We Just Got Here

This week the girls are getting into the Ls, the Ws, the vents AND the things we should have never — not even for one second — accepted in our lives 💀

Because apparently we have ALL stayed somewhere we had absolutely no business being 😭

And then we get a jaw-dropping dilemma from a fellow got here baby that you do not want to miss! 👀

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

1:00 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week

24:55 – Vent of the Week

28:30 – Craziest Thing You've Accepted That You Should Have Never Been There For

57:17 – Reddit Realness: "I Just Caught My Man Cheating On Me With Other Men"

01:07:55 – Adult Finds of the Week

If you've ever stayed in a situation way longer than you should have… this episode will make you feel very seen 💕

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Two Reddit dilemmas. Zero chill. Absolutely no holding back from Steph & Tia 😭🎙️

This week on Reddit Realness

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💔 Dilemma 1: She's been with her partner for 3 years. She has major surgery coming up in 10 days. He breaks up with her… via letter. Is she overreacting or is this genuinely one of the worst things a partner can do? 👀 😈

Dilemma 2: He cheated on his girlfriend. Then karma came for him immediately and did NOT hold back 💀 Was he a victim of his own decisions or did he genuinely get what he deserved?

Steph & Tia are giving their most unfiltered verdicts and we are NOT sorry 😭

Drop your verdict in the comments 👇 Who has it worse — the woman dumped before surgery or the cheater who got karma'd?

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Episode 111 is giving EVERYTHING and we are not holding back 😭🎙️ 

This week Steph & Tia are back on their nonsense — from gym couple drama, to the very real pressure of marriage and kids, to the Reddit reader whose relationship started crumbling the second she moved in with her boyfriend 💀 Plus… are we really out here EATING our skincare? We need to talk 👀 

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro / Gym Woes & The Downside of Training With Your Partner 

16:49 – Steph & Tia's Ls and Wins of the Week 

40:24 – Prison Guard Baddies 

51:10 – Fighting Against the Pressure of Getting Married and Having Children 

01:04:26 – 'Eating Your Skincare' / Are We All Too Desperate to Be Beautiful?

 01:20:58 – Reddit Realness: "My Boyfriend and I Just Moved In Together and I'm Starting to Resent Him" 

01:31:25 – Adult Find of the Week

If you've ever felt pressured to hit life milestones on someone else's timeline… this episode is for you 💕

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Episode 110 is HERE and we are NOT holding back 😭🎙️

This week Steph & Tia are back with another chaotic, honest and hilarious episode covering EVERYTHING — from the week's biggest Ls and Ws, to the countries we'd actually pack up and move to, to the thrush chat nobody asked for but everybody needed 👀

📌 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Intro

01:40 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week + Countries We'd Actually Visit

26:31 – When Not Replying to Texts Becomes Your Whole Personality 😭

45:03 – When That Thrush Comes to Get You 💀

51:53 – Reddit Realness: "How do I tell my colleague I'm not interested without making it awkward?"

59:30 – Adult Find of the WeekIf you've ever left someone on read for 3 days and felt nothing… this episode is for you.

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In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma.

A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted.

Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled.

She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing.

Is she selfish for wanting to leave?

Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship?

We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain.

Drop your thoughts in the comments:
Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point?

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

05:25 - Dilemma

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Episode 108 of the We Just Got Here Podcast is messy in the BEST way.

Steph & Tia start with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into absolute chaos — from fighting for justice for Punch the monkey to unpacking the very real problem of dusty monkey baby dads 🥴

Things only get wilder as the girls rank the ultimate “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs (some of these are genuinely dangerous), followed by a Reddit Realness story that will have you SCREAMING: she laughed at his turn-on… and then blocked him 😭

And of course, Adult Finds of the Week makes its iconic return ✨

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
1:36 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
7:54 – Justice for Punch the monkey! / Dusty monkey baby dads
30:50 – “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs
43:40 – Reddit Realness: “She laughed at my turn on and blocked me”
48:30 – Adult Finds of The Week

Expect unfiltered opinions, chaotic energy, and nonstop laughs.

Subscribe for new episodes every week 💅✨

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In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a confession that left us speechless.

A man matches with a woman on Tinder, falls hard, and genuinely believes he’s found something real.

No red flags. No suspicious behaviour. No profile picture. No visits to her place.

Until one night… they run into her husband.

He claims he had absolutely no idea she was married with two kids, and immediately ends it in front of her husband. But months later, after she divorces, she tries to get back with him.

Now he’s carrying guilt for being part of something that broke up a family, especially because his own mum cheated on his dad when he was a child.

Is he responsible? Or was he just another victim of her deception?

We unpack guilt, accountability, accidental affairs and whether ignorance truly makes you innocent.

Drop your verdict in the comments.

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Welcome back to Episode 107 of We Just Got Here Podcast 💛

This week gets REAL.

We start with life updates and Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week before diving into a heated conversation about polyamorous vs monogamous relationships… and whether Nick Cannon’s “colony” lifestyle is chaos or clarity 👀

Then in Reddit Realness, we react to a jaw-dropping dilemma:

A woman’s husband cheats on her… and when she confronts her mother-in-law for advice, she’s told she needs to “work on her marriage.”

The twist? Her father-in-law previously had an affair too.

Is this generational enabling? Internalised marriage loyalty? Or misplaced advice?

We unpack it all.

As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week:
Tia: Fresh mint tea
Steph: PALS & getting your health checks sorted

Follow and comment your thoughts and join the Got Here Gang 💬

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro / Life Update

17:48 - Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week

32:35 - Tia’s Ls & Wins of The Week

53:56 - Polyamorous and Monogamous Relationships?!/ Nick Cannon & His Colony

01:17:44 - Reddit Realness: AITA for asking my mother-in-law for advice on how she dealt with her husband’s affair after she said that I needed to work on my marriage when her son cheated on me?’

01:24:44 - Adult Finds of The Week 

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This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a heartbreaking dilemma about love, betrayal, and the moment everything falls apart 💔

A listener shares how, after a beautiful first Valentine’s together, she checked her boyfriend’s phone, only to discover he had been using Grindr since the very beginning of their relationship.

He insists he never physically cheated. He says it “meant nothing.” But the emotional deception? The secrecy? The double life? That’s what shattered her.

Now she’s left questioning everything:
Was it cheating?
Was he hiding his sexuality?
Can you rebuild trust after something like this?

Steph & Tia dive into honesty, identity, betrayal, and whether love alone is enough to fix what’s broken.

👇 Be honest…
Is this something you could move past? Or is it done?

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Episode 105 of We Just Got Here Podcast was supposed to be a short Patreon bonus episode… but due to a family emergency, we weren’t able to record our usual show this week.

We still wanted to give you your Thursday dose to get you through the rest of the week, so this one is a little more raw, a little more honest, and very much unfiltered.

Expect banter, dark humour, and chaotic tangents as we get into:

• An NHS rant that needed to happen
• Tia’s ethnicity conversation
• Tia’s issue with Chinese takeaways
• The Grammys
• Why there might be a private investigator after Tia 😳
• Steph’s brand new paranoia

It’s messy. It’s real. It’s slightly spiralling. And it’s very much us.

We’ll be back to regular scheduling next week. Thank you for sticking with us and being part of the Got Here Gang 💛

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