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Episode 133 is here and we are not tiptoeing around anything this week 😭🎙️

We open with a conversation that needed to happen and then we get into the therapy conversation that Black women specifically have been waiting for someone to have honestly 💕

Finding a therapist who actually gets it. Who gets you. Who doesn't make you feel like you have to explain your entire cultural context before you can even begin to heal. 💀

And then there's the Reddit post.

She agreed to a threeway. She completely regrets it. 😭

Steph & Tia had absolutely no chill on this one 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – How Often Do Women In Their 30s Flick Their Bean? 👀

14:17 – Tia & Steph's Ls & Wins of the Week

24:38 – The Struggles Of Navigating Therapy As A Black Woman 💕

56:19 – Reddit Realness: "I Agreed To A Threeway & I Regret It" 😭

01:05:02 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

If you've ever agreed to something you immediately wished you hadn't…this episode understands. 💕

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Her neighbour's son has been flirting with her for a year 😳

She told her husband.

His reaction gave her the ick more than the neighbour ever could. 💀

Steph & Tia could not move on from this one 🎙️

Was the husband wrong or is she overreacting? Drop your verdict 👇

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Episode 131 is here and this week we have THREE Reddit dilemmas and not one of them has a clean answer 😭🎙️

From the struggles of maintaining friendships as adults, to the Ls and Ws of the week —

And then the Reddit posts. 💀

She believed he was cheating.He wasn't. She ended it. Now she knows the truth. Now she wants him back. He is not interested. 😳

Her husband's best friend is back in the picture. Her gut is screaming. She ignored it once before. Should she follow it this time? 💀

And then the one that annoyed us — He ghosted her after seeing her naked. 😭

Steph & Tia had zero chill across all three 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro / The Struggles Of Maintaining Friendships

18:49 – Tia & Steph's Ls & Wins of the Week

34:14 – Reddit Realness: "My Ex Dumped Me Because She Was Told I Was Cheating. She Now Knows She WasLied To & Wants Me Back.Not Happening." 😳

40:39 – Reddit Realness: "Husband's Secret Love? Best Friend Is Back In The Picture. Should I Follow My Gut This Time?" 💀

47:48 – Reddit Realness: "The Guy I’m Seeing Ghosted Me After Seeing Me Naked" 😭

58:38 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

Three dilemmas. Zero clean answers. All the Steph & Tia energy you need. 💕

Adult Finds of the Week 

Tia: https://shorturl.at/Evvar

Steph: https://shorturl.at/KiETy

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During her pregnancy something felt wrong 😭

Her gut was telling her something. She even had a nightmare about it.

He told her she was just anxious. She believed him. 💕

Years later he confessed. 😳

And everything she felt back then?

She was right. 💀

Now he wants forgiveness because at least he eventually told the truth.

She's not sure she can. 😭

Steph & Tia had a lot to say and none of it was gentle 🎙️

Is she overreacting or is this a dealbreaker? Drop your verdict below 👇

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Episode 129 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From the real cost of holiday prep that nobody talks about honestly, to the worst online purchases we've ever made and fully regretted 💀

Then the big feet conversation that every woman with big feet has been waiting for someone to finally have 😭

And then there's the Reddit post.

His wife believes she is the prize.

Not in a healthy self worth way.

In a way that is quietly destroying everything they built together. 😳

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one and none of it was gentle 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

03:00 – Steph & Tia's Wins of the Week

26:30 – The Real Cost of Holiday Prep 💸

40:13 – What Has Been Your WorstOnline Purchase? 💀

44:39 – Struggles of Having Big Feet As Women 😭

59:35 – Reddit Realness: "My Wife Thinks Of Herself As The Prize & It's Destroying Our Marriage" 😳

01:04:38 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness and we are fully on the bride's side 😭🎙️

She has spent almost a year planning her wedding. She has gone above and beyond for every single guest. 💕

Enter her best friend of 15 years.

Let's just say she has never had to do anything for herself. 💀

She has one request for the wedding.

The bride said no.

And the fallout? 😳

We cannot. 💀

Steph & Tia had absolutely zero patience for this one and honestly neither do we 🎙️

Is the bride wrong or is this the most entitled best friend in history? Drop your verdict 👇

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Episode 127 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From beauty maintenance and the looksmaxxing conversation that had us fully divided, to the plus size women and worthiness debate that

needed to be had, to Steph doing something she rarely does 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

His wife filed for divorce. He accepted it. He was moving on.

Then her best friend ghosted her.

Now she wants to stop the divorce. 😳

Steph & Tia could not and would not move past this one 💀

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro / Beauty Maintenance

10:00 – Steph Apologises?! 👀

16:39 – Looksmaxxing / Plus Size Women & Worthiness Of Love 💕

34:12 – Steph & Tia's Wins of the Week

46:46 – Reddit Realness: "My Wife Want To Stop The Divorce Now That Her Friend Has Ghosted Her" 😳

57:11 – Adult Finds of the Week

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She's been with him for 4 years. Married for one. She had absolutely no reason to doubt her husband. 💕

A few months ago her husband had sex with his ex-wife. The woman who left him 10 years ago for someone else.

She only found out because her husband's ex is now pregnant.

And the ex's new husband isn't the father. 

Her husband is. 😳

When she confronted him he admittedeverything. His explanation for sleeping with his ex wife?

She asked him to. 💀

She's staying with her sister. Her brother is a solicitor who has found her a divorce lawyer. She feels broken. 😭

Steph & Tia get into it all🎙️

What would you do in her position? 👇

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Episode 125 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From the Love Island stan wars that are getting completely out of hand, to the diaspora conversation that had us fully in our feelings, to the Reddit post that we genuinely could not move past 👀

Because how do you find out your best friend of 14 years isn't having you as a bridesmaid?

Not a falling out. Not an argument. Just… not asked. 😳

And then there's the Adult Finds of the week — Tia is putting herself first and making time for herself 💕 and Steph has found the M&S raspberry and white chocolate cookies and she is not okay 😭

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

09:39 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week

30:57 – Vent of the Week: Love Island Stans & Diaspora Wars 👀

55:20 – Reddit Realness: "My Best Friend of 14 Years Isn't Having Me As A Bridesmaid & I'm A Bit Confused" 😳

01:03:41 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most quietly devastating posts we've ever covered 😭🎙️

15 years of friendship.8 year relationship. 2.5 years engaged.

She brought up her discomfort about their dynamic more than once while she was still with him. She was told she had nothing to worry about. She trusted them. 💕

They broke up. He moved out.

Less than 4 months later her best friend of 15 years hooked up with her ex. 💀

And the part she can't shake?

It doesn't feel random. 😳

When she told mutual friends what happened most of them immediately understood without her having to explain much.

Her best friend says she's "spinning a narrative."

She says she's just connecting dots that were already there. 😭

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Whose side are you on? 👇

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