We Just Got Here

A woman went through major surgery, and her boyfriend didn’t:
❌ check on her
❌ call her
❌ visit her
❌ support her in recovery

Now she’s questioning everything — is he just emotionally unavailable, secretly checked out, or showing her exactly how little he cares?

Steph & Tia break down why this man possibly hates her, what this says about his feelings, and whether she should stay, confront him, or run for the hills 💀

If you love chaotic Reddit relationship stories, messy dilemmas, and brutally honest girl talk, you’ll LOVE this one.

⏰ Timstamps

0:00 – Intro
01:48 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend didn’t check on me after surgery.”

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia are fully stepping into their villain eras 😈💅

From setting firm boundaries to realising how many people can’t handle them, the girls get honest about self-respect, tough love, and outgrowing friendships and relationships.

Then, in this week’s Reddit Realness, a listener confesses:

“I think I nuked my relationship by drawing a hard line.” 💔

Steph & Tia unpack whether it’s really wrong to make demands to protect your peace, even if it costs your relationship.

As always, it’s funny, chaotic, and unfiltered.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
7:56 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
19:09 – Entering Your Villain Era / The Importance of Boundaries
42:45 – Reddit Realness: “I think I nuked my relationship by drawing a hard line.”
52:14 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of he Week:

Tia’s: https://shorturl.at/VE6Ld

Steph: https://shorturl.at/JDuDF

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This week’s Reddit Realness is the definition of “be careful what you wish for” 😭💅

A woman’s partner suggested they open up their relationship, convinced it would make things more exciting. But it backfired fast — she’s now got plenty of attention, while he can’t even get one date 💀

Now he’s angry and jealous… and she’s wondering whether to stay or leave 👀

Steph & Tia unpack the open relationship gone wrong, the ego behind modern dating, and why men love the idea of freedom until it’s not in their favour 💅💔

If you love Reddit relationship chaos, modern dating debates, and comedic girl talk, this one’s unmissable.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
02:29 – Reddit Realness: ‘Bf mad at me because he opened up our relationship and got no dates. AITA for how I responded?’

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia dive into one of the funniest and most chaotic topics yet — the wildest lies our partners have ever told us! 😭💀

From The Danish Deception recap to a viral thread full of unbelievable dating lies, the girls share the craziest lies they’ve heard AND told 😳💅

And just when you think it can’t get worse — this week’s Reddit Realness brings pure chaos as a woman confesses:

“I commented on a post of my boyfriend on an ‘Are We Dating The Same Guy?’ page… and he found out.” 😭💀

You’re not ready for this one.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro / Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week

17:25 – The Danish Deception Recap / Wildest Lies Our Love Interests Have Told Us

40:17 – Wildest Lie We’ve Told Our Significant Other

45:35 – Thread of the Week: What’s the Craziest Lie a Partner Has Told You?

56:48 – Reddit Realness: “I commented on a post of my boyfriend on an ‘Are We Dating the Same Guy?’ Page and he found out…”

01:10:28 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week:

Tia: https://www.instagram.com/doubleknotcafe

Steph: https://shorturl.at/hnw5y

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This week’s Reddit Realness episode featuring UK rapper Cashh is absolutely insane 😳💀

A husband confesses that his wife had a one-night stand… and now she’s pregnant. Steph, Tia, and Cashh dive into the emotional chaos — betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy question: Would you stay or walk away? 💔

Expect laughter, disbelief, and a little too much honesty as the trio break down one of the most dramatic Reddit relationship stories ever.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro

06:25 – Reddit Realness: “My wife had a one-night stand, now she’s pregnant.”

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, we’re joined by Jamaican-born South London rapper Cashh for a chaotic, honest, and hilarious episode 😭💀

Steph, Tia & Cashh talk Ls & Wins, “grandad” allegations, and whether we’ve officially become the aunties and uncles of the culture 😂 From old soul guilty pleasures to Cashh’s musical journey and new releases, it’s a mix of laughter, reflection, and pure vibes.

Of course, Reddit Realness delivers the madness again — this week’s dilemma? “Should I expose my best friend’s DL rasta dad?” 💀

Grab your snacks, because this episode is pure comedic therapy meets chaos.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

02:20 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week

26:28 – Will Cashh Ever Beat the Grandad Allegations?

33:59 – Are We the New Aunties & Uncles?

39:49 – Top Old Soul Guilty Pleasures

56:17 – Cashh’s Journey & New Music

01:09:16 – Reddit Realness: “Should I expose my best friend’s DL rasta dad?”

01:23:44 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week:

Tia: Carrot Cake Oatmeal 

Steph: House of Sunny’s Vinted Account 

Cashh: Somerville Adventure Playground

Guest Socials:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenameiscashh

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenameiscashh

Stream his new single 'Spiritual Battles' here: https://sndo.ffm.to/qjyzpn5

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This week’s Reddit Realness is one of the most heartbreaking dilemmas we’ve read 💔

A 35-year-old woman confesses she’s staying in an unhappy, loveless relationship because she believes she’s too unattractive to find love again. Her partner ignores her, dismisses her efforts, and has made her believe she doesn’t deserve more.

Steph & Tia unpack the emotional weight of low self-esteem, loneliness, and self-worth, and talk about how people lose themselves in relationships when they stop believing they deserve love. 🥺

This one is raw, real, and painfully relatable.

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro02:15 – Reddit Realness: “I’m staying in a very unhappy relationship because I’m a 35-year-old unattractive woman.”

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This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph & Tia dive into one of the most chaotic dating debates ever, age gaps 👀💔

How big of a gap, is too big? Where’s the line between preference and predatory? And what happens when “maturity” becomes an excuse? 😭💀

The girls get real about the grey areas, double standards, and the wildest dating scenarios they’ve seen , all sprinkled with their signature humour and honesty.

Plus, this week’s Reddit Realness takes a sad turn , as Tia and Steph shares a reddit dilemma about losing a friend and watching everyone online pretend they were close 💔

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

03:40 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week

21:00 – When Do Age Gaps Become an Issue?

31:56 – When Enough Is Enough / Accidentally Being a Monitoring Spirit

35:53 – Reddit Realness: “My friend ded and everyone keeps posting that they are close, but none of them were.”

49:05 – Adult Find of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week:

Tia: Peppermint pills https://shorturl.at/hjN4U

Steph: Fat Pat's https://www.fatpats.co.uk/

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This week’s Reddit Realness might be one of the most confusing stories yet 😳💔A woman discovers her husband’s long-term affair — but here’s the twist: the mistress doesn’t know he’s married.

Now the wife is preparing to break the mistress’s heart herself, and she doesn’t even want to do it...as she kind of likes the woman?

Steph & Tia dive into the emotional chaos:

Should the wife tell the mistress?

Who deserves the truth?

And some hilarious role play to end another chaotic minisode 💀

As always, expect laughter, disbelief, and pure Reddit madness 😂

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro01:00 – Reddit Realness: “I’m going to have to break my husband’s mistress’ heart, and I don’t want to do it.”

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*Disclaimer* Got Here Gang - huge apologies in advance for the audio issues. We experienced some technical difficulties this week but wanted to give you your Thursday fix (because consistent babes!). We'll make sure we're back on top form next week x

This week’s episode of We Just Got Here Podcast is chaotically self-aware 💅😂

Steph & Tia dive deep into the “Pick Me” conversation — asking the real question: is being a pick me really that bad? Or is it just loving out loud in a world that clowns you for it? 👀

From “strict babe” cosplay to the pick me traits that give us the ick, the girls get brutally honest (and hilarious) about dating dynamics and the fine line between being strict and being a red flag.

Plus, this week’s Reddit Realness is pure chaos — a woman’s marriage is on the line after her brother-in-law accidentally saw her naked 😭💀

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro

01:51 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week

24:31 – Cosplaying as a Strict Babe / Being a Pick Me Is OK?

45:44 – Pick Me Traits That Give Us the Ick

51:13 – Reddit Realness: “My husband wants a divorce since my brother-in-law saw me naked.”

59:04 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week:

Steph: https://shorturl.at/OVZNy

Tia: https://shorturl.at/amwQm

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