We Just Got Here

Disclaimer guys: We apologise for the lil audio issues on this one, we love to claim 'girls in engineering' as you know, but we're just girls at the end of the day! We had a few technical issues on this one but we'll be back to regular smooth audio listening soon!

ANYWAY....

This week’s Reddit Realness dives into a modern dating nightmare: a man confesses he’s sick of his girlfriend’s influencer persona — from curated gym selfies and fake motivational captions to pretending her life is “perfect” online 😩💅

Steph & Tia unpack the dilemma with equal parts chaos and honesty — asking the real questions: Can your partner be too online? 🤳 And what happens when someone starts performing their whole life for social media?

If you’ve ever dated someone addicted to “the aesthetic,” this one’s going to hit a little too close to home 😂💀

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro08:19 – Reddit Realness: 'I cannot stand my girlfriend’s gym/food/beauty influencer fake online persona.'

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia dive into one of the most relatable topics ever — the moment you realised you were dating an idiot. 😂💀

From questionable partner logic to the funniest “I knew I messed up” moments, nothing is off-limits. We also talk about the dumbest things we’ve said to our partners, and read the viral Reddit thread: “When you knew you were dating an idiot.”

And of course, this week’s Reddit Realness brings even more chaos — featuring a story about a roommate who keeps eating someone’s groceries but also does all the cooking. 🍴😂

If you love funny relationship stories, chaotic girl talk, and brutally honest laughter, this one’s for you.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro
09:32 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
29:32 – Can You Really Switch Off Your Brain Around Your Partner?
36:47 – When Did You Realise Your Partner Was Stupid?
57:20 – Dumbest Things We’ve Said to Our Partners
01:05:09 – “When You Knew You Were Dating an Idiot” Thread
01:14:51 – Reddit Realness: “My roommate keeps eating my groceries but also does all the cooking.”
01:18:19 – Adult Finds of The Week

Adult Finds of The Week:

Tia: M&S Chocolate Pastel de Nata

Steph: M&S Chicken Kiev Dip

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This week’s Reddit Realness is absolutely wild 😳💔Steph & Tia unpack a jaw-dropping dilemma from a woman who discovered her husband of ten years had been having an 11-year affair with her older sister. The betrayal, the lies, the family fallout — it’s pure chaos. 💀The girls discuss whether forgiveness is even possible after something this deep, why “double betrayal” cuts different, and why OP may actually be the villain here. As always, expect laughs, disbelief, and brutally honest takes.If you love Reddit relationship stories and chaotic girl talk, this one’s unmissable.⏰ Timestamps0:00 – Intro01:38 – Reddit Realness: “My husband cheated with my sister for 11 years.”➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to [email protected]🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

Welcome back to We Just Got Here Podcast! In Episode 83, Steph & Tia are tackling the ultimate generational debate: Gen Z vs Millennials 😭💀

From why Gen Z think Air Forces are now “dad shoes” to the top Gen Z traits and how they differ from millennials, this episode is a hilarious mix of chaos, nostalgia, and brutal honesty. 👟😂

We get into everything from Ls & Wins of the Week to the reality of getting older on the internet, and end with a listener’s Reddit Realness dilemma about a woman who can’t let go of her ex even though he’s met someone new. 💔

Whether you’re a millennial trying to survive TikTok trends or a Gen Z who swears we’re ancient, this one’s guaranteed laughs, debates, and too-real truths.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro

07:24 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week

30:54 – Air Forces Are Dad Shoes Now?!

42:27 – Top Gen Z Traits

48:31 – The Difference Between Gen Z and Millennials

56:16 – Reddit Realness: “I can’t let go of my ex, even though he’s met someone new.”

01:05:11 – Adult Finds of the Week💬

Adult Finds of the Week: Steph: New We Just Got Here MugTia: https://shorturl.at/Bz0Ko

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This week’s Reddit Realness is pure chaos. Steph & Tia unpack a wild dilemma from a woman who had her braids ripped out mid-hookup with a new guy… and then ends up blocking him after. 😂💀

The girls dive into hookup horror stories, embarrassing moments we’ll never recover from, and what’s actually recoverable behaviour vs instant block-worthy. As always, it’s unfiltered, hilarious, and a little too relatable.

If you love Reddit stories, chaotic dilemmas, and girl talk that goes off the rails, this minisode is for you.

⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
04:13 – Reddit Realness: “He ripped my braids out mid hookup.”

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia dive into the realest topic of the year — why autumn and winter are basically the seasons of financial ruin. 🍂💸

From new coats to Christmas shopping, dating season, heating bills, and “just one drink” that turns into five rounds — nothing and no one is safe. 😂 The girls also break down the hidden cost of relationships, the top expenses leaving us skint, and with a listener submission for this week’s Reddit Realness segment from a woman who’s pregnant and falling out of love with her husband. 💔

If you love funny podcasts, chaotic honesty, and the comfort of knowing you’re not the only one overspending this season, this episode is for you.

⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
4:45 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of The Week
25:07 – Autumn/Winter: The Season of Financial Ruin
32:58 – The Hidden Cost of Relationships
37:46 – Top Expenses of Autumn/Winter That’s Leaving Us Skint!
47:32 – Reddit Realness: “I’m pregnant and falling out of love with my husband.”
54:28 – Adult Finds of The Week

Adult Finds of the Week 

Tia: M& Greek Yoghurt with Vanilla (available in your local M&S food branch)

Steph: Navy nails

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This week’s Reddit Realness gets real messy. Steph, Tia, and special guest Christina Okorocha (co-founder of VAMP UK) unpack a shocking dilemma from a young woman whose boyfriend cheated on her with a man, but still wants to make things work. 💔👀

Should she stay and try to rebuild trust, or call it quits? The girls dive into sexuality, emotional betrayal, and what “cheating” really means in a situation like this, all with their signature mix of honesty, humour, and chaos.

If you love messy dilemmas and unfiltered girl talk, this minisode is one you can’t skip.

⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
03:57 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend cheated on me with a man, but still wants to make it work.”

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia are joined by Christina Okorocha, co-founder of the multi-million pound digital talent and PR agency Vamp UK. Together, they dive deep into the real side of entrepreneurship, influencing, and building one of the UK’s leading talent agencies from the ground up. 💼✨

From the highs and lows of running a multi-million pound business to the realities of influencing, the girls get candid about money, management, mindset, and what really goes on behind the scenes of success. Plus, they share their top content creator icks — and trust us, they’re too real. 👀

And of course, this week’s Reddit Realness brings chaos with a dilemma from a woman who admits: “I was the other woman… I got what I wanted, and now I’m miserable.” 💔

If you love podcasts full of laughs, unfiltered girl talk and a sprinkle of knowledge, this episode is a must-watch.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro / Guest Intro

6:16 – Steph, Tia & Christina’s Ls and Wins of the Week

34:22 – The Reality of Running a Multi-Million Pound Business

44:00 – The Business of Influencing & Top Content Creator Tips

01:03:00 – Top Content Creator Icks

01:07:56 – Reddit Realness: “I was the other woman. I got what I wanted and now I’m miserable.”

01:16:41 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week:

Tia: https://shorturl.at/chQN4

Steph: /https://www.toogoodtogo.com/

Christina: https://shorturl.at/FVwEzhttps://shorturl.at/FVwEz

Get your tickets to the VAMP Power Brunch here: https://www.ukblackbusinessweek.com/vamp-power-brunch/

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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia dive into a dilemma submitted by a listener. She writes in asking for advice on whether she should stay in a long-term relationship that’s gone a bit stale… or risk it all for a hot stranger she met on a night out. 👀🔥

We unpack everything, from emotional boredom to temptation, loyalty, and whether “the spark” can actually come back. Expect chaos, laughter, and a few too-honest takes as always.

⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro01:27 – Reddit Realness: 'Should I leave my relationship for a hot stranger?'

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Welcome back to We Just Got Here Podcast! In Episode 80, Steph & Tia take a hilarious and chaotic trip down memory lane, unpacking the 90s and 00s shows, celebs, and pop culture moments that would never survive in today’s cancel culture climate. From wild TV moments to questionable icons, we’re calling it all out.

This week we cover:

🍔 Ls & Wins of the Week (plus a wild food fight story to start things off)

📺 Why the 90s/00s was a wild time for entertainment

❌ Shows & people from the 90s/00s that would be CANCELLED today

🤯 Reddit Realness: “My cousin has convinced herself that my husband is in love with her.”

✨ Adult Finds of the Week

Expect nostalgia, laughs, and the kind of chaos that only Steph & Tia can bring.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week / Food Fight

32:14 – The 90s/00s Was a Wild Time for Entertainment

48:35 – Shows/People From the 90s/00s That Would Be Cancelled in This Day and Age

56:41 – Reddit Realness: “My cousin has convinced herself that my husband is in love with her”

01:02:01 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week: 

Steph: available in your local Tesco

Christianah: available in your local M&S Food 

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