anjelah’s Waiting Anjelah shares that her wedding night was awful (it’s not like the movies, y’all). She recognized that she had a lot of work to do in unpacking purity culture and the narratives that she was taught growing up.   “Even learning and exploring to say ‘okay, maybe we could try toys or a vibrator,’ that was so bad.” -Anjelah     Manwell’s Experience Manwell did not wait for marriage to have sex, but he clarifies that he wasn’t having casual sex either.   “Then I got saved and I was really scared of sex.” -Manwell     Brandon’s Waiting Having grown up in a very Christian space, Brandon was taught to never have sex before marriage and it instilled a fear in him. He shares his experiences in shutting down any sexual desire or thoughts. His wedding night was special for him and his wife (who also waited for marriage). Poll Responses 69% of people on IG would wait again if they had to do it all over 75% of people in my personal life would wait again if they had to do it all over I also share some stories that some friends and followers sent in about their experiences, so make sure you tune in to the full episode! Resources For all things Manwell’s music, go to ManwellReyes.com. For all things Anjelah, go to Anjelah.com. Check out Laugh on Beat to keep up with all things NATRT here. Check out Nights at the Round Table on iTunes here. Listen to my episode on Nights at the Round Table here. Check out TRC 145: Deconstruction 101 with Nights at the Round Table here. Check out my Patreon video on how it feels to hear these things as someone who is waiting for marriage to have sex: watch here. The countdown is ON for my book, Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex. It’s coming out in just over a month and you can still pre-order! It would mean so much to me if you did. Head over to sexlessinthecitybook.com to grab your copy!    Make sure you send an email to [email protected] so you can get your pre-order goodies, like a digital download of the first two chapters to read right now, a resource and journaling guide, and a discount to my shop! For $5/month, you can get access to exclusive video content for Patreon subscribers. Like… how to answer the question “why are you still single?” How to know if your standards are too high. And an update on my dating life. YUP! There will be a new video every week just for Patreon subscribers. Don’t miss out! Head over to Patreon.com/therefinedcollective to learn more and sign up! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.