In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives deep into the challenges that come when in-laws stay close to the ex. This dynamic can leave you feeling like the outsider in your own family, causing frustration, jealousy, and insecurity. But how can you cope with these feelings and build healthier boundaries? Tune in as Alicia shares her personal experiences, provides insight into the complex family dynamics, and offers practical advice to navigate these tricky situations with confidence.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

• The Hard Reality: As a stepmom, you don’t get to decide who has a relationship with the ex. This loss of control can be hard, but it’s the reality of blended families.
• It’s Not Personal: Just because your in-laws maintain a relationship with the ex doesn’t mean they don’t like you. It’s about family history and dynamics, not about your worth.
• The Emotional Toll: Feelings of jealousy, exclusion, and frustration are common when in-laws stay close with the ex. Alicia shares how to manage these emotions without letting them control you.
• Competing Loyalties: In-laws are walking a fine line between supporting their child (your partner) and maintaining relationships with the ex for the sake of the kids. It’s important to understand their position without taking it personally.
• Healthy Communication and Boundaries: Learn how to communicate your feelings to your partner and establish boundaries that work for your relationship. Find ways to navigate family gatherings and sensitive situations without feeling like the “outsider.”
• Developing Your Own Relationship with In-Laws: Alicia offers tips on how to build a connection with your in-laws separate from the ex. This can help you feel more secure in your role as a stepmom.

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