In this deeply honest episode, we’re getting into the emotional weeds of what happens when the ex’s belongings, photos, or influence are still showing up in your home. From hoodies and framed photos to never-ending texts between your partner and their ex, it can start to feel like you’re suffocating in someone else’s life.

Especially for childless and childfree stepmoms, the presence of “her stuff” can stir up major discomfort—and lead to fights with your partner, emotional shutdowns, or resentment toward the kids.

Alicia shares her personal experience and helps you reframe the issue so you can set boundaries without guilt, protect your peace without controlling the narrative, and finally start to feel at home in your own house. This episode offers validation, strategy, and a healthy dose of real talk for any stepmom who’s ever felt like a guest in her own home.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “her stuff” hits different when you’re childless or childfree
• How to avoid explosive fights with your partner about the ex
• Reframing the discomfort as part of your stepmom growth
• The difference between setting boundaries and controlling the space
• Tips to stop feeling like a stranger in your own home

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