Talking Toddlers

Why Asking “What’s This?” Often Backfires With Late Talkers Ep 138


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If your toddler isn’t talking much yet, you may have found yourself asking, “What’s this?” — hoping to hear a word.

But for many late talkers, that well-intentioned question quietly shuts things down.

In this episode, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of clinical and real-life experience — explains why asking for words too early can work against development, and what actually helps toddlers feel ready to communicate.

You’ll learn:

  • Why silence doesn’t mean your child won’t talk — just that the foundations are still forming
  • The difference between 'testing' and participating in early communication
  • The five key areas that support speech before words appear
  • How attention, imitation, play, daily rhythms, and nervous system regulation all shape language development

This episode isn’t about doing more or pushing harder.

It’s about creating the conditions that make communication feel safe, comfortable, interesting, and worth the effort.

🎧 You’ll also hear a simple metaphor that reframes speech development — and reminds parents why patience, presence, and trust matter more than pressure.

📥 Free resource mentioned:
The Top 10 Essential Skills Every Baby Needs Before Talking

🔗 Discovery Calls: Looking ahead 

As we move into the new year, I offer Discovery Calls for parents of babies & toddlers. These are free, one-to-one conversations designed to help determine whether a focused 6-week parent coaching format would be helpful for your family at this time. Not evaluations, not therapy - just space to reflect and be heard.

There’s no pressure and no obligation. 

January is now open, and you’ll find the details here: 👉 Start here to request a Discovery Call

CLICK HERE FOR: Building Vocabulary: Single Words to 2-Word Phrases

Because the little years are the big years.

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Disclaimer: 

This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.

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