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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia read a dilemma that proves the grass is not always greener… sometimes it’s just AstroTurf 😭💀

A listener writes in after leaving her husband for another man who convinced her she “deserved better,” promised the world, and had her mentally picking out kitchen appliances and baby names. Fast forward a few months and… the man has vanished, the future has evaporated, and karma has clocked in early 😳

Steph & Tia break down how to strategically spin the block, when “deserving better” turns into self-sabotage, and why we should maybe stop trusting people who sell dreams with bullet points.

It’s messy, it’s honest, and it’s giving life lesson wrapped in chaos.

👇 Be honest…
Is this karma, or just a very loud reality check?

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Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀

Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal).

The girls also get into:

• The internet’s obsession with vabbing
• Why the dating scene feels completely cooked
• The rise (and menace) of AI videos
• Hyper-femininity, dressing for yourself, and rejecting the male gaze
• Tia’s emotional vulnerability, Steph’s maid-of-honour dreams, and classic oversharing

Things take a turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks how to recover after her boyfriend gave her a serious case of the ick 💔

As always, the episode wraps with Adult Finds of the Week and peak We Just Got Here banter.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
08:28 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
10:04 – Neighbour Group Chat Update: ShtGate Edition*
26:03 – Let’s talk about vabbing
35:31 – The state of the dating scene
43:04 – The rise of AI videos
46:58 – Hyper-femininity & not dressing for the male gaze
50:45 – Is Tia scared of emotional vulnerability?
53:33 – Steph as the toxic maid of honour
01:08:23 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend gave me a serious case of the ick”
01:29:50 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week: 

Tia: https://shorturl.at/hsesP

Steph: Available at your nearest Starbucks

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In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳

A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm.

Things get even more awkward when he calls his mum on the spot, and she starts shouting down the phone. Instead of acknowledging how intense it all felt, he doubles down and insists it’s just a close family who “care about him.”So the question is 👀

Is this just a strong support system… or a massive red flag?

Steph & Tia break down boundaries, family dynamics, and when “close” crosses into too much.

👇 What would YOU have done?

Timestamp:

0:00 - Intro

06:50 - Dilemma

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Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔

Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question:
Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become?

The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dynamic can quietly destroy relationships.

Things get even deeper during Reddit Realness, where an OP asks for advice after realising the man she’s dating only seems to like the version of her he imagines, not the real her.

As always, expect honesty, humour, and classic We Just Got Here chaos, wrapped up with Adult Finds of the Week.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
03:16 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week
42:14 – Are you dating for potential?
58:09 – Reddit Thread: How does it feel to be dated for potential?
01:13:06 – Reddit Realness: “He only likes the idea of me”
01:27:46 – Adult Finds of the Week

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Tia: https://shorturl.at/vGvgS

Steph: https://shorturl.at/YP0Q6

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The girls return with a new weekly bonus episode for an extra dose of chaos and laughs exclusively on Patreon

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a devastating dilemma 💔

A listener writes in after discovering that during the early years of her relationship, her partner was secretly sleeping with another woman,  sometimes on the same day she’d just left his place. When she confronted him back then, he denied everything… only for her to later find the messages, photos, and proof still saved on his phone.

Now here’s the twist 😳

He proposed on Christmas Day, and she’s left questioning whether the entire foundation of their relationship was built on lies.

Steph & Tia react with honesty, humour, and zero tolerance for nonsense — breaking down betrayal, trust, and whether you can move forward when the past finally catches up.

👇 Would you stay… or walk away?

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Episode 100 of We Just Got Here Podcast is pure chaos 😭💀

Steph & Tia kick off the milestone episode asking the important question: what would you actually do if you were in a horror movie? Before diving into their Ls & Wins of the Week.

We read out the worst text messages people have ever received, share some of the most unhinged messages we’ve personally been sent, and then hit peak Reddit Realness with a dilemma you truly have to hear to believe… should you keep babysitting for a woman whose “baby” is actually a doll?! 😳

As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week and classic We Just Got Here banter.

🎧 Whether you’re here for the laughs, the chaos, or the internet’s wildest stories, Episode 100 delivers.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro / What would you do in a horror movie?
10:29 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
26:19 – Reddit Thread: Worst text message you’ve ever received
36:44 – The most unhinged texts we’ve received
57:58 – Reddit Realness: Should I keep babysitting for a woman whose baby is a doll?
01:02:33 – Adult Finds of the Week

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Tia: https://shorturl.at/YzRXV

Steph: https://shorturl.at/D0MUw

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In this week’s Reddit Realness Minisode, Steph & Tia react to a shocking dilemma about a woman whose fiancée became obsessed with getting “revenge” on a childhood bully...and completely destroyed her own life in the process.

What started as unresolved school trauma spiralled into stalking, harassment, police involvement, job loss, and criminal charges. Now the listener is questioning everything she thought she knew about her partner, and whether their engagement can survive this level of obsession.

The girls unpack:

When confronting past trauma turns into dangerous behaviour

The problem with enabling therapists

Internet “revenge culture” and why it encourages people to go too far

Whether this relationship can (or should) be saved

As always, expect honest reactions, sharp takes, and classic We Just Got Here banter.

🕰️ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro

01:01 – Reddit Dilemma

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Episode 98 of We Just Got Here Podcast is a rollercoaster 😳💀

Steph & Tia kick things off asking the important question , can you actually learn how to be sexy? Before sharing life updates, including being back on Patreon, and getting into their Ls & Wins of the Week.

The conversation then turns to unconventional red flags, the subtle (and sometimes hilarious) signs we’re willing to ignore (OR NOT) for the plot.

Things take a dramatic turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks if she’s overreacting after finding an ultrasound photo on her husband’s phone 👀💔 and the reactions say it all.

As always, the episode wraps up with Adult Finds of the Week and classic We Just Got Here banter.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro / Can you learn how to be sexy?
13:22 – We’re back on Patreon!
17:00 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
48:35 – Unconventional red flags
01:25:48 – Reddit Realness: Am I overreacting about an ultrasound pic on my husband’s phone?
01:38:20 – Adult Finds of the Week

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Steph: https://shorturl.at/UpRoG

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This week’s Reddit Realness gets a little creepy uncomfortable and unsettling 😳

A woman writes in after discovering creepy photos of her brother on his laptop; photos she was never meant to see and can’t stop thinking about. Now she’s spiralling, questioning what they mean, why he has them, and whether she should confront him or pretend she never saw anything at all.

Steph & Tia unpack the unease that comes with stumbling across something disturbing about someone you thought you knew, and talk through how to handle situations where boundaries feel crossed but the truth is murky.

From trusting your instincts to deciding whether silence is safer than confrontation, this dilemma raises a big question: what do you do when you can’t unsee something?

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
02:56 - Dilemma

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