Calm AF

You're Doing It Wrong: Why Your Anxiety Tools Aren't Making You Calm (And What Actually Does)


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7 Reminders Private Podcast

You know what to do.

You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, practiced the breathwork. You know your attachment style, you've done the inner child work, you can meditate when you remember to.

So why aren't you calm yet?

In this episode, I'm telling you the hard truth about why all those tools you've collected aren't working—and it's not because you haven't found the right one yet.

This episode will sting a little. But if you're exhausted from working so hard to feel inner peace and it never seems to stick, this is the wake-up call you need.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why having all the anxiety tools doesn't make you regulated (just like cookbooks don't make you a chef)
  • The real reason you're still anxious even though you know what to do
  • The identity shift from "high-functioning anxious person" to "regulated person"
  • Real examples of what this transformation looks like over time (from my Calm AF Life members)
  • How to stop wasting time, money, and energy on tools that only work in crisis moments
  • The difference between knowing how to regulate your nervous system and being regulated

Calm AF Life: Regulated is coming soon. This is where you will shift the identity from knowing how to regulated to REGULATED.

In the meantime, get the 7 Reminders private podcast that you can listen to on repeat that will recalibrate your nervous system (not just add to your tool collection).

Get support

Calibration call: This isn't ongoing coaching. It's a single, focused recalibration session designed to get you clear when you find yourself stuck. Learn more here.

Private coaching: I work privately with a small number of clients who are tired of losing time and energy to overthinking, second-guessing, and energy managing. This is a high-level engagement for people who are operating at a high level and want to stop feeling like it's fragile. Find details and complete application here.

Love letters: You need daily reminders if you want to shift your identity. I've got you. All you have to do is open the email and read. Sign up for Daily Love Letters

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Calm AFBy Kristen Finch

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