In this heartfelt episode of the Happy Families Podcast, Justin and Kylie take a nostalgic look back at the parenting moments that once felt overwhelming — but now feel deeply missed. From sleepless nights to endless toddler questions, they reflect on the beauty hidden in the chaos of raising young children, and why it’s so important to soak up the season you’re in.

KEY POINTS:

• Parents often miss the toddler years despite how exhausting and chaotic they were.

• Moments that once drove us crazy — bedtime routines, 3am wakeups, tantrums — are now fond memories.

• The constant questions from curious toddlers were a sign of trust and connection.

• Parenting in the early years was hard, but it was also a time of deep attachment and presence.

• There’s a growing challenge in maintaining community and “the village” that helps raise a child.

• Slowing down and being present in the moment is easier said than done — but always worth it.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
"I wish I loved it more when I was in it, but I just didn’t have the perspective."

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• HappyFamilies.com.au – for more parenting resources.

• You can read all of the comments on that Facebook post here.

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

1. Take a moment today to pause and notice something beautiful in the chaos — even if it’s hard.

2. Write down a memory from a tough stage of parenting that now makes you smile.

3. Reach out to someone in your parenting village — connection makes the hard moments easier.

4. Give yourself grace: you won’t always love every moment, but being present matters more than being perfect.

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