On the 119th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I’m delighted to welcome Tom Asacker. Often described as a creative force, albeit a wayward one, Asacker has been an artist, CEO, corporate advisor, award-winning inventor, and professional magician. He’s a student of the human psyche and the author of several best-selling books on belief, human behaviour, and personal transformation. Since childhood, he’s been collecting and deciphering observations about all of the strange ways that people think about and behave in the world. For the past 25 years, he’s been endlessly improvising, searching for ways to communicate an art of living that confronts conditioning and embraces freedom. His latest attempt is his new book, Unwinding Want: Using Your Mind to Escape Your Thoughts.

In this illuminating conversation, Tom shares the incoherence of his childhood experiences and how they led him to question the nature of beliefs and the human condition. We discuss the role of the thinking mind, the illusion of control, and the significance of feelings over societal conditioning in guiding actions, as well as the prioritisation of relationship over goals.

Ultimately, this conversation is an invitation for our inner spirits to emerge and to live the lives we truly want.

For more of Tom's work, check out the following:
Tom's book and website: https://www.unwindingwant.com/
Tom's Newsletter: https://unwindingwant.substack.com/ 

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00:00 Why do people believe what they believe?

03:41 Seeking stability or something to lean on

06:15 The calming of the thinking mind

09:35 Feeling what we want and responding to that

13:50 Revealing of the illusion 

17:55 Dancing with life

24:30 Feeling alive and focus of attention 

28:38 Allowing an expression of our feelings

34:20 We do things for a feeling that doesn’t come

37:50 The prioritising of relationship

47:50 Wants from feelings versus conditioning

52:20 The role of suffering and confusion in revealing

58:39 Playing with our minds rather than controlling

1:04:34 What is a good life for Tom?

On the 118th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I’m delighted to welcome Sue Heatherington. Sue is a contemplative writer, poet, and co-founder of Waterside Voices, which is based on the site of a former Victorian reservoir in South West Wales and works with people globally. Her non-linear journey has included rural development research, a decade as a pioneering NHS Chief Executive, board and leadership coaching, and consulting. Now, her role also includes being an alpaca shepherd and carer. Sue’s book Quiet Disruptors: Creating Change Without Shouting was published in 2021, and her podcast, Be More Poet, launched in 2024. Her practice of Pause. See differently. Re-story… is expressed in her short posts published daily since 2018.

In this deeply engaging conversation, we explore our roles in the ongoing creation of life — how we shape one another, and the importance of moving beyond labels to truly connect with our shared humanity. We also reflect on the influence of time and space in shaping these experiences.

This episode offers a delightful invitation to slow down, to notice, and to reconnect with the felt sense of simply being.

For more of Sue's work, check out the following:
Writing and podcast: SueHeatherington.com
Book and manifesto: QuietDisruptors.com
Work: WatersideVoices.com

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 What is my role in the ongoing creation?

07:20 We are not complete on our own

10:20 We are always shaping each other

16:00 We need to be more human

20:00 Moving beyond labels and change

24:26 Sensitivity and the need for time and space

30:45 Realising what matters

35:50 Slowing down and being immersed in nature

44:30 An informal practice of paying attention

48:10 The significance of poetry

57:30 What is a good life for Sue?

On the 117th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I’m delighted to welcome Jamie Bristow. Jamie is a writer and policy advisor known for his leadership within the emerging field of inner-led systems transformation. He has deepened the dialectic between ancient wisdom, modern science, politics and public policy through a string of influential reports and collaborations with intergovernmental organisations, government agencies and politicians around the world. He currently leads on public narrative and policy development for the Inner Development Goals, and from 2015 to 2023 played an instrumental role in the UK's All-Party Parliamentary Group on Mindfulness, acting as its clerk and serving as Director of the associated policy institute, The Mindfulness Initiative. Jamie is a Senior Fellow at Life Itself, Research Associate at the Climate Majority Project, Honorary Associate at Bangor University and a Fellow of Mind & Life. He has also taught on programmes connecting inner and outer transformation at the Universities of California and Oxford.

In this enlightening conversation, we explore the question of what we are truly practising—merging mindful practices with our livelihood, the significance of our informal practice, and moving towards greater wholesomeness in our lives.

It serves as a wonderful invitation to fully integrate our mindful inquiries with the way we live.

For more of Jamie's work, check out the following:
Website: jamiebristow.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-bristow-25020b9/

Life Guild: https://lifeguild.earth/

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00:00 What are we practicing?

04:55 Realising we want to show up differently

07:48 A cause for hope - it just feels good

13:00 The merging of livelihood and inquiry

19:20 The significance of formal and informal practice

23:20 Showing up to life of intention

28:00 Mindfulness in public policy

31:00 Synchronicity and letting go

34:35 The balance between agency and unfolding

47:30 Bringing compassion to our reflections

50:30 Bringing more wholesomeness to the collective

59:00 What is a good life for Jamie?

On the 116th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I’m delighted to welcome Sue McDonnell—an executive coach, psychotherapist, and lifelong student of leadership, transformation, and human systems. With decades of experience guiding senior leaders and teams, Sue helps people break free from old patterns and embrace new possibilities.

Her approach is deeply systemic, recognising leadership as an interconnected dance rather than an isolated act. She has worked with executive teams at renowned companies, across several industries, facilitating interventions that honour both the seen and unseen forces shaping leadership.

Drawing on a wealth of experience—over 8,000 coaching hours—and influences from a range of great teachers, Sue blends relational intelligence, emotional agility, and adaptive leadership. For her, true leadership isn’t about control—it’s about presence.

Rooted in curiosity about the human experience, the wisdom of her Irish heritage, and a deep commitment to growth, Sue brings a unique perspective to leadership and change.

In this wonderfully soulful conversation, we explore what it means to navigate uncertainty, stay open-hearted in difficult times, and a connection with something bigger than ourselves. We also explore eternal ties with ancestors, touching on the unseen threads that weave through our lives.

This episode is an invitation to embrace the unknown with curiosity, wisdom, grace, and a deeper sense of connection.

For more of Sue's work, check out the following:
Website: https://www.suemcdonnell.com.au/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sue-mcdonnell-91b5983/

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Our relationship with uncertainty

04:00 Reconnecting with the land of your birth

09:35 Overwhelming connections with the divine feminine

13:10 Curiosity around our lineage and ancestors

17:52 Feeling held and protected by ancestors

24:00 Feeling the presence of the dead

26:40 Allowing our hearts to open

30:00 The conversation and connection is eternal

34:00 An awareness of the range of this life

38:45 The role of expectations in suffering

45:31 We are always disappearing and growing

48:40 Connecting with the divine

54.40 What is a good life for Sue?

On the 115th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Ariane de Bonvoisin. Ariane is a global soul, having lived in a dozen countries on 4 continents. She is a mother to her son Everest, a wife to her beloved, Alfie, and a dog-mom to her golden retriever Waffle. She has worked in venture capital, the music industry, launched her own start up, was a management consultant a very long time ago and now loves coaching CEO’s, founders, athletes and being a confidante for their professional and personal journeys. She is also a published author of many books, including her bestseller, The First 30 Days: Your Guide to Making Any Change Easier, which has been translated in a dozen languages.

She has been a keynote at many conferences including Oprah's, been invited to speak at places like Amazon, Google and the World Bank and also co-created a best-selling game called KidQuest with her son. She has been a world class swimmer and a ski instructor. She was also part of an award-winning documentary called The Highest Pass—a motorcycle journey through the highest roads in the Himalayas.

In this captivating conversation, we explore how to fully integrate our spiritual lives, paying attention to our intuition, and ultimately embracing self-acceptance and the present moment.

For more of Ariane's work, check out the following:
Website: https://www.arianedebonvoisin.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arianed1/

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00:00 How to live a spiritual life while fully being in this world?

08:00 Being allergic to her life choices

15:50 My intuition speaks loudest in the morning

20:22 Jumping into the void and faith

25:00 Exploring change and transition

28:10 Asking for guidance 

32:00 Conversations with the divine

35:30 Accepting what is and retreat in the everyday

40:10 Loving and accepting our minds

43:19 The journey to self-love

49:30 Acceptance of life and ourselves

52:30 The universe is the third parent

55:00 Recap and what is a good life for Ariane?

On the 114th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Andrew Alexander. Andrew is a husband, father, and grandfather, as well as a teacher, educator, and writer. Writing about intergenerational relationships in learning and the significance of education in a time of uncertainty.

For nearly forty years he worked with students in independent, informal, progressive/alternative schools, including Brockwood Park School - founded by the educator and philosopher Jiddu Krishnamurti.

In this insightful conversation, we delve into the nuanced nature of freedom, exploring its relationship with responsibility and the importance of mutual respect. We discuss how societal narratives often distort the understanding of freedom, leading to an illusion of individualism that neglects the interconnectedness of human relationships.

This conversation is an invitation to reconsider what we think about freedom, a theme deeply connected to our sense of a good life.

For more of Andrew's work, check out the following:
Newsletter: https://andrewalexander.substack.com/

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Introduction

01:30 How have we not learned?

06:20 Questioning our ideas of freedom

12:10 Limitations with individualised ideas of freedom

18:20 Freedom and responsibility 

23:20 A deeper sense of freedom

30:45 Why is freedom important?

36:31 Freedom and our interconnectivity 

44:00 The trap of creating an image of ourselves

48:30 The relationship between freedom and fear

56:30 Attention, time, and freedom

1:04:48 Recap and what is a good life for Andrew?

On the 113th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Minna Salami. Minna is an author and social critic, and currently senior fellow and research chair at The New Institute. She is the author of Sensuous Knowledge and Can Feminism Be African?, and her work appears in the Guardian, Project Syndicate, Al Jazeera, and other outlets.

In this incredibly captivating conversation, Minna shares her sense of living an extraordinary life, emphasising the importance of attentiveness and curiosity. We explore childhood and mystical experiences and their impact on her understanding of life. 

This conversation is an invitation to notice, to really pay attention to life, and to live your own full expression of life.

For more of Minna's work, check out the following:
Newsletter: https://msafropolitan.com/
The New Institute: https://thenew.institute/en/people/minna-salami
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/minnasalami_/?hl=en

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Introduction

01:25 Living An Extraordinary Life

04:21 Attentiveness and Curiosity

07:32 Childhood Reflections and Early Experiences

10:22 The Nature of Mystical Experiences

13:21 Appreciating Life's Continuity

19:15 Reflections on near-death experiences

26:00 A Groundedness of Being

29:10 The Range of Human Experience

32:10 The Intersection of Spiritual and Political Journeys

37:43 Navigating Obstacles: The Tension of Growth

41:10 Embracing Paradox: Grace and Anger

48:55 Spirituality and Feminism: A Symbiotic Relationship

58:10 What is a Good Life for Minna?

On the 112th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Anne-Laure Le Cunff, PhD. Anne-Laure is an award-winning neuroscientist and entrepreneur. She is the founder of Ness Labs, where her weekly newsletter is read by more than 100,000 curious minds. Her research at King’s College London focuses on the psychology and neuroscience of lifelong learning, curiosity, and adaptability. Her book, Tiny Experiments, is a transformative guide for living a more experimental life, turning uncertainty into curiosity, and carving a path of self-discovery. Her work has been featured in Rolling Stone, Forbes, Financial Times, WIRED, and more.

In this wonderful conversation, we explore the themes of curiosity, connection, and the journey from a linear to an experimental approach to life. Anne-Laure shares her personal experiences of feeling lost yet free and of embracing uncertainty and designing playful experiments in various aspects of life. 

This conversation is an invitation to experiment more with our lives.

For more of Anne-Laure's work, check out the following:
Tiny Experiments: https://nesslabs.com/book
Anne-Laure’s Newsletter: https://nesslabs.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neuranne/

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Introduction

01:17 Embracing Curiosity and Connection

03:11 The Journey from Linear to Experimental Living

06:06 Finding Joy in Uncertainty

10:20 Designing Playgrounds for Experimentation

12:30 The Structure of Freedom in Experimentation

15:09 Redefining Success: Cycles of Learning

18:31 The Intimacy of Curiosity and Growth

21:08 Quality of Life Through Adventure and Experimentation

29:19 The Importance of Play and Time

30:28 Understanding Time: Chronos vs. Kairos

36:56 Curiosity and Age: The Impact of Time Perception

40:17 The Industrial Society's Effect on Curiosity

42:53 Finding Joy in the Process

46:18 The Emotional Journey of Completing a Book

48:27 Reconnecting with Curiosity

51:34 The Surprising Connection Between Curiosity and Emotions

52:52 What is a good life for Anne-Laure?

On the 111th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Dr. Senem Donatan Mohan. Senem is a storyteller, story practitioner, and author based in Dublin, who is originally from Turkey. She holds a PhD degree in natural sciences and blends creative arts with science. Through her concepts Stories Cure and Aliveness Within she focuses on cultural and individual vitality. Over the past two decades, Senem has touched the lives of thousands of children and adults through her performances and books. 

In this wonderful conversation, we explore the undercurrents and rhythms of life, balancing masculine and feminine energies, the visible and invisible, the guiding capacities of our inner child, moments of being lost in time, and the transformative powers of storytelling.

The whole conversation embodies this rhythm and noticing.

For further content and information check out the following:
- Senem's website: senemdonatanmohan.com
- Senem's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/senem-donatan-mohan/

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Introduction
01:11 Exploring the Undercurrents of Life
04:02 The Story Behind Valentine's Day

07:24 Sensing Rituals and Traditions

10:10 The Magic of Daily Life

13:09 Creativity and Personal Journey

16:09 Finding Vitality in Everyday Moments

27:10 Embracing Timelessness and Creativity

29:23 The Dance of Science and Art

32:49 Navigating the Duality of Speed and Depth

37:31 Connecting with the Inner Child

39:48 The Transformative Power of Storytelling

46:01 Communicating with Ancestral Spirits

53:29 What is a Good Life for Senem?

On the 110th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I am delighted to introduce our guest, Paul Davis. Paul is an award-winning business growth consultant and speaker, a three-time best-selling author, an intuitive business mentor, and a recognised thought leader. He combines his innate intuitive gifts and years of business growth experience to help guide clients to greater results.

In this conversation, Paul shares his lifelong quest to understand what keeps him wanting to live life and how he has navigated through various philosophies and methodologies to find his purpose. We explore his realisation of his intuitive abilities, the significance of our intentions, discovering our soul contracts, and the importance of being your genius you.

Paul has a fascinating story and this whole episode is a wonderful invitation to rekindle the power of our intuition.

For further content and information check out the following:
- Paul's website: https://davisbusinessconsultants.com/
- Paul's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pauldavisdublin/

Contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to explore your own lines of self-inquiry through 1-on-1 coaching, take part in my 5-week Silent Conversation group courses, discuss experiences I create to stimulate greater trust, communication, and connection, amongst your leadership teams, or you simply want to get in touch.

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00:00 Introduction
01:37 Exploring the Question of Life's Purpose

10:41 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Intuition

19:47 Understanding Intuition and Its Impact

31:39 Connecting with the Super Conscious

32:08 The Concept of Super-Consciousness

33:04 Personal Journey to God

37:07 Experiencing Unconditional Love

39:03 Partnership with the Divine

42:13 Understanding Time and Destiny

45:48 Exploring Soul Contracts

52:59 Transitioning from Accountant to Intuitive Consultant

57:20 What is a Good Life for Paul?