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What do you do when your best friend's live in a different city than you and are always posting about how close they are? What about if most of your bridesmaids don't post pictures from your wedding, even though you posted pictures from theirs? How do you talk to a friend (who is also an influencer) who's always posting stuff on social media when you're together? In this week's episode of Hello Hayes, we're talking about social media, jealousy, and friendship.

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0:00 - Overview of the three letters

2:33 - Letter 1: My BFFs always post each other

3:30 - How feeling lonely impacts our life

5:26 - Feelings are different than reality

6:56 - What IS the reality in this situation?

13:33 - How do we stop feeling left out?

15:33 - How to handle this moving forward

17:13 - Should you tell them how you feel?

20:30 - Letter 2: Bridesmaids didn’t post about my wedding

23:42 - The case for practicing restraint

25:50 - Is a wedding an achievement?

27:48 - Feeling inadequate

28:00 - A reframe to help

29:55 - Speaking your truth

32:00 - Letter 3: OG bestie is an influencer

34:10 - Am I (Hayes) an influencer?

35:00 - Showing empathy for your friend

37:23 - Reflection question to ask yourself

38:00 - How to talk to her in the moment

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