The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy

129. Stage 2 Series-Hesitation and Mixed Signals in Step 6-Yellow Lights


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Welcome to the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy, hosted by Drs. James Hawkins, Ph.D., LPC, and Ryan Rana, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC—Renowned ICEEFT Therapists, Supervisors, and Trainers. We're thrilled to have you with us. We believe this podcast, a valuable resource, will empower you to push the boundaries in your work, helping individuals and couples connect more deeply with themselves and each other.

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"Yellow Lights in Love: Navigating Hesitation and Misattunement in Couples Therapy"

In this revealing episode of the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Drs. James Hawkins and Ryan Rana dive deep into the subtle art of recognizing and transforming "yellow light" moments in couples therapy. Learn how seemingly supportive responses can actually reinforce disconnection in relationships, and discover techniques to help partners truly hear and validate each other's deepest vulnerabilities.

Key Points:

- Understanding "yellow lights" in EFT: Moments of partial openness or hesitation
- The critical difference between reassuring and truly being present with a partner's emotions
- How self-regulation and co-regulation work together in healing relationships
- Practical strategies for therapists to guide couples from disconnection to genuine emotional attunement

Whether you're a therapist, counselor, or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers profound insights into helping couples create deeper, more authentic connections.

To support our mission and help us continue producing impactful content, your financial contributions via Venmo (@leftpodcast) are greatly appreciated. They play a significant role in keeping this valuable resource available and are a testament to your commitment to our cause.

We aim to equip therapists with practical tools and encouragement for addressing relational distress. We're also excited to be part of the team behind Success in Vulnerability (SV)—your premier online education platform. SV offers innovative instruction to enhance your therapeutic effectiveness through exclusive modules and in-depth clinical examples.

 Stay connected with us:

  • Facebook: Follow our page @pushtheleadingedge
  • Ryan: Follow @ryanranaprofessionaltraining on Facebook and visit his website
  • James: Follow @dochawklpc on Facebook and Instagram, or visit his website at dochawklpc.com
  • George Faller: Visit georgefaller.com
  • If you like the concepts discussed on this podcast you can explore our online training program, Success in Vulnerability (SV).

    Thank you for being part of our community. Let's push the leading edge together!

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