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Episode 123 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From whether working in entertainment warps your entire perception of reality, to mortgages making us genuinely boring people, to the real reason everyone is coming for Emma Grede right now 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

He has identified as gay his whole life.

He is in his 30s.

He is now questioning everything he thought she knew about herself. 😳

Steph & Tia handled this one with the care it deserved 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

11:38 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week

29:16 – Does Working In Entertainment Warp Our Reality?

35:37 – Are Mortgages Making Us Boring?

44:31 – Vent of the Week: Supermarket Loyalty Cards Are A Scam / Why Everyone Is REALLY Coming For Emma Grede 👀

01:02:05 – Reddit Realness: "Realising I'm Not Gay In My 30s" 😳

01:06:03 – Adult Finds of the Week

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This week's Reddit Realness has an update and the update has absolutely no chill 😭🎙️

4 years together. Engaged for one. They bought a house. They had plans. He thought it was the best relationship of his life. 💕

Then she started going cold. Distant. Disengaged. Quiet quitting the relationship until he had no choice but to end it himself. 💀

He came to Reddit for closure.

He wanted to understand why she couldn't just communicate. Why she let it get so bad. Why she didn't fight for them. 😭

And then the update arrived.

She had been talking to a man she met in French Polynesia. Every day. Multiple times. For months. 

He said he didn't think she cheated.

Then he found proof. 😳

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Drop your thoughts below 👇

Have you ever been quiet quit by someone you thought was fully in?

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Episode 121 is here and we came with absolutely everything 😭🎙️

The wins of the week are giving, the lies we've been caught out on are sending us and the vent of the week about post date reviews on social media has us fully divided 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

He pees on the bathroom floor. Every day.

She has asked him to stop.She has asked him to clean it up.

He does neither. 😳

Steph & Tia could not move on from this one and honestly neither can we 💀

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

12:25 – Steph & Tia's Wins of the Week

28:00 – What Is The Biggest Lie You've Ever Been Caught Out On? 💀

56:46 – Reddit Realness: "AITJ For Getting Upset That My Husband Keeps Peeing On The Bathroom Floor & Refusing To Clean It Up" 😳

59:22 – Vent of the Week: Post Date Reviews on Social Media? 👀

01:20:29 – Adult Finds of the Week

If you've ever had to (unfortunately) explain basic hygiene to a fully grown adult… this episode is for you 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness went somewhere we genuinely were not prepared for 😭🎙️

He loves his brother. Genuinely, deeply loves his brother. They are close. They are family. 💕

He also loves his brother's wife.

Not a crush. Not admiration. Love. Real, consuming, impossible love. 

And he has absolutely no idea what to do with that. 💀

Does he say something and destroy everything? Does he say nothing and carry this forever? Does he create distance and explain nothing?

There is no clean answer here and Steph & Tia did not pretend there was 🎙️

What would you do in his position? 👇

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro 

11:42 – Dilemma

If you've ever done something years ago that could detonate your entire present life… this episode is for you 💕

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Episode 119 is here with the usual chaos 😭🎙️

We're starting with food intolerances, getting into the wins of the week and then going straight to the brokest things we have ever done in our lives 💀

And yes. The broke lover girl era gets its full moment. 😭

Then there's the Reddit post.

She slept with someone 7 years ago. She just found out it was her boss' husband. She still works there. He still works there. 😳

Steph & Tia could not and would not move on from this one 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro / Food Intolerances

04:48 – Steph & Tia's Wins of the Week

15:59 – The Brokest Thing We've Ever Done 💀

40:26 – The Broke Lover Girl Era 😭

56:46 – Reddit Realness: "Found Out I Slept With My Boss' Husband 7 Years Ago. Help!" 😳

01:10:46 – Adult Finds of the Week

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This week's Reddit Realness got really interested… 

She works 60+ hours a week, has an 8 month old baby and has done everything right.

He's ballooned to over 400lbs, hasn't seen a doctor once in 6 years despite her begging, lost his job and falls asleep at the wheel 💀

She still loves him. But she can't stand to be near him anymore. And the guilt of feeling that way is eating her alive 😭

She's not his enemy. She just refuses to be his mum.

What would you do in her position? 👇

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Episode 117 is here and we came with EVERYTHING 😭🎙️

A hike that went completely wrong, a casualty that nobody can say they didn't see coming, Gunna's run club and the gate that nobody asked for but everybody has thoughts about 💀

Then the boring vs interesting women conversation that we genuinely could not stop having 👀

And then. The Reddit dilemma.

A woman gets engaged. Her future mother in law pulls her aside. Tells her she expects the ring to come back to the family if they ever break up.

So she handed it back. Right then. Right there. Immediately. 😳

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

04:21 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week /A Hike Gone Wrong & An Expected Casualty

44:38 – Gunna Run Club Gate

52:50 – Boring Women vs Interesting Women 👀

59:05 – Reddit Realness: "AITA For Returning My Engagement Ring To My Fiancé's Mum After She Said She Expected It Back If We Ever Broke Up"

01:13:01 – Adult Finds of the Week

If you've ever dealt with a future mother in law who had entirely too much to say… this episode will be deeply satisfying 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most unhinged and heartbreaking ones we've ever covered 😭🎙️

She met him at a conference. He was charming, charismatic, easy to talk to. Within weeks they were dating. Within months she was in what felt like the best relationship of her life 💕

He understood her demanding career. He never pushed to move in. Everything worked perfectly.

For 18 months.

And then his wife called. 😳

Not only did she find out he had been married for 15 years with two children the entire time…

He didn't even live where he said he did. He lived in a completely different state. 💀

And just when she thought it couldn't get worse — the wife found her mother. And contacted her too. 😭

Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts on the man, the wife and every single red flag that was hiding in plain sight 🎙️

Drop your thoughts below 👇Was there anything she could have done differently or was this completely impossible to see coming?

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Episode 115 is here and we did not come to play 😭🎙️

From a bush meat scandal in Dalston that we are still not over, to the conversation about eating ass that started casually and went further than anyone planned 💀

Then there's our wildest fantasies 👀 (some wilder than others, we'll let you decide)

And then the Reddit post that had us fully invested — she's catching feelings for him, everything is going well… but he's balding. 

And she doesn't know how to feel about it. And honestly? Neither do we 😭

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

09:39 – The Dalston Bush Meat Scandal & Eating Prawn Poo?!

16:17 – So Everyone Is Out Here Eating Ass?! 😳

42:00 – Our Wildest (Or Not So Wild) Fantasies 👀

01:14:14 – Reddit Realness: "I'm Falling For Him But He's Balding…"

01:16:21 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week

01:37:27 – Adult Finds of the Week

If you've ever had a feeling you were too embarrassed to admit out loud… 

Steph & Tia said it for you this week 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness hit different 😭🎙️

A Black woman living abroad finally found someone who felt like home in a foreign country. A man who shared her background, her culture, her world. And then she watched him flirt with another woman. Right in front of her. Repeatedly. Gleefully. 💀 

When she confronted him he laughed it off. When she went through his phone she found exactly what her gut already knew. His explanation? It was just a joke. Just an ego boost. He was never really interested. 😳

But here's the part Steph & Tia cannot move past — the compliments, the excitement, the energy he showed this woman… Was she the punchline the whole time? 👀 And is this just about flirting or is there a much bigger pattern here that needs to be talked about? 

Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and this one got deep 🎙️ 

Drop your thoughts below 👇Have you ever felt like you were the stable choice while someone else got his best self?

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