Many men are ignorant about how attraction actually works.

Because of this, they’re forever destined to stay single (and alone.)

While attraction definitely involves muscles, good looks, and money, it has more to do with:

Where you rank on the “Provider Vs. Lover Distinction Ladder.”

And what I mean by this is: even the most chiseled, 6-foot hunk of a man can fall into the “Provider” category within a heartbeat. A category with:

• No respect
• No sex
• And you’re treated like a doormat

Likewise, a fat, nerdy, IT programmer can be in BOTH categories — lover and provider — which means both short-term and long-term dating success.

And if any of this interests you, then you’re going to love today’s episode.

In this new episode, you’ll discover what women are actually attracted to in a man. 

Listen now!

Show Highlights Include:

• The secret to attracting women effortlessly isn’t about fancy one-liners or tactics, but this: What are women actually attracted to in the first place? (0:56)
• Think the answer to being friend-zoned is to voice “intent” you want to date her earlier on? Here’s why that’s completely wrong (and why the answer will blow your mind because of how simple it actually is) (1:37)
• How do I tell her I like her (without sounding like a creep)? (1:45)
• The most sophisticated, accurate, and effective resources that explain how attraction actually works (and is far superior than dating advice from YouTube) (2:59)
• How to find “the one” by applying long-term mating strategies instead of short-term mating strategies (4:32)
• Turn a woman on instantly by using nothing but this technique (and it’s got nothing to do with looks, status, muscles, or even what you say) (5:19)
• Where do you rank on the “Provider Vs. Lover Distinction Ladder”? Women make their mind up about a man before he even opens his mouth according to this ladder (5:50)
• In the friend-zone with an attractive woman? There’s still a chance you can date her (and marry her). You just need to know how, and we discuss the answer at (6:43)
• Who’s more likely to succeed in the dating arena? A chiseled, 6-foot hunk of a man, or a fat, nerdy IT programmer? The answer might surprise you (33:54)

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

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