Bobbi Palmer is the founder of "Date Like a Grown Up" where she teaches independent, smart and accomplished women over 40 how to find lasting, grown up love. Her system focuses on balancing one’s head and one’s heart in order to find out if he’s a “keeper”. She helps people distinguish between a good date, and a good mate. She has been on the Today Show, NPR, the Huffington Post, and many other media outlets. You can find out more at DateLikeAGrownUp.com. Disclaimer: Bobbi focuses on heterosexual relationships, because that is her expertise and experience. Some of this advice is transferable to other sexual orientations, some is not. Find out more about the Zestful Aging Podcast at NicoleChristina.com. You can become a patron of the Show at Patreon.com.