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Group sex: Is it all it’s cracked up to be? Panelists answer a listener question on planning or attending a group-sex event for the first time. 

In this episode:

• Peter aka MksThingsHappin - kink and relationship coach 
• Aiden Nicholson - Queer midwife and OBGYN advanced practice nurse
• Tom Pardoe - Sober leather daddy, titleholder & certified massage therapist
• Butt stuff? Yes, please! Join The Afterglow for a special birthday treat in August!

They said WHAT? Full episode transcripts are available on our website! 

Want to learn more about energy? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

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We tackle a listener question about how to make a sex fantasy reality. Our sexpert panel give you important things to consider and how to overcome shame in order to have the sex you want.

In this episode:

• Matthew Amador - Psychotherapist for love, sex & gender rebels
• Elmo Painter - Somatic psychotherapist 
• Brandon Hunter-Haydon - Psychotherapist & intimacy coach 
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

Learn more about energy: Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

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Want to experience The Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions (like the one featured today), and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

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One woman’s story of moving from a “don’t talk about sex” childhood into a sexually unsatisfied early adulthood and finally discovering Tantra, energy work, and her own sexual desire and power.

In this episode:

• Urban Tantra on Bookshop
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Want to experience The Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

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 A summertime sex-story special from the archives! Two storytellers share experiences of erotic experimentation, plus a comedic song about a hookup in Winnetka.

In this episode:

• Archy Arch J - Storyteller & curator of OUTspoken
• Jessy Lauren Smith - Writer & storyteller
• Amy Do - Comedian & musician
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Want to experience The Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

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Nervous about trying something new? Panelists discuss communicating with partners around trying new things, and answer audience questions on vulnerability, asking for what you want, and exploring turn-ons — with partners and by yourself.

In this episode:

• Jo Flannery - Clinical sexologist
• MksThingsHappin - Kink & relationship coach
• S1E4: Four Steps to Ask for What You Want in Bed
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

Think you have a problem with substances? Learn more at the links below. (*Note: we do not endorse and are not affiliated with the following programs. We include them as a way for you to get more information)

• Alcoholics Anonymous
• Non-12 step (Buddhist): Refuge Recovery
• Marijuana Anonymous
• Narcotics Anonymous
• Crystal Meth Anonymous
• Overeaters Anonymous (includes anorexia and bulimia)
• Living with a person who has a drinking or substance issue, or know someone whose use is impacting your life? → Al-anon
• More info on non-12 step treatment
• Think you have a problem and need in-patient help? Do a web search for “treatment centers near me.”

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

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Step into The Afterglow... Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

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Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

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"When we get into an argument, my partner won't talk to me for hours or even the whole day. What do I do?" Panelists discuss "stonewalling" — when one partner checks out during intense moments and refuses to talk things through — and what you can do if it's happening in your relationship.

In this episode:

• Jason Best - Sex-positive & kink-aware therapist
• Tazima Parris - Sex coach & pleasure mentor
• Korey McWilliams - Relationship & sex therapist
• Full episode transcript available on our website! 

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Want to experience the Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter

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Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

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Author Kate Davies talks about “In at the Deep End,” her novel about a woman’s pivot from hetero monogamy to a queer relationship, and the resulting deep-dive into London’s kink and poly scenes. This wry, insightful, and sexy story is sure to liven up your summer reading list. 

In this episode:

• Author Kate Davies
• In at the Deep End on Bookshop
• Sex-positive resource list
• Episode transcript available on our website! 

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Want to experience the Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter

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Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

MAIN LIVE SHOW SPONSOR: Rowen Tree Counseling, Illinois

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How far would you go to feel better? Karen interviews Christie Tate, author of the bestselling memoir Group — one of Amazon's top titles for 2020 and a selection for Reese Witherspoon’s  book club — on her quest for intimacy through an unconventional process of radical transparency.

In this episode:

• Christie Tate
• “Group” on Bookshop

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Step into the Afterglow! Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter

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Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

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Author/illustrator Sophie Lucido Johnson talks about her polyamory memoir “Many Love” and about her journey in expanding definitions of love, reframing jealousy, and taking pleasure in seeing partners happy with other people.

In this episode:

• Sophie Lucido Johnson
• Many Love on Bookshop
• Episode transcript available on our website!

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Feel the Afterglow! Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

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Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

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“How would you like me to touch you?” Has anyone ever asked you that? Sex coach, former sex worker, and Wheel of Consent creator Betty Martin talks to Karen about her new book, 40 years of touching people, and how to practice giving and receiving pleasure.

In this episode:

• Wheel of Consent video library
• Read a chapter of Betty’s new book
• Buy it on Bookshop

Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses sound and frequency to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.

Loving Wild & Sublime? Leave a lil’ tip!

Have you been to the Afterglow? Our members club on Patreon supports the show and brings sexy surprises your way. With an Afterglow membership, you receive monthly bonus content, the ability to ask sexperts questions, and more! Join the juicy party! Starts at $5/month.

Get more Wild & Sublime on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter

Like the show? Leave a rating and review on your podcast app!

Get tickets to our 8th Anniversary Show, Sunday Oct 25, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge in Chicago!

MAIN LIVE SHOW SPONSOR: Rowen Tree Counseling, Illinois

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