Have you ever had a client just… disappear? No explanation, no cancellation - just silence? Being ghosted as a therapist can be frustrating, confusing, and even a little painful. It’s easy to start wondering: did I do something wrong?

In this episode, I share my own experience of being ghosted by a client - and why I assumed the worst instead of considering other possibilities. We’ll explore why therapy clients ghost, how self-doubt and imposter syndrome can creep in, and why it’s especially hard for neurodivergent therapists with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD).

We’ll also discuss how to handle client no-shows in private practice, whether you should follow up, and ways to reframe ghosting so it doesn’t shake your confidence.

If you’ve ever been left wondering what happened when a client stopped coming to therapy, this episode will help you feel less alone and more equipped to move forward.

Takeaways:

• Why therapy clients ghost - and why it’s not always about you
• How ghosting can trigger self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and embarrassment
• The impact of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) on neurodivergent therapists
• Should you follow up? How to handle client no-shows professionally
• How to reframe ghosting so it doesn’t undermine your confidence

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The information contained in Good Enough Counsellors is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this podcast are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this podcast. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this podcast.

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