Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1170 - When Your Brilliant Schedule Implodes: The Reality Check


Listen Later

Sometimes the most carefully crafted family schedules fall apart spectacularly - and that's perfectly normal. Today, we dive into what happens when the perfect plan meets reality, complete with school transitions, homeschool meltdowns, and endless interruptions. Plus, discover why investing in your relationship might be the secret weapon for weathering family chaos. This is real parenting, unfiltered and unvarnished.

Quote of the Episode: "Sometimes no matter how well we think we've got everything put together, sometimes it just doesn't work. And it doesn't mean you've done something wrong. It just means that this was a hard week."

Key Insights:

  • Even the most meticulously planned schedules can fall apart when school routines change
  • Major transitions (like switching from homeschool to traditional school) affect the whole family system
  • Fresh starts are valuable opportunities to reset and try again
  • Relationship investment between parents strengthens the whole family
  • Couples can be completely different yet choose each other daily
  • Shared experiences matter more than shared interests
  • Regular date nights and new experiences can revitalize family life
  • It's normal for plans to need adjustment when reality hits

Resources Mentioned:

  • Happy Families Newsletter (with new sections: I'm Reading, I'm Watching, I'm Listening, We're Doing)
  • Lonesome Dove series
  • Wicked (movie)
  • Honestly podcast with Barry Weiss (MAHA episode)
  • HappyFamilies.com.au

Action Steps for Parents:

  1. Accept that perfect plans often need adjustment - it's normal, not failure
  2. Schedule regular relationship-building activities with your partner
  3. Remember that fresh starts (like Monday mornings) are opportunities to reset

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesBy Dr Justin Coulson

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

137 ratings


More shows like Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

View all
Parenting Out Loud by Mamamia Podcasts

Parenting Out Loud

48 Listeners

No Filter by Mamamia Podcasts

No Filter

586 Listeners

Mamamia Out Loud by Mamamia Podcasts

Mamamia Out Loud

638 Listeners

Ladies, We Need To Talk by ABC listen

Ladies, We Need To Talk

340 Listeners

Crappy to Happy by Cass Dunn

Crappy to Happy

51 Listeners

The Quicky by Mamamia Podcasts

The Quicky

82 Listeners

Parental As Anything by ABC listen

Parental As Anything

43 Listeners

The Imperfects by Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

The Imperfects

394 Listeners

Beyond the Bump by Sophie Pearce & Jayde Couldwell

Beyond the Bump

92 Listeners

Lise and Sarah by Those Two Girls

Lise and Sarah

55 Listeners

But Are You Happy? by Mamamia Podcasts

But Are You Happy?

44 Listeners

Pop Culture Parenting by Dr Billy Garvey, Nick McCormack

Pop Culture Parenting

41 Listeners

ADHD Mums by Jane McFadden

ADHD Mums

13 Listeners

MID by Mamamia Podcasts

MID

89 Listeners

Beyond The Chaos by Amy Gerard & Gen Muir

Beyond The Chaos

5 Listeners