The last thing in the world that a man needs from you when he's knee-deep in grief and weirdness is "mothering".

The last thing he needs is for you to be there for him the way I want you to be there for yourself.

The last thing he wants you to do is ask him how he feels.

The last thing he wants you to do is look at him like, “Oh, poor baby.”

What he needs from you is to be the fountain of joy he can't connect to or that he wants to connect to just the way we do but feels guilty about it.

The best way to help a man going through a tough time is almost "not doing"!...you can learn how to earn his trust and actually help him get through and recover in the best way possible on The Siren Island Official Course & Community here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/

Grief is hard. It's not pleasant, and it shows up out of nowhere.

If you're experiencing grief from a breakup, or from the lack of attention, affection and closeness when the man you're with is going through a tough time - we're here on Siren Island to be shoulders to cry on, hands to hold, and love to help you love yourself.

Love, Rori