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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today, we're talking about why others put INFJs on a pedestal. You've seen this. This isn't the first time that this has happened to you. You've met somebody and they see you as this perfect image of what they would want you to be. We've seen this as something that we're proud of. We've experienced this many times, but very often, once you've been put on this pedestal, people expect you to be that version. And every single time you, as an INFJ, try to be yourself, you try to break out of that shell, what happens? People feel like you've manipulated them. They cut you off. They ghost you. They treat you really badly. And we don't know why that happened. What is the first thing INFJs do at that moment? They try to convince the other person that indeed they had no bad intentions, that they are trying their best. And it's something that we do on such a constant level, not understanding what kind of dynamic is actually happening. Why is this going on? Is it our fault? Is it something that we actually have control over? Because let's be honest, it hurts like hell. If the person has put you on a pedestal, you feel like on cloud nine and when it breaks off because it never turns out that after that you'll have a normal relationship with that person, it's always tension that is created. And it's always something that makes you feel bad.

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