To get more information about the resources Mona has available for neurodiverse couples or individuals in mixed neurotype relationships check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com

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During this episode with author Sarah Hendrickx, she will share how she met her partner 20 years ago and why she didn’t understand why their relationship was so wonderful and difficult at the same time. She also talks about how she began to discover her own neurotype and how she and her partner Keith compliment each other's strengths and understand and accomodate each other's differences. Sarah has been doing “non-clinical autism diagnostic assessments”, workshops and conference presentations for many years and the 2nd edition of her fantastic book "Women and Girls on the Autism Spectrum" was released this year and is a “must read”.

Other topics discussed include: 

The Lost Generation.

PCOS and Autistic women.

Anxiety and agoraphobia.

AuDHD and women.

Bridging the silos.

Menopause and ND women (autistic menopause.com is doing research on this topic)

What attracts neurodivergent partners? 

Not being focused on social conventions.

How neurodiverse couples are attracted to certain qualities in the beginning of the relationship that may drive them nuts as the relationship moves forward.

The differences in her relationship with Keith and how they help each other step up and take care of each other. (Socializing, sensory and emotional/mental health differences).

How alexithymia may be impacting your relationship.

The importance of self-awareness.

Acknowledging that you are no longer in the same relationship that you were in before you knew you were a neurodiverse couple.

The importance of shared core values.

Always be kind! 

Want the best for each other.

Understanding what is changeable and what is not.

The best you each can do is going to change…sometimes daily.

Other books and authors mentioned on the podcast:

Other books by Sarah: The Adolescent and Adult Neuro-diversity Handbook; Love, Sex & Long Term Relationships; Aspergers Syndrome and Employment; Asperger's Syndrome-a love story.

An Asperger Marriage by Gisela and Christopher Slater

Asperger Syndrome and Alcohol: Drinking to Cope by Matthew Tinsley and Sarah Hendrickx

Books by: Liane Holliday Willey (Pretending to Be Normal and Asperger Syndrome in the Family), Temple Grandin (The Autistic Brain and Navigating Autism) and Donna Williams (Autism: An Inside-Out Approach and Nobody Nowhere)

You can learn more about Sarah or contact her daughter Jess at: https://www.asperger-training.com/sarah-hendrickx

In addition, for more information about the assessments available you can go to: https://axia-asd.co.uk/