In this episode, Kemi shares her experience with holding gratitude and grief in the same breath.
She begins by sharing her experience at the Martha’s Vineyard Black Book Festival in Oak Bluffs, where she was a featured author. The festival gave her space to feel both awe and being grounded, to make real connections, and to recognize that she belonged in the room.
However, this joyful experience was overshadowed by the tragic news of the death of Jason Arday, a Black professor at Cambridge, following intense public scrutiny. Kemi speaks honestly about why his death hit so hard for Black academics and names the racism, double standards, and pressure that make the academics dangerous, even for those who still love the work.
Join Kemi as she reflects on the tension of staying in academia while also protecting your life, spirit, energy, and boundaries. This episode is a space for Black academics who are grieving, processing, and still deciding what it costs to continue. It is also a reminder that staying is not wrong, leaving is not wrong, and nothing is worth your life.
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