Wet & Worthy Woman with The Wild Fem

The Hardest Part of My Feminine Healing Journey ~ Hyper-Independent to Being Soft & Receiving

If you haven’t heard the news yet … I’m leaving the UK. I’m moving to Tenerife. I’m going to be with my beloved.

This might be the most vulnerable & powerful thing I’ve ever done.

To go ALL IN on union—after years of teaching women to be sovereign & wild.
To leave behind the life I built, for a man.

After being raised by fierce feminists.
After being left by a father I’ve never met.
After being born into three generations of single mums …

In my world, opening my heart to a man is seen as weakness.
Softening is seen as silly.
Receiving is seen as dangerous.
Men are seen as a species incapable of love.

I have never known a consistent man.
I was raised to be hyper-independent—because that’s what kept us safe.

And now, I’m moving to a country where all I know is him … after a lifetime of men leaving.

This is the story of how I opened to divine love.
How I healed my abandonment wounds.
How I finally stopped playing “safe” … and went all in on union.

⚡️Claim the Masculine Healing Bundle here & rewrite your narrative about men so you can open your heart & receive ⚡️

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

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⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving 

If you’re feeling the call to deepen into the wild & forbidden parts of your feminine while softening to receive love, open your heart & heal your relationship with men, I invite you to work with me 1:1.

This journey is potent. It’s raw. It’s life-changing.
And if your soul is whispering “yes” … you already know it’s meant for you.

Apply HERE

With so much love,

Charlotte xxx

A potent solo episode from me, and trust me—you don’t want to skip this one.

Nervous system regulation is the hot topic right now. Yoga, breathwork, self-care routines … but what if I told you that NONE of it will actually work if you’re still carrying a lifetime of trauma & completely ignoring your PUSSY?

We store so much between our thighs—moments of disconnection, times we weren’t ready, times we overrode our own boundaries, even the way we’ve treated ourselves in solo pleasure.

This part of your body holds the deepest key to your healing, yet it's the most neglected in the self-love & wellness world.

In this episode, I’m sharing the one practice that changed EVERYTHING for me—the missing piece that no one is talking about.

If you’re ready to feel whole in a way you never have before, let’s dive in.

Listen now 💦🔥

CLAIM WISE NECTAR ~ 4x self-yoni massage healing rituals for just £44 with code 'WET'

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving 

with so much deep love & gratitude,

Charlotte xxx

This week, we’re diving deep into feminine magnetism, sacred union, and the raw, unfiltered truth about love with Feminine Energy Mentor, Love Doula & Sacred Union Guide, Zoe Dane. 💫

In this convo, Zoe shares:
🔥 Her past-life memories as a sexual priestess (yes, really!)
🔥 How to let your feminine magnetism flow—without contorting yourself into a “feminine” box for a man
🔥 The REALITY of divine union (spoiler: it brings up all your sh*t)
🔥 The secret to creating divine sexual union in the bedroom
🔥 How doing LESS actually makes you more magnetic

This is for you if you desire to be claimed, led, and held in partnership—not by manipulating love, but by fully embodying your own feminine essence. 💋

If you’re craving a love where you can rest, receive, and trust while deepening into your pleasure & power as a woman… tune in now. 🎧

Links mentioned:
✨ Heal your relationship with men & open to being supported - Masculine Healing Bundle
✨ Release trauma, tension & numbness within your pussy - Life-Changing Self Massage

Connect with Zoe:
📲 Instagram
🌍 Website
🎙️ Podcast

Come hang out with me on IG—I basically do a mini podcast in my stories every day 😉 @thewildfem

With love,
Charlotte xxx

What I’ve Learned from Giving Men Tantric Massage

When I first started giving tantric massage to men, I was terrified. I thought they’d expect a “happy ending” or act like horny animals

… but instead, I was deeply humbled.

Through these 10 experiences,

I’ve healed my own relationship with men,

seen their vulnerability up close,

and realized just how deeply the patriarchy has wounded them.

Men only receive touch when they’re fighting or f**king—yet they are craving a space to be held.

This episode is for the woman who believes men are only interested in one thing

… Let me completely transform your perception of men and guide you into a space of deep compassion, trust, and surrender.

🔥 Ready to rewrite your mindset around men & finally trust his love?
👉 Grab the Masculine Healing Bundle: thewildfem.com/men

💦 Want to learn tantric massage & give yourself this deeply healing trauma release?
👉 Join WISE NECTAR for just £44 with code ‘WET’: thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

✨ Come hang out on IG—where I basically do a mini podcast in my stories every day 😉
👉 @thewildfem

With love,

Charlotte xxx

This week on Wet & Worthy Woman, I’m joined by my dear friend, teacher, and mentor, Kate Moo, for a deeply potent conversation about reclaiming the sacred power of our menstrual blood and reconnecting with ancient feminine wisdom.

We’re diving into:

🔻 Why we shouldn’t flush our blood away—but instead honor and wear it as an act of sacred reclamation.

🔻 Teaching the next generation (and our partners!) to remember feminine blood and anatomy as sacred, not something to be feared or shamed.

🔻 Awakening the YONI WITCH within us all—and the profound work Kate has shared with me in remembering the magic of our womb space.

🔻 Reclaiming the WITCH—how ancient feminine wisdom lives in our bodies and how we can tap into it through deeper connection with our cycles.

This episode is an invitation to break free from shame, reconnect with your body, and awaken the deep feminine wisdom that’s been within you all along.

✨✨ SPECIAL OFFER: Get 10% off ALL crystal & glass wands to de-armour your internal world and connect to your body in intentional & healing ways. ✨ Use code 'wildfem' at this link → tantrictools.co.uk?ref=345

Let’s bleed, remember, and reclaim together. 🔥💦

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFT FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

⚡Want to experience the de-armouring (self yoni massage) practice that CHANGED MY LIFE?

Claim WISE NECTAR here for just £44 & prepare to release sexual trauma, numbness & shame - by deeply loving your sacred p*ssy

(Use code WET at checkout)

⚡️CONNECT WITH KATEhttps://www.yoniwitch.com/

Instagram: Sacred Yoni Cornwall (@sacred_yoni_cornwall) • Instagram photos and videos

This episode is SOOOO deeply close to my heart.

So buckle up for some FULL volume feminine revolution FIRE!

Today I'm bringing you the codes, wisdom & truths from the FORBIDDEN feminine.

SHE is the reason I started The Wild Fem,

& the reason behind ALLL the work I do to weave together the saucy & the sacred.

The Spiritual & the Sexual.

Women's Circles NEVER brought my denied, dripping wet, primal ANATOMY into the conversation ...

There's still a lot of sexual shame in the feminine spiritual space ... which is what we are here to CHANGE.

Today I'm talking about the HUNGER for more ...

the feminine hunger to go DEEP into the mystery, the denied, the burned & the banished to remember the ancient wisdom of

The Witch

The Lover

The Slut

& The Priestess.

Tune in to hear the awakenings of each of the forbidden feminine archetypes

& what each of them can teach you on your journey home to loving ALL of your sacred body.

The woman who's been persecuted for CENTURIES is the KEY to our homecoming as woman.

THIS IS THE WET & WORTHY WOMAN METHOD ....

My next in-person round begins in MARCH 2025 - In Cornwall (UK) - Check out my upcoming events + retreats HERE

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• ⁠Claim the FREE Inner-Lover Workbook⁠ for rituals, playlists + journal prompts to experience revolutionary self-romance

• ⁠Grab the FREE 'Stop Faking It' Masterclass⁠ & learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

⚡⁠Experience the WET & WORTHY WOMAN method here ⁠inside these chainbreaking at-home healing temple nights

Pregnancy isn’t just about glowing skin and baby showers—it’s a wild, untamed initiation into your deepest feminine power.

This week, I’m joined by Simba Dara, a Somatic Sexuality Coach and the founder of Heart of Eros, to unravel the primal awakening that comes with motherhood.

We dive deep into:

🔥 Pregnancy as a portal to your erotic, sensual self—beyond the cultural conditioning
💔 The fear, grief, and dread that can creep in alongside the joy of becoming a mother
⏳ The pressure of ‘bouncing back’ postpartum & why we should embrace change instead
🛕 What really happens inside Tantric Temples (hint: it’s not just about sex)
🛡️ How attending temples can help you reclaim your ‘no’ and find support in solitude
🐺 The fierce, animalistic mother archetype that nobody talks about
🌿 Choosing to parent differently—including through ethical non-monogamy

This conversation is deep, raw, and full of insights that challenge the mainstream narratives around motherhood, sensuality, and personal transformation.

Connect with Simba:
🌎 heartoferos.com
📸 Instagram @simbacerendara

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG:⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• ⁠Claim the FREE Inner-Lover Workbook⁠ for rituals, playlists + journal prompts to experience revolutionary self-romance

• ⁠Grab the FREE 'Stop Faking It' Masterclass⁠ & learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

⚡⁠Experience the WET & WORTHY WOMAN method here ⁠inside these chainbreaking at-home healing temple nights

🔥 THIS WORK SAVED MY RELATIONSHIP

Because when I stopped projecting my past onto my man … I finally got to experience what deep, divine, sacred union really feels like.

Unhealed trauma with men has been at the root of almost every conflict or tense moment with my man. 💔

I grew up with a fierce single mum,

who drilled into me that men were not to be trusted.

Add in my deep abandonment wound from my dad leaving when I was one,

plus layers of sexual trauma … and yeah,

I had some SERIOUS work to do to feel safe with men.

And then … I said yes to becoming a wife last year. 😵‍💫

BOOM – ALL my sh*t came up.

The belief that men are incapable of love.
The fear that he’ll get bored and leave.
The old, worn-out narrative that “he doesn’t really love me, he’s a man.”

Sound familiar?

I DECIDED to rewrite my story about men so I could actually stop being BLINDED by my trauma & see the man in-front of me. 🖊️✨

And let me tell you, this shift changed everything. ❤️‍🔥

I now trust my man completely … even from 2,000 miles away.

I don't have thoughts about him leaving or losing interest.

I see and celebrate all the ways he shows up – and he meets me with even more love.

I feel safe bringing my raw emotions instead of playing “cool.”

I finally got to experience what deep, divine, sacred union really feels like.

I’m inviting you to take this journey with me, love...

SAFE IN UNION begins Feb 14th

– a 6-week transformational experience to rewrite your beliefs about men so you can finally relax into love & receive like a Goddess.

💋 Weekly audio trainings (listen on-the-go)
💋 A deep LIVE healing temple (on Zoom)
💋 1:1 voice-note support from me
💋 Somatic practices + playlists to rewire your nervous system

⏰ Last call to join us!

Let’s heal, so we can finally be held. 💋

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡⁠Experience the WET & WORTHY WOMAN method here ⁠inside these chainbreaking at-home healing temple nights

In 2022,
I was doing the MOST feminine energy work to try & f****king relax.
I was feeling exhausted,
balancing starting my business with working an office job,
Juggling a new relationship,
Friendships,
Legally getting money back from my ex (long story),
& just LIFE ... you know.
I was dancing,
Unleashing my bliss,
Making love to myself,
Doing all the yummy romantic feminine energy s**t.
But ...
I COULDNT ACTUALLY RELAX & ENJOY IT
Because it was just ANOTHER thing to do.
It was adding to my list.
It was burning me out more.
It was a brief moment of release,
but I couldn't FULLY give myself permission to surrender & receive it.
It wasn't until I started to heal my inner-masculine,
By rewriting my beliefs about men that I ACTUALLY could rest & have compassion for my busy self!!!
You see,
Whilst I held the belief that men wanted to use me,
That they didn't want to support me with the boring stuff ...
I WAS USING MYSELF 🤯
When i thought men couldn't handle + didn't want my big emotions...
My inner man was TOTALLY not holding compassionate space for my process.
So not only did I attract my dream man on the outside by changing my beliefs about men,

But I also birthed the most incredibly loving & supportive man on the INSIDE!
I call him my inner-daddy 🫦
READY TO LEARN MY EXACT PROCESS?
JOIN SAFE IN UNION ...

We begin Feb 14th
An alchemical journey to rewrite your sh*tty beliefs about men so you can finally trust him, relax into love & receive like a Goddess ... without thinking you're "too much"
💋 6-week online Telegram group
💋 Weekly Audio trainings (listen + learn on-the-go)
💋 A deep LIVE healing temple (on Zoom)
💋 1:1 voice-note support from me
💋 Bonus somatic practices + playlists  

⏰ This is your LAST call to join at early bird!
(the price rises this week to £222)

JOIN THE JOURNEY HERE

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠

⚡Experience the WET & WORTHY WOMAN method here inside these chainbreaking at-home healing temple nights

⏰ SAFE IN UNION: Begins Feb 14th - Grab an early bird spot HERE & finally rewrite your relationship to men ⏰

This week, I’m joined by the brilliant Randi Cutmore, M.Ed.—an incredible ADHD coach, educator, & a beloved client of mine.

Randi has been on a powerful journey of reclaiming her ‘too much’ feminine truth ...

—both through the Wet & Worthy Method & by fully embracing her ADHD neurodiversity.

In this episode, we dive deep into the raw, untamed truth about BIG emotions and why they’re nothing to be ashamed of ~ but actually a strength.

If you've ever felt like you were ‘too much’ or struggled to regulate your emotions, this conversation is for you.

We explore:

✨ The striking parallels between untaming your feminine & unmasking from ADHD
✨ Why your big emotions are NOT wrong—they’re part of your magic
✨ Randi’s life-changing experience with the Wet & Worthy Method & rewriting her relationship to men
✨ The ADHD dating experience (because, let’s be real, painful small talk is a no-go)

If you’re ready to stop filtering yourself & accept your unique wiring, hit play & let’s dive in.

🔗 Share this episode with someone you know it will impact & tag me on insta @thewildfem for a thank you GIFT! 💦🔥

❤️‍🔥 WORK WITH RANDI - The Cornwall ADHD Coach

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

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