Ask a Death Doula

What Is An ”After Death Plan” And Why It’s Important To Have One


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Exploring the Empowering Facets of Death and Dying

Can we truly embrace life without acknowledging its end?

This poignant question is at the heart of today's transformative discussion as we delve into the empowering and healing aspects of end-of-life planning. Sharing insights from my years as a hospice nurse and my training in Level 1 Doulagiver's family caregiver training, we explore the importance of creating an after-death plan and voicing our wishes for after we pass, and how this can shift our perspective on our everyday life.

Our journey begins with a deep dive into end-of-life care and its many facets. We focus on the need to slow down, be present, and embrace the idea of home funerals - a topic that is often met with hesitance. Through open and candid discussions, we highlight how crucial conversations with family about after-death plans can profoundly impact the grieving process. We also touch on the legal considerations, planning, and the potential healing quality of a home wake.

We then move on to the more personalized aspects of after-death plans and celebrations. You're given a glimpse into the myriad of choices available for what happens to your body after death, including eco-friendly options such as water cremation and human composting. We also explore the importance of planning for a life celebration or memorial and the power of leaving behind a special letter or memento. I hope that this conversation inspires and empowers you to take an active role in your end-of-life planning, leading you to a new realization of the joy and beauty of life. Join us as we break the silence around death and dying, and together, let's celebrate life in all its phases.

 

We dive into:

(02:49 - 04:11) Grief Healing Through End of Life Training

(10:12 - 11:55) Being Present in Grief
(16:02 - 16:58) Supporting End-of-Life Choices for Loved Ones
(20:01 - 21:45) The Power of Three-Day Home Wakes
(26:06 - 26:59) After Death Disposition

 

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