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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia dive into a dilemma that feels straight out of a movie — but with way more chaos. A married woman admits she’s been in love with her coworker for 10 years… and even quit her job because of him. 💔👀

We unpack the messy world of workplace crushes, emotional affairs, and the fine line between love, obsession, and self-sabotage — all with our usual dose of laughs and unfiltered advice.

If you’ve ever dealt with a toxic crush, office romance, or being stuck on someone you couldn’t have, you’ll definitely relate to this one.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

7:16 – Dilemma: “I was in love with my coworker for 10 years, I quit my job because of him”

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Episode 74 of We Just Got Here Podcast is here, and Steph & Tia are bringing the chaos. From top breakup excuses to shocking a shocking Reddit Realness dilemma, this week’s episode is packed with laughs, drama, and a sprinkle of adulting survival tips.We get into:💔 Top breakup excuses – the wild, the funny, and the downright ridiculous.😬 Have you ever been dumped? 🤯 Reddit Realness: “I met my boyfriend’s girlfriend of 7 years today… in hospital.”✨ Adult Find of the Week – what we’re loving right now.Plus, Steph & Tia kick things off with their classic Ls and Wins of the Week, because adulting is always a mixed bag.If you love Reddit dilemmas, breakup stories, and podcasts that mix comedy with real talk, you’re in the right place.⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week11:01 – Top Breakup Excuses20:06 – Have You Ever Been Dumped?23:32 – Reddit Realness: “I Met My Boyfriend’s Girlfriend of 7 Years in Hospital”28:07 – Adult Find of the WeekTia’s Adult Find: https://shorturl.at/ho1HKSteph’s Adult Find: Any coffee machine within your budget➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to [email protected]🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia dive into a messy long-distance relationship dilemma. A woman flew out to see her boyfriend, only for him to ghost her and break up with her via text. 💔✈️📱We unpack the ups and downs of long-distance relationships, what it’s really like in Arkansas, and the different ways people respond to a partner being distant — all sprinkled with our signature mix of comedy and chaos.

Timecodes:

0:00 - Intro

02:14 - DilemmaIf you’ve ever dealt with being ghosted, struggled with a long-distance partner, or just love a wild Reddit story, this minisode is for you.

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia are back with a chaotic mix of breakup glow ups, personal glow up fails, and a wild Reddit Realness dilemma you have to hear to believe.

From the highs of post-breakup revenge glow ups to the lows of botched transformations, we spill our own wins and Ls, then dive into a jaw-dropping Reddit dilemma where a man stumbled across videos of his own brother while watching a very niche subset of p*rn. 😳

We also ask the big question: how kinky is too kinky when it comes to your partner?

🎯 Expect laughs, comedy podcast chaos, and plenty of unfiltered relationship hot takes you didn’t know you needed to hear.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
4:30 – Tia & Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week
15:58 – Post Break Up Glow Up
35:18 – Glow Up Fails
40:37 – Reddit Realness: ‘Watched a niche subset of p*rn and stumbled across videos of my brother’
57:35 – Adult Finds of the Week

🛒 Adult Finds of The Week: 

Steph’s: https://www.74duke.com/

Tia’s: https://shorturl.at/M3XC3

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He’s left her FIVE times… at this point, is it a marriage or a loyalty punch card? 🥴 After 15 years of “I’m leaving” followed by “I’m back, baby,” this husband wants another chance, but she’s finally ready to unsubscribe from his toxic relationship newsletter.

Steph & Tia dive into the drama, the psychology of negging, and how to set boundaries when your partner thinks “on-again-off-again” is a lifestyle. Expect laughs, chaos, and a sprinkle of solid relationship advice for anyone stuck in the break-up/make-up Olympics. 🏅

Timecodes: 

0:00 - Intro 

9:51 - Dilemma 

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In this episode of We Just Got Here, Steph and Tia are back with an exciting announcement, unfiltered thoughts, and their usual serving of banter.

This week’s Reddit dilemma? A woman ghosted her best friend years ago… and now she’s trying to say hi like nothing happened. The question is: Was the silent treatment justified or petty? 

We also get into:
📱 Should you go through your partner’s phone?
📣 Why “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups are doing the Lord’s work
💅 Why all women need a little more arrogance
🫣 And of course, our L’s & Wins of the Week and Adult Finds to help make life a little more joyful!

Timestamps:

• 0:00 – Intro / We hit 1K Subs! 🎉

• 4:18 – Big Announcement 👀
• 11:19 – Reddit Realness: Ghosted Best Friend Dilemma
• 28:13 – Tia & Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week
• 34:33 – Should You Go Through Your Partner’s Phone?
• 43:32 – “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook Groups
• 44:40 – All Women Should Be Arrogant!
• 48:04 – Adult Finds of the Week

🛒 Adult Finds of The Week: 

Steph’s: https://shorturl.at/KjCvH

Tia’s: available at your local Costco

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In this spicy Reddit Realness minisode, we unpack a wild relationship dilemma: A woman’s ex-husband cheated on her, married one of his mistresses, and now wants her to help them reconnect with their kids and make the new wife feel “included.” 😒

She’s asking: Am I wrong for saying no?
We’re asking: Is he out of his mind?!

Steph and Tia break down the emotional gymnastics, the audacity of men, and why “keeping the peace” shouldn’t come at the cost of your peace. This one is petty, painful, and way too relatable.

Join us every Monday for our brand new minisode where we get into the wildest Reddit dilemmas and confessions, to help you kick off your week with a cheeky gasp and giggle. 

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In this episode of We Just Got Here, Steph and Tia serve up relatable chaos, messy workplace hypotheticals, and a dose of Reddit heartbreak that has us all in our feelings. 😭💼

They kick things off with a hilarious convo about grown adults acting wild in Costco, before diving into their L’s & Wins of the Week including Steph’s love-hate relationship with Tyler Perry movies, and Tia’s hefty tax bill.

Then it gets juicy:
- Coldplay Jumbotron Gate and office drama you didn’t see coming
- What would you do if you caught your boss cheating at work?
- The funniest (and most strategic) excuses to milk your boss for all they’re worth 😅

In this week’s Reddit Realness, a woman finds out the real reason her ex broke up with her , and even though she’s in a new relationship, she can’t stop spiralling. Would you feel the same?

And of course, we wrap with Adult Finds of the Week, because adulthood is expensive and we’re here to make it a little easier (and funnier).

Timestamps:

• 0:00 – Intro / Adults in Costco

• 9:03 – Tia’s L & Win of The Week / Steph on Tyler Perry Movies

• 24:11 – Steph’s L & Win of The Week

• 28:02 – Coldplay Jumbotron Gate / Work Affairs

• 31:29 – What If You Caught Your Boss Cheating?

• 42:46 – Best Excuses to Milk Your Boss

• 45:37 – Reddit Realness: Why My Ex REALLY Left Me 💔

• 53:59 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week: 

Steph’s: https://www.revolut.com/

Tia’s: https://shorturl.at/wCa10

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This week on our Reddit Realness minisode, we’re talking about a woman who waited SEVENTEEN YEARS for her man to propose… and he only popped the question after she finally left. 😭💍

In the midst of the chaos, we also talk about puppy love, extra sensitive teeth after the dentist (totally off topic lol), and whether you should really stay with the same person from your teens all the way into adulthood.

Expect laughter, shady side-eyes, and some painfully real truths about love, time-wasting, and the fear of starting over.

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In Episode 70 of the We Just Got Here Podcast, we dive into the wild world of dating apps , from unfiltered horror stories to why more people are deleting Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder.👀 One of us shares the shocking moment a guy asked about her panties fresh off Hinge and we break down the different personalities of dating apps, and why each one seems to attract a different kind of chaos. 😅Plus, we unpack a real-life dilemma from a listener whose boyfriend said he thinks he can "do better" than her and is only with her as a placeholder. 🚩 How should she handle it? We have thoughts.0:00 - Intro/What is corny? 9:49 - Steph’s L & Win of The Week/Tia’s L & Win of The Week17:04 - Why people are leaving dating apps / Dating app horror stories36:14 - Best/worst dating apps40:30 - Hinge vs Bumble vs. Tinder personalities43:34 - Reddit Realness: ‘My boyfriend thinks he can do better than me, and I’m a placeholder’46:55- Adult Finds of The Week

Adult Finds of The Week: 

Steph’s: available at your local Gail’s

Tia’s: https://www.normahs.co.uk/

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