The Late Bloomer Show

105. Moving from competition to party mindset in your dating life


Listen Later

This week I am talking about the concept of competition in your dating life. I'll be sharing how to move from a competitive mindset to a party mindset. Of course, it's hard NOT to think of dating as a competition..., especially when being in a relationship represents "moving forward" into a new stage in life. However, I am here to remind you that's a patriarchal narrative that no longer serves you.

In this episode, I explore how competition shows up, what it is a reflection of and how you begin to practice self-trust and confidence in order to change your dating mindset for good.

Dating is not a race to the finish line. It's a party where your only job is to own what you desire, own what you need, get your needs met, and allow the magic of co-creation to do the rest.

Hot-Takes from This Episode:

  • Being stuck in a cycle of perceived competition and comparison
  • Patriarchal narratives do not serve you or your dating life
  • Getting into a more expansive and empowering truth
  • We are here to play, to have fun, serve ourselves and others, and create the world we want to see
  • How can you create more freedom in your life?
  • Life and dating are not zero-sum games

Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:

  • Date Brazen on Instagram

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/moving-from-competition-mindset-to-party-mindset-in-your-dating-life

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Late Bloomer ShowBy Lily Womble

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

151 ratings


More shows like The Late Bloomer Show

View all
Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman by Damona Hoffman - Dates and Mates Media

Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

305 Listeners

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships by Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

904 Listeners

We Met At Acme by Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme

2,433 Listeners

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

1,129 Listeners

Ask a Matchmaker by Maria Avgitidis

Ask a Matchmaker

381 Listeners

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast by Ali Jackson

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

644 Listeners

Financial Feminist by Her First $100K

Financial Feminist

6,390 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,506 Listeners

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon by Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

298 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,046 Listeners

Jillian on Love by Jillian Turecki | QCODE

Jillian on Love

1,385 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,335 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,978 Listeners

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

629 Listeners

Dating Intentionally by Talia Koren

Dating Intentionally

488 Listeners