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Welcome back to We Just Got Here! 😂

This week, Steph and Tia are getting into everything from whether Haaland looks Igbo and the best Nando's orders to why women are absolutely allowed to be funny too. 😭

Plus, Steph's VERY dramatic Thorpe Park experience, skincare cabinets that look like chemists, potty training fails, whether people still know how to write, gentle parenting, taking your husband's surname, British accents, moving from London to Essex and a very messy Reddit Realness about having kids young and feeling like you've ruined your life.

Basically, another week of adulting with absolutely no idea what we're doing.

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Does Haaland actually look like an Igbo man?
03:28 Top Nando's order / KFC does matcha now?
03:58 Addressing the negativity
18:12 When your skincare cabinet starts looking like a chemist
21:15 Women are allowed to be funny too!
23:53 Our potty training fail stories / the time Tia pooed in the shower
29:59 Steph's VERY dramatic Thorpe Park experience
35:48 Are people not writing as much as they used to?
39:16 What would life have been like in the 1910s?
42:00 Does gentle parenting actually work?
43:36 When your kids are from a mix of everywhere
44:20 Is taking your husband's surname necessary when you get married?
53:17 Getting kidnapped in Nigeria / Was Jidenna wrongly cancelled?
57:14 What do British people sound like to Americans?
1:00:00 The different accents of Britain
1:02:13 The great migration from London to Essex
1:05:03 Reddit Realness: I feel like I ruined my life by having kids young and with the wrong people
1:13:20 Adult Finds Of The Week

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Happy gist day! 

This week, Steph and Tia get into a painful Reddit confession from a girl who realised she wasn't actually part of her own friend group after seeing an Instagram story of them all together at a wedding. 

After years of friendship, she quietly left the group chats, unfollowed everyone and waited to see if anyone would notice. Spoiler: they didn't.

Was leaving without saying anything the right move, or should she have confronted them first? 

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Welcome back to We Just Got Here! 😂

This week, Steph and Tia are tackling the absolute chaos of being adults. From facial balancing gone wrong and ridiculous dentist bills to tax returns, car expenses, running progress and the UK's alleged boil epidemic. 😭

Plus, the girls debate whether spinning the block is ever a good idea, the unexpected benefits of having separated parents, and a particularly messy Reddit Realness about a 34-year-old boyfriend getting increasingly cold because his girlfriend isn't having sex with him. 👀

Basically, adulthood is expensive, confusing and nobody gave us the manual.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro
0:52 When facial balancing goes wrong
04:00 Why is going to the dentist so damn expensive?!
07:55 Doctors using the internet to diagnose their patients
10:51 Dealing with tax returns as adults
14:06 Steph's running progress
16:50 The unexpected expenses of owning a car
23:51 How often should we be pooing?
25:56 Tia's carnival update
30:17 Why making your clothes might be a bad idea
39:03 The UK's boil epidemic
43:58 Why spinning the block is a bad idea
46:06 The benefits of having separated parents
48:20 Reddit Realness: My boyfriend is getting cold because we're not having sex
52:21 Adult Finds Of The Week

Happy gist day! 😭 This week, Steph and Tia are joined by James and Fuhad from ShxtsNGigs for a particularly brutal Reddit Realness.

A girl travels to Morocco to spend the weekend with her new partner, only for him to tell her he vomited after sex because of her smell. 😭 Was he being brutally honest, unnecessarily cruel, or is this one of the most awkward situations we've ever discussed?!

Tia, Steph James and Fuhad get into the dilemma and ask the question nobody wants to answer: how do you EVER recover from this?!

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WE JUST GOT HERE TOOK OVER THE SHXTSNGIGS STUDIO 😭🔥

James & Fuhad from ShxtsNGigs joined us for a VERY unserious but surprisingly deep conversation about relationships, romance, therapy, dating and the things men really feel 👀

From why relationships seem to end in August to whether men actually experience romanticism, putting your feelings aside for your partner and whether we’re all doing therapy wrong… we went THERE.

Plus, Tia tells us about her uni love fail, Steph has a shoe cupboard nightmare, we get into podcast editing drama and, of course, another chaotic Reddit Realness where one woman is using breaking up with her boyfriend as her weight loss reward 😭💀

Watch until the end because this one gets REAL.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro
01:55 Tia’s origin story
05:30 Steph’s shoe cupboard nightmare
08:55 Podcast editing drama
13:05 The underwhelming solar eclipse
18:28 Tia’s carnival prep
21:55 Fuhad’s win of the week
23:16 Why do relationships end in August?
26:15 Tia’s uni love fail
33:16 What does romanticism feel like for men?
45:10 Putting your feelings aside to accommodate your partner’s emotions
46:46 Are we doing therapy wrong?
48:35 Reddit Realness: “I’m so turned off by my boyfriend, I’m using breaking up with him as my weight loss reward”

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Happy gist day! 👀 This week, Steph and Tia get into a VERY petty Reddit confession from a girl who admits she’s secretly thrilled that her ex’s rebound got pregnant. 😭

Is she wrong for feeling this way, or is this just a little harmless post-breakup satisfaction? Steph and Tia get into the messy psychology of exes, rebounds and the things we'd probably never admit out loud.

Plus, the girls ask the important question: why is the dentist so damn expensive?! 🦷💸

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
01:14 - Why is the dentist so expensive?!
11:26 - Reddit Realness: I’m secretly thrilled my ex’s rebound got pregnant

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Are boyfriends embarrassing now?! 😭 This week on We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph and Tia get into dating, influencer culture, oversharing, social media trends, fitness goals and the ever-growing question of whether having a boyfriend is actually embarrassing or if we're all just overcompensating.

The girls discuss the Jools situation and whether influencers should be asking their followers for money, aspirational vs relatable influencers, why oversharing online feels inevitable, and Tia's attempt to bully back. 😂

Plus, Reddit Realness brings a messy dilemma: AITJ for not telling a woman her boyfriend was flirting with me until after she embarrassed me? 👀

Basically, we're questioning relationships, the internet and everyone's life choices this week.

TIMESTAMPS

0:00 - Intro

02:33 - The Get Baked cake review

08:00 - Life Hack: Where to get gym fits for cheap

11:40 - Fitness goals with no sleep? MYTH

19:20 - Are trends getting out of hand?

30:50 - The Jools Situation / Should influencers be asking their followers for money?

42:33 - Aspirational influencers vs relatable influencers

50:40 - Is having a boyfriend ACTUALLY embarrassing or are we overcompensating?

57:40 - Oversharing on the internet. Avoidable or inevitable?

01:04:42 - Storytime: When Tia tried to bully back

01:12:16 - Reddit Realness: AITJ for not telling a woman her boyfriend was flirting with me until after she embarrassed me

Subscribe for more chaotic conversations about dating, relationships, friendship, internet culture and figuring out adulthood when nobody gave us the manual.

Happy gist day! 👀 This week, the girls get into a messy Reddit dilemma from a concerned girlie whose best friend is having a baby with her married affair partner. 😭

Should she say something and risk blowing up her best friend’s situation, or mind her business and let the drama unfold? Steph and Tia get into the debate, plus the girls discuss whether carnival costumes and tailors are a scam and why Instagram hairstylists have us fighting for our lives.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
01:50 - Are carnival costumes and tailors a scam?
07:59 - The problem with Instagram hairstylists
12:05 - Reddit Realness: My friend is having her affair partner's baby

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Are your 30s making you question your body, your dating choices, your metabolism AND your sanity? 😂 In Episode 155 of We Just Got Here Podcast, Steph and Tia get into dating, relationships, body image, BBLs, getting older, metabolism and the general chaos of being a grown woman.

We recap Roots Festival, discuss the problem with OG artists, debate sneaking food into planes and cinemas, question whether being tenacious in love is actually just stupidity, and ask why everyone is so obsessed with having a big bum.

Plus, we get into running, disproportionate BBLs, Costco with a health-conscious partner and a VERY messy Reddit Realness about being the mistress. 🫠

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Intro
01:02 - Mike Tyson has taken over Amsterdam?
11:58 - Sneaking food into planes and cinemas
16:13 - Roots Festival recap and the problem with OG artists
22:32 - Tenacity in love or stupidity?
25:35 - When coming to her as a woman flops
34:13 - Why are we obsessed with having a big bum?
40:04 - A breathing trick to help running feel less painful
44:00 - The pandemic of disproportionate BBLs
47:35 - How your metabolism changes in your 30s
49:17 - Why going to Costco with a health conscious partner is never fun
53:24 - Reddit Realness: "I was the mistress…it was the most stupid thing I did"
01:10:12 - Adult Finds of The Week

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Happy gist day! 🎉🎙️ 

He is getting married in less than two months. However, last night a stranger texted him claiming to be his fiancée's boyfriend. 😳 

He sent pictures. He sent details. He sent everything. 💀 

Steph & Tia get into this one and it goes everywhere

 Is he overreacting or is this every person's worst nightmare two months before their wedding? 👇

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