Man On FIRE Podcast with David Mehler

You Can Change — If You're Willing to Burn the Old You


Listen Later

📖 Summary:
What if the reason you haven’t changed isn’t because you’re weak — but because you’re still clinging to the identity that’s killing you?
In this episode of Man on Fire Rising, David unpacks the hidden beliefs, unconscious identities, and emotional wheelchairs that high-functioning men carry… and what it really takes to break free.

🧠 Key Takeaways:
~[01:20] Inherited beliefs aren’t yours — but they run your life.
You didn’t create most of your belief systems. You inherited them — from family, culture, lineage. And they might be the very thing holding you back.
~[04:00] The woman who could walk — but went back to her wheelchair.
A true story that reveals how terrifying it is to give up the identity we've wrapped our suffering around.
~[06:30] Your ‘wheelchair’ is anything you’re afraid to give up.
Whether it’s addiction, playing small, or an old label — what you’re clinging to is often what’s keeping you stuck.
~[08:00] Change isn’t just possible — it’s spiritual.
You can’t just "change." You have to exchange the version of you that’s clinging to survival for the one aligned with God’s vision for you.
~[10:00] Josh Kahn’s story: From weed and numbness to leadership and purpose.
A Man on Fire grad’s transformation — from stuck and disconnected to grounded, heart-led, and leading other men.
~[12:30] The only man we can’t help.
If you believe your pain is special, unsolvable, and greater than everyone else’s — you’ll win that game. And you’ll stay stuck.

🔥 CTA:
 Listen now and remember who you are:
 Spotify • Apple Podcasts • YouTube • Audible
Leave a review if this episode sparked something in you.

#ManOnFire #EmotionalHealing #MenDoingTheWork #MasculineLeadership #BreakTheCycle #InnerWork #IdentityHealing #YouCanChange

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Man On FIRE Podcast with David MehlerBy David Mehler

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

40 ratings


More shows like Man On FIRE Podcast with David Mehler

View all
How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast by Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast

1,176 Listeners

Order of Man by Ryan Michler

Order of Man

8,925 Listeners

REAL AF with Andy Frisella by Andy Frisella #100to0

REAL AF with Andy Frisella

32,801 Listeners

ManTalks Podcast by Connor Beaton

ManTalks Podcast

558 Listeners

THE ED MYLETT SHOW by Ed Mylett | Cumulus Podcast Network

THE ED MYLETT SHOW

14,050 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8,317 Listeners

The Trent Shelton Podcast by Trent Shelton Companies

The Trent Shelton Podcast

5,848 Listeners

The Dr. John Delony Show by Ramsey Network

The Dr. John Delony Show

7,439 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,224 Listeners

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD by Alexandra Stockwell, MD

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

152 Listeners

Mindset & Motivation by Dr. Stephen Cabral

Mindset & Motivation

161 Listeners

Pillow Talks by Vanessa & Xander Marin | QCODE

Pillow Talks

2,470 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,034 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,225 Listeners

The Love Doc Podcast by Dr. Sarah Hensley

The Love Doc Podcast

218 Listeners