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#12 Relationship Damage Control: How to Stop PTSD Fights Before They Start | Recovery Secrets Series

Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD PodcastRecovery Secrets Daily Coaching

In this episode, Brad and Kayleen dive deep into one of the most important (and overlooked) parts of trauma recovery — how to stop relationship damage before it happens.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in repeated fights, emotional spirals, or painful disconnection in your relationship… this episode will change how you see conflict forever.

Brad and Kayleen share their personal story of transforming a reactive, trauma-driven relationship into one built on calm, communication, and emotional awareness — including the “lettuce in the sink” moment that revealed how triggers from the past hijack the present.

You’ll learn the three steps to stop fights before they start, how to handle triggers (yours and theirs), and why true healing in relationships begins with taking responsibility for your own emotions.

💡 What You’ll Learn

  • The truth about PTSD and relationship dynamics
  • Why 80–90% of relationship work is individual, not mutual
  • How to recognize emotional escalation before it happens
  • Why triggers are “the past made present” — and how to stop reacting
  • The “pause and step back” method for instant damage control
  • What to say when emotions are high (and what NOT to say)
  • How to hold boundaries when your partner is triggered
  • Why healing your trauma changes the entire relationship dynamic
  • What to do when the other person won’t calm down
  • How journaling and reflection can replace reactive communication
  • 🧠 Key Takeaway

    You can’t fix your relationship by fixing your partner.
    You fix it by healing yourself — and showing up as your whole, regulated self.

    🔗 Next Steps

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    CHAPTERS:

    00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

    00:36 Starting the First Session on Relationships
    01:06 Understanding Relationship Damage Control
    01:59 Individual Work in Relationships
    06:21 Triggers and Emotional Responses
    09:59 Steps to Prevent Relationship Damage
    19:10 Managing Emotions and Communication
    29:02 Q&A and Practical Advice
    31:24 The Power of Walking Away
    32:09 Maintaining Relationships Without Escalation
    33:03 Focusing on Self-Improvement
    33:16 Handling Family Dynamics
    33:54 Strategies for Relationship Improvement
    34:51 Dealing with Emotional Triggers
    35:22 Journaling as a Tool for Emotional Release
    36:11 The Importance of Self-Responsibility
    39:18 Using Humor to Deescalate Situations
    40:01 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care
    51:23 Leading by Example with Teenagers
    56:03 The Role of Interdependence in Relationships
    58:52 Overcoming Self-Sabotage
    01:01:12 Upcoming Tools and Exercises
    01:01:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

     

    Topics Covered

    PTSD relationships • trauma recovery • emotional triggers • conflict resolution • emotional regulation • trauma communication skills • self-awareness in relationships • relationship damage control • stopping fights before they start • nervous system regulation • healing as a couple • trauma and codependency • setting healthy boundaries • emotional intelligence • relationship healing after trauma • Overcoming PTSD • Brad Schipke • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching • trauma-informed relationships • emotional safety and calm communication

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