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Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
In this Boundary Bootcamp session, Brad and Kayleen dive into one of the most misunderstood skills in trauma recovery: relationship boundaries. Instead of seeing boundaries as walls or punishment, they reframe them as the structure that lets you live a healthy, sustainable life while healing PTSD or trauma.
You’ll hear real stories from their own relationship—times when there were no boundaries, when yelling and chaos ruled, and when things finally changed because one of them said, “This is no longer okay.” They walk through how painful it can feel in the moment, and how powerful it becomes in the long term for both people.
Brad and Kayleen also break down the difference between emotional reactions and solid, non-emotional boundaries—how to decide what your limit is, how to express it calmly, and how to enforce it even when someone pushes back, gets upset, or tries to pull you back into old patterns.
By the end of this episode, you’ll understand how to identify where you need boundaries, how to communicate them clearly, and how to hold your ground without screaming, collapsing, or people-pleasing—so you can protect your healing, your energy, and your future.
How to recognize when a relationship or situation needs a boundary because you leave feeling worse about yourself
The essential difference between emotional outbursts and calm, factual boundary setting
A step-by-step process for defining, communicating, and enforcing relationship boundaries
How unhealed trauma and low self-worth lead to people-pleasing and boundary-less relationships
Ways to set boundaries around yelling, abusive language, and hurtful texting while healing PTSD
How to protect your bedtime, energy, and goals without feeling selfish or guilty
Why enforcing a boundary matters more than getting someone to agree with or “like” it
How holding firm on boundaries can actually improve relationships and inspire others to grow
Practical examples of what to say when you need space, time alone, or a break from emotional overload
Boundaries are not emotional explosions—they’re calm, clear decisions about what you will and will not allow so you can respect yourself and protect your healing.
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00:00 – Welcome to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching & Boundary Bootcamp
02:00 – Why most trauma survivors have zero boundaries (and don’t realize it)
06:00 – Boundaries as healthy lifestyle choices, not just protection from abuse
10:00 – Brad’s story: people-pleasing, yelling, and having no limits in relationships
15:00 – The “law” of boundaries: firm, non-emotional, and not up for debate
18:00 – How to know you need a boundary: feeling worse after a person or event
20:00 – The dog story: how unspoken rules and boundaries shape behavior
24:00 – When a relationship boundary means living apart to heal from PTSD
30:00 – Step 1: Defining your boundary and your ideal outcome
35:00 – Step 2: Communicating boundaries without asking for permission
40:00 – Step 3: Enforcing boundaries when someone tests or pushes them
45:00 – Examples: text message boundaries, yelling, and walking away calmly
52:00 – Rules vs boundaries and why consequences still matter in healing
55:00 – Community shares: family patterns, grandkids, and being scolded
01:00:00 – Progress over perfection: boundaries, goals, and tiny lifestyle shifts
01:04:00 – What’s coming next in Boundary Bootcamp: Book of Law and core boundaries
PTSD recovery • trauma healing • relationship boundaries • emotional boundaries • internal boundaries • external boundaries • people-pleasing after trauma • PTSD and relationships • trauma coping tools • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • yelling and conflict in relationships • communication skills for trauma survivors • self-worth and boundaries • enforcing boundaries calmly • stopping abusive patterns • trauma-informed relationship tools • healing after toxic relationships • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching