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Episode 96 of We Just Got Here Podcast is a reality check 😭💔

Steph & Tia kick things off with Ls & Wins of the Week, before getting into that painful moment when you finally realise he’s just not into you,  plus a side rant on fake TikTok doctors giving out wild advice online 😳

The girls break down the top signs he’s not into you, from mixed signals to bare-minimum energy, and dive into a Reddit thread asking:

“What are some clear signs that he’s not into you?”

To close out the episode, Reddit Realness takes a more emotional turn with a listener asking for advice on how to find her spark again after losing confidence following a toxic relationship 💔✨

As always, expect honesty, humour, and the kind of conversations that make you feel seen.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
03:42 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
18:29 – That Moment You Realise He’s Not Into You / Fake TikTok Doctors
35:15 – Top Signs He’s Not Into You
01:03:16 – Reddit Thread of the Week: “What are some clear signs that he’s not into you?”
01:09:30 – Reddit Realness: “How do I find my spark again?”
01:20:18 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adults Finds of The Week: 

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This week’s Reddit Realness is pure emotional chaos 😳💔

A listener writes in with an impossible dilemma: she’s realised she’s in love with her best friend’s boyfriend. She hasn’t acted on it… but the feelings won’t go away.

Now she’s stuck with a brutal choice; confess her feelings and risk blowing up her friendship forever, or keep quiet and live with the guilt.

Steph & Tia unpack the ethics, the emotional fallout, and whether honesty is always the best policy when everything is on the line.

Be honest… what would YOU do in this situation? 👀👇

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Episode 94 of We Just Got Here Podcast is a deep dive into the delusion 😭💀

Steph & Tia unpack the most delusional timelines we’ve all created in our heads, from imagined relationships and career arcs to main character fantasies that never stood a chance 💭😂

After sharing Ls & Wins of the Week, the girls get honest about the things they’ve been embarrassingly delusional about… and why sometimes the delusion is what keeps us going 😭

This week’s Reddit Realness hits close to home when a listener discovers their coworkers have a group chat without them and suddenly, everything makes sense 👀💔

Funny, painfully relatable, and extremely chaotic, classic We Just Got Here to see us into the new year! 

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro
09:06 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
29:39 – The Most Delusional Timelines We’ve Created
52:19 – Things We’re Delusional About
01:06:42 – Reddit Realness: “I found out my coworkers have a group chat without me and it explained everything”
01:12:51 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week: 

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Tia: https://shorturl.at/hz5Ku

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This week’s Reddit Realness is one of the most shocking and emotionally loaded dilemmas we’ve ever covered 😳💔

A man discovers that his former best friend — someone who watched his daughter grow up and once stood beside him as best man — has secretly been dating, married, and is now expecting a child with his daughter.

Steph & Tia unpack the betrayal, the age gap, the broken trust, and the impossible question at the centre of it all: Where do loyalty, boundaries, and family draw the line when everyone involved is technically an adult?

This story is raw, uncomfortable, and guaranteed to split opinions.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
03:13– Reddit Realness: “My former best friend married my daughter”

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Merry Christmas from We Just Got Here Podcast 🎄💔

Episode 93 drops on Christmas Day, and Steph & Tia are getting into festive love, relationship realities, and the awkwardness that comes with spending/or not spending the holidays with a new partner 😳🎄

From Ls & Wins of the Week to unpacking that painfully awkward first Christmas together, the girls talk the perfect first Christmas and  when is it too soon to spend Christmas together?

This week’s Reddit Realness takes a heavy turn when a woman asks:

“AITA for crying after my husband was brutally honest about my looks, weight and our s*x life in front of our friends?” 💔

Steph & Tia discuss honesty vs humiliation and boundaries in relationships.

As always, it’s honest, chaotic, funny, with a festive twist.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
12:21 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
24:11 – That Awkward First Christmas With a New Partner
45:34 – Reddit Realness: “AITA for crying after my husband was brutally honest about my looks/weight and our sx life in front of our friends?”*
52:12 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week 

Steph: *does not recommend* Lotta lotion wrapping mouse 

Tia: https://shorturl.at/lJJXL

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This week’s Reddit Realness is one of the most heartbreaking dilemmas we’ve ever read 💔

A man discovers that his mother has been secretly sending cruel, degrading messages to his girlfriend of eight years

Steph & Tia unpack the emotional weight of family boundaries, loyalty, and protecting your partner, and ask the big question: should he confront his mother privately, or tell his girlfriend he’s seen everything and stand beside her openly?

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Episode 92 of We Just Got Here Podcast is chaotic, festive, and a little bit triggering 😭💀

Steph & Tia kick things off talking Costco shops, finding your personal style, and the small joys that keep adulthood afloat. From there, it’s time for Ls & Wins of the Week, followed by a brutally honest chat about what Christmas chaos really looks like; the best bits AND the parts we’d happily skip 😅🎄

Then, Reddit Realness delivers a dilemma that left us speechless:

‘I started matching his effort and he accused me of cheating’

Steph & Tia unpack why some people only feel comfortable when you’re doing the most, and why matching energy can expose everything 💀

As always, expect laughs and pure We Just Got Here chaos.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro / Costco Shops & Finding Your Personal Style
15:19 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
40:01 – What Christmas Chaos Looks Like / The Best Things About Christmas
51:00 – The Worst Things About Christmas
01:10:56 – Reddit Realness: “I started matching his effort and he accused me of cheating”
01:21:39 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week: 

Steph: Income protection insurance

Tia: https://shorturl.at/LFMuq

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This week’s Reddit Realness might be one of the most chaotic stories Steph & Tia have ever reacted to 😳💀

A man discovers that his best friend, the person he trusts most, has been having a secret affair with his mum. The fallout? Two relationships destroyed, a family in chaos, and a friendship that may never recover.

Steph & Tia break down the mother's lack of accountability, the betrayal, and whether this relationship can ever be repaired. Expect disbelief, laughter and classic We Just Got Here commentary 😂

If you love Reddit drama, wild relationship dilemmas, and chaotic storytelling, this one’s a must-watch.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro

01:51 – Reddit Realness: “My best friend is secretly having an affair with my mum.”

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Episode 91 of the We Just Got Here Podcast is pure festive chaos 🎄💀

Steph & Tia kick things off debating whether TV shows are genuinely getting scarier or if adulthood has softened them 😭 

Then they deep-dive into the wild world of work Christmas party etiquette, from the unspoken rules to the truly unhinged stories people shared online.

This week’s Thread of the Week is full of Christmas disasters, HR violations, and behaviour that should honestly be ILLEGAL at a work function 💅😂

And to top it all off, Reddit Realness delivers one of the funniest dilemmas ever: ‘My husband is so dumb, I think I need to leave him because of it.’

Steph & Tia unpack whether you can love someone whose brain simply… refuses to load 💀💔

As always, expect laughter, chaos, questionable advice, and way too much honesty.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro / Are Shows Getting Scarier Now?20:33 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week37:40 – Work Christmas Party Etiquette52:57 – Thread of the Week: Wildest Work Christmas Party Stories01:02:10 – Reddit Realness: “My husband is so dumb and I think I need to leave him because of it.”01:07:34 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week 

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Tia: https://shorturl.at/jzCEd

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