Luckily, we were on the same page from the start about our budget which is considerably lower than what the average Australian wedding costs in 2023. 

I go through all the things I would rather the spend the money on, when/if we have a baby together, as that's what we agreed would be a more important place for US to put all that money. 

This may help highlight a few areas of extra support you would like to set up for your postpartum also.