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A lot of men reach a point where they say something quietly and honestly:
“I did everything right… and it still fell apart.”
I hear this all the time from men who showed up, stayed loyal, worked on themselves, went to therapy, avoided conflict, and tried to be good partners.
And yet the relationship still deteriorated.
The attraction faded.
The resentment crept in.
I explain why “doing everything right” often becomes the problem.
We’ll talk about:
This isn’t about blaming women.
And it’s not about becoming cold or selfish.
It’s about understanding how self-abandonment sneaks into long-term relationships — and why some men outgrow a relationship the moment they stop disappearing.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted, resentful, or confused about how things still went wrong, this one will probably hit close to home.
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By Dad Starting Over4.4
7979 ratings
A lot of men reach a point where they say something quietly and honestly:
“I did everything right… and it still fell apart.”
I hear this all the time from men who showed up, stayed loyal, worked on themselves, went to therapy, avoided conflict, and tried to be good partners.
And yet the relationship still deteriorated.
The attraction faded.
The resentment crept in.
I explain why “doing everything right” often becomes the problem.
We’ll talk about:
This isn’t about blaming women.
And it’s not about becoming cold or selfish.
It’s about understanding how self-abandonment sneaks into long-term relationships — and why some men outgrow a relationship the moment they stop disappearing.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted, resentful, or confused about how things still went wrong, this one will probably hit close to home.
Join us! https://helpformen.com/join

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