Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke

Overcoming PTSD with Brad Schipke

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  • #87 Processing Installation | Recovery Secrets Series

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    How to Install New Beliefs After PTSD Processing

    From Trauma Processing to Installation: Locking In Lasting PTSD Recovery
    Why Processing Your Trauma Isn’t Enough (And How to Install the Positive)
    PTSD Recovery Secrets: Turning Painful Processing into Empowering Installation
    Stop Getting Stuck in Trauma Work: The Missing Installation Step in PTSD Healing
    Installing Self-Love After Trauma: Beliefs, Visualization, and Daily Practice
    From Triggered to Trusting Yourself: Installing New PTSD Beliefs That Stick
    Turn Your Trauma Tools into a New Life: Installation, Believability, and Change
    Emotional Recovery After PTSD: How to Reinforce Positive Beliefs Every Day
    Installation vs Processing: The Overlooked Phase of Trauma Healing

    Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

    In this episode, Brad and Kayleen reveal a part of trauma work almost nobody talks about: installation. You’ll hear how processing the “negative stuff” is only the first half of the healing equation—and why your brain also needs intentional installation of positive beliefs and emotions if you want lasting PTSD recovery.

    They walk through the difference between processing old trauma and installing new beliefs, using simple concepts like distress level and believability to help you measure real change. Instead of staying stuck in endless trauma work, you’ll learn how to shift into building a new identity that actually feels safe, strong, and hopeful.

    You’ll also discover practical ways to install new beliefs both “statically” (on purpose, during dedicated practice) and “on the move” (in the middle of real-life triggers, relationships, and decisions). This episode is both a mindset reset and a tactical guide for turning your tools into a new lifestyle.

    By the end, you’ll understand why you might feel like you’ve processed so much but still feel stuck—and how a few simple shifts in how you end your sessions and live your days can multiply the impact of every trauma tool you already have.

     

    💡 What You’ll Learn

    • The difference between trauma processing and installation and why you need both for PTSD recovery

    • How to use “distress level” and “believability” to track real healing in your brain

    • Why focusing only on the negative memories keeps you stuck in a hurt lifestyle

    • Practical ways to use visualization to install new trauma-free beliefs and emotions

    • How to turn self-talk into mobile installation throughout your daily life

    • What to do when you feel like you’ve processed a lot but your habits haven’t changed

    • How installation helps with addictions, relationships, and triggers after trauma

    • Why no therapist or program can do the work for you—and how to step into full responsibility

    • How to build a long-term “recovery lifestyle” that continues even after PTSD is healed

       

      🧠 Key Takeaway

      Processing heals the pain of the past; installation builds the person you become next. You need both for full PTSD recovery.

       

      🔗 Next Steps

      Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

      To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

       

      CHAPTERS:

      00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
      00:36 Today's Topic: Processing and Installation
      00:57 Understanding Installation in Recovery
      02:02 Engaging with the Audience
      03:30 The Importance of Installation
      05:41 Practical Steps for Installation
      17:43 Static and Mobile Installation Techniques
      24:14 Empowerment and Taking Action
      30:14 Overcoming Trauma and Building Strength
      31:06 The Power of Prioritizing Healing
      32:28 Embracing Change and Taking Action
      33:56 Facing Fear and Embracing Discomfort
      35:56 The Journey of Recovery and Installation
      49:53 Identifying and Replacing Negative Beliefs
      52:40 Upcoming Events and Final Thoughts

       

      Topics Covered:

      PTSD recovery • trauma healing • trauma processing tools • installation after processing • positive beliefs after trauma • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • self-talk for PTSD recovery • visualization for trauma healing • challenging negative beliefs • trauma and addiction recovery • healing trauma in relationships • mindset for PTSD recovery • overcoming PTSD triggers • building a recovery lifestyle

      56 min
    • #86 Evening Routine | Recovery Secrets Series

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      The Evening Routine That Transforms PTSD Recovery

      PTSD Sleep Struggles? Build an Evening Routine That Actually Works
      How a Simple Nighttime Routine Can Heal Trauma Faster
      From Chaos to Calm: Designing a Trauma-Safe Night Routine
      The 7-Day Evening Routine Challenge for PTSD Recovery
      Why Your PTSD Healing Starts With Tonight’s Bedtime
      Rewiring the Brain After Trauma Through Consistent Night Routines
      Stop Nighttime Spirals: Trauma, Sleep, and the Power of Routine
      One Habit That Accelerates PTSD Recovery While You Sleep
      Building Unbreakable Routines: Evening, Morning, and Healing After Trauma

      Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

      In this workshop-style episode, Brad and Kayleen walk you through how to build an evening routine that actually supports PTSD and trauma recovery. Instead of chasing motivation or “perfect” plans, they show you how to design a simple nighttime rhythm you can stick with long term.

      You’ll hear why Brad considers the evening routine “the tipping point for everything” — the foundation for better sleep, more energy, and more consistent healing work. They break down how your brain and nervous system rely on predictable sleep and wake times to regulate, process, and repair after trauma.

      Together, they help you identify your ideal bedtime and sleep time, then reverse-engineer a realistic plan around it. You’ll learn how to use anchors, alarms, and accountability to keep your foot on the gas without perfectionism, and how to make tiny adjustments that add up to massive change over weeks and months.

      This episode ends with a clear 7-day evening routine challenge so you’re not just inspired — you’re taking action tonight. If you’ve struggled to be consistent with routines or feel stuck in chaotic sleep patterns, this conversation will give you structure, hope, and a doable next step.

       

      💡 What You’ll Learn

      • How evening routines directly impact PTSD recovery, mood, and daily functioning
      • How to choose a realistic bedtime and sleep time based on your ideal number of hours
      • How to work backward from your wake-up time to design your night schedule
      • How to use “anchors” like dinner or nightly calls as cues to start winding down
      • How to slowly shift your bedtime earlier with small, sustainable adjustments
      • How consistent sleep-wake times help your brain regulate and process trauma
      • How to use accountability, tracking, and simple checkmarks to stay consistent
      • How to avoid all-or-nothing perfectionism and focus on 1% improvements
      • How an evening routine sets up your morning, healing routine, and overall lifestyle
      •  

        🧠 Key Takeaway

        A great tomorrow starts tonight — your evening routine is the foundation that makes PTSD recovery simpler, calmer, and more consistent.

         

        🔗 Next Steps

        Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

        To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

         

        CHAPTERS:

        00:00:00 Welcome and what Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching is

        00:02:30 Why routines matter more than motivation in PTSD recovery
        00:06:30 The three essential routines: morning, evening, and healing
        00:10:00 How Brad and Kayleen structure their own evening routines
        00:18:30 Sleep, PTSD, and why consistent bed and wake times matter
        00:30:00 Using anchors, alarms, and environment to support your routine
        00:42:00 The 7-Day Evening Routine Challenge and how to track it
        00:54:00 Final encouragement, recap, and next steps

         

        Topics Covered:

        PTSD recovery • trauma healing • evening routine for PTSD • PTSD sleep problems • sleep and trauma recovery • nervous system regulation • emotional regulation at night • trauma coping tools • sleep hygiene for trauma survivors • consistent routines for healing • accountability in PTSD recovery • daily habits for mental health • morning and evening routines • lifestyle change after trauma

        57 min
      • #85 Playing Hurt | Recovery Secrets Series

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        Playing Hurt: How To Stop Waiting To “Feel Ready” And Start Healing PTSD

        PTSD Recovery And Playing Hurt: Why Growth Feels Uncomfortable (And How To Do It Anyway)
        From Excuses To Action: How To Push Through PTSD Resistance And Finally Heal
        Playing Hurt With PTSD: Short-Term Discomfort, Long-Term Freedom
        Trauma Recovery When You’re Exhausted: How To Show Up For Yourself Anyway
        Comfort Zone Vs. Healing Zone: The Mindset Shift Every Trauma Survivor Needs
        Stop Waiting To Feel Motivated: A Practical PTSD Recovery Game Plan
        PTSD And Self-Care Myths: Why “Taking It Easy” Keeps You Stuck In Trauma
        Breaking The Trauma Loop: How Tiny Brave Actions Rewire Your Brain After PTSD
        How To Do The Trauma Work You’ve Been Avoiding (Without Burning Out)

        Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

        In this episode, Brad and Kayleen break down a hard but freeing truth: if you want change, you have to change. You can’t wait to feel fully ready, fully rested, or perfectly motivated before you do the things that will actually move your PTSD recovery forward. They unpack what it really means to “play hurt” in healing—taking imperfect action even when you’re tired, anxious, or scared.

        You’ll learn the difference between healthy discomfort and real pain, and why your comfort zone can actually be full of suffering that just feels “normal.” Brad and Kayleen show how small, honest pushes outside your comfort zone build confidence, momentum, and self-respect instead of more pressure and burnout. They also talk about how culture often hands you “valid” excuses that keep you stuck, and how to lovingly stop accepting them.

        Throughout the conversation, they use concrete examples from workouts, processing sessions, relationships, and daily habits to show how short-term discomfort leads to long-term peace, health, and freedom from PTSD symptoms. You’ll walk away with a new way to look at resistance, procrastination, and self-care—plus simple ways to take action today, not someday.

         

        💡 What You’ll Learn

        • Why waiting to “feel ready” keeps you stuck in PTSD and trauma patterns

        • The difference between discomfort that grows you and pain that harms you

        • How to push yourself out of your comfort zone without burning out

        • How to spot the excuses that are secretly running your recovery

        • A simple way to use “What am I willing to do?” to create sustainable habits

        • How short-term discomfort creates long-term peace, health, and freedom

        • How to use resistance and avoidance as clues for what to process next

        • Why your brain is wired for short-term pleasure and how to retrain it for long-term healing

        • How to talk yourself into brave action instead of out of it

           

          🧠 Key Takeaway

          If you want change, you have to change—growth in PTSD recovery lives just outside your comfort zone, not inside your excuses.

           

          🔗 Next Steps

          Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

          To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

           

          CHAPTERS:

          00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
          00:36 Starting the Week with Motivation
          01:14 The Concept of Playing Hurt
          04:03 Facing Discomfort for Growth
          07:04 Overcoming Excuses and Building New Habits
          13:46 The Importance of Short-Term Discomfort for Long-Term Pleasure
          26:31 Breaking Out of Painful Comfort Zones
          31:30 Engaging with the Community
          31:50 Kickstart Your Change
          32:13 The David Goggins Inspiration
          33:21 No More Excuses
          35:39 Building New Habits
          37:39 The Power of Willingness
          41:54 Rest and Recharge
          54:00 Taking Action Now
          55:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
           

          Topics Covered:

          PTSD recovery • trauma healing • playing hurt in recovery • comfort zone and growth • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • overcoming avoidance with PTSD • breaking excuses and resistance • short-term discomfort long-term healing • self-care vs self-sabotage • healing trauma in relationships • PTSD mindset shifts • building healthy habits after trauma

          57 min
        • #84 Getting Unstuck from Inside Your Head and Back in the Present Moment | Recovery Secrets Series

          Want to coach with me? Book a free no pressure consultation call here: https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation

          Learn the proven system that’s helped 2,000+ trauma survivors reduce symptoms by 77.9% in just 4.5 months without therapy or medication 👉 https://overcomingptsd.com/

          Getting Out of Your Head and Back Into Life With PTSD

          How to Break Mental Loops and Reconnect With the Present (PTSD Recovery)
          Why Trauma Pulls You Out of the Moment — And How to Come Back
          From Overthinking to Presence: Simple Tools for Trauma Healing
          The Real Reason PTSD Keeps You Stuck in Your Head
          How to Stop Anxiety From Hijacking Your Day (Trauma Tools)
          Reclaim Your Moments: Practical Skills for PTSD Grounding
          When Your Mind Won’t Turn Off: Healing Patterns After Trauma
          Breaking the Cycle of Rumination for PTSD Survivors
          How to Shift From Internal Chaos to External Connection

          Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

          In this episode, Brad guides you through one of the most common challenges trauma survivors face: feeling trapped inside your own mind. Whether it’s looping thoughts, racing heart, ringing ears, or a rush of internal sensations, PTSD can pull you out of the present moment and disconnect you from the life happening right in front of you.

          Brad explains why this happens neurologically and emotionally—and why it’s not a personal failure but a survival system trying to protect you. He walks through how the mind signals unresolved pain, why your attention gets hijacked, and how to retrain your brain to feel safe enough to stay grounded.

          You’ll learn practical skills to shift from inward overwhelm to outward awareness so you can connect with family, enjoy daily life, and feel more present in your own body. This episode brings calm clarity to a frustrating experience and shows how presence is a learnable skill you can rebuild step by step.

           

          💡 What You’ll Learn

          • How trauma pulls your attention inward and disrupts presence

          • Why looping thoughts and sensations are signals—not failures
          • Ways to identify what specifically pulls you out of the moment
          • Skills to redirect attention from internal chaos to external reality
          • How judgment, fear, and negative thoughts hijack awareness
          • Why presence is a trainable skill even after long-term PTSD
          • What your brain is trying to communicate when you feel “stuck”
          • How to build grounding habits that reconnect you to your life
          • Simple shifts to enjoy moments with less mental noise

           

          🧠 Key Takeaway

          Presence isn’t lost—it’s a skill you can rebuild by retraining your attention to feel safe in the moment again.

           

          🔗 Next Steps

          Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

          To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.

           

          CHAPTERS:

          00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
          00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
          01:14 Community-Picked Topic: Getting Out of Your Head
          03:00 Understanding the Causes of Mental Distraction
          05:06 Building Skills to Stay Present
          07:53 Conclusion and Coaching Opportunities
           

          Topics Covered:

          PTSD recovery • trauma healing • getting out of your head • grounding skills • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • anxiety relief • mindfulness for PTSD • presence and awareness • stopping rumination

          9 min
        • #83 Responsibility Blame and Excuses | Recovery Secrets Series

          Want to coach with me? Book a free no pressure consultation call here: https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation

          Learn the proven system that’s helped 2,000+ trauma survivors reduce symptoms by 77.9% in just 4.5 months without therapy or medication 👉 https://overcomingptsd.com/

          Stop Letting PTSD Run the Show: How Radical Responsibility Gives You Your Life Back

          From Victim of Trauma to Leader of Your Life: The Truth About Blame, Excuses, and PTSD
          PTSD Recovery Starts With You: Taking Ownership Instead of Waiting for Life to Change
          How Blaming Trauma, Triggers, and the Past Is Keeping You Stuck With PTSD
          Responsibility vs Excuses: The Mindset Shift Every Trauma Survivor Needs
          PTSD, Anxiety, and “It’s Not My Fault”: Reclaiming Your Power With Radical Responsibility
          Trauma, Relationships, and Blame: Why Waiting on Others Is Delaying Your Healing
          From “I Can’t Because of Trauma” to “How Can I?” – Rewriting Your PTSD Story
          Why Your PTSD Recovery Changes When You Stop Making Excuses
          Taking Ownership of Your Healing: The Real Turning Point in Trauma Recovery

          Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

          In this coaching session, Brad walks you through one of the most uncomfortable but life-changing shifts in PTSD and trauma recovery: moving from blame and excuses to full responsibility. Instead of giving your power away to circumstances, people, or your past, you’ll learn how to bring that power back into your own hands.

          You’ll hear real-life examples around relationships, diet, sobriety, clutter, and being late, and how we often unconsciously hand our responsibility over to traffic, partners, kids, or even the pandemic. Brad shows how this pattern quietly keeps you stuck feeling like a victim with no real options to change.

          Most importantly, he gives you a simple, practical question to ask yourself when you catch blame or excuses showing up: “How can I?” This one shift turns walls into doorways, helping you access choices, creativity, and confidence even when PTSD, ADHD, or stress feel overwhelming.

          By the end of the episode, you’ll understand why taking responsibility for both the “bad” and the “good” in your life is not about self-blame—it’s about reclaiming control, building self-respect, and owning your progress as you heal from trauma.

           

          💡 What You’ll Learn

          • How blame and excuses quietly steal your power and control
          • Why giving responsibility to PTSD, other people, or circumstances keeps you stuck
          • The difference between unhealthy self-blame and healthy responsibility
          • How to use the “How can I?” question to find options instead of dead ends
          • Ways to take ownership of your diet, sobriety, routines, and environment
          • How responsibility builds real confidence, not fake positivity
          • Why you can still move forward even with PTSD, ADHD, or health limitations
          • A simple daily exercise to track when you’re blaming or making excuses
          • How to choose one area of life to fully own and transform
          •  

            🧠 Key Takeaway

            Your life changes the moment you stop saying “It’s because of them” or “Because of PTSD” and start asking, “How can I take responsibility and change this?”

             

            🔗 Next Steps

            Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

            To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.

             

            CHAPTERS:

            00:00 – Welcome to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

            01:15 – Why today’s topic is a “hug and kick in the butt”
            02:40 – Acceptance vs responsibility: what changes when you own it
            04:05 – Blame and excuses: common patterns we all fall into
            05:30 – Story: misplacing items and instantly blaming others
            07:10 – Diet, partners, and the “I can’t because of my family” excuse
            08:45 – Traffic, being late, and how we give away control
            09:30 – The danger of handing your responsibility to the outside world
            11:20 – How blame turns you into a victim and steals your power
            13:00 – Turning “they did this” into “this is my responsibility”
            14:40 – Radical responsibility for being on time, regardless of traffic
            16:00 – Sobriety, stress, and the myth of “I can’t get sober until…”
            18:20 – Working within limitations while still owning your choices
            19:30 – Using “How can I?” to find options in any situation
            21:00 – Responsibility inside your “bubble” vs what you truly can’t control
            24:10 – Procrastination, future-you, and passing responsibility forward
            25:10 – Your current life as a reflection of your past choices
            26:20 – Taking responsibility for both the good and the bad
            27:30 – Confidence as a byproduct of responsibility
            29:30 – Real-life examples: partners, snacks, and changing your diet
            31:10 – PTSD, ADHD, eyesight, and decluttering when it feels impossible
            33:00 – Breaking tasks into small, doable pieces
            34:20 – Housework, shared spaces, and doing what you can control
            35:30 – Journaling blame and excuses as a daily awareness practice
            36:40 – Today’s challenge: track blame, excuses, and take ownership
            39:10 – Choosing one area of life to fully own
            40:30 – Making chores bearable with music, podcasts, and fun
            41:40 – Pandemic, isolation, and taking back your power
            43:20 – Financial responsibility and small daily actions
            46:00 – One item a day: simple progress with a to-do list
            48:00 – “It’s my fault” vs “It’s my responsibility”
            50:00 – Knowing what you can’t control—and what you absolutely can
            51:20 – Closing encouragement and next sessions preview

             

            Topics Covered:

            PTSD recovery • trauma healing • taking responsibility after trauma • overcoming victim mindset • blame and excuses in PTSD • radical responsibility for healing • trauma recovery coaching • PTSD and relationships • emotional regulation • mindset shifts for trauma survivors • sobriety and PTSD • trauma coping tools • anxiety and overwhelm • productivity with PTSD and ADHD • decluttering with mental health challenges • self-discipline in recovery • nervous system healing • daily PTSD recovery habits • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

            53 min
          • #82 Positivity | Recovery Secrets Series

            Struggling with PTSD and ready to FULLY recover? Join my recovery program here (costs less than a single therapy session): https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

            Positivity for PTSD Recovery: How to Rewire Your Brain One Thought at a Time

            The 7:1 Rule Trauma Survivors Need to Know About Positivity
            From Survival Mode to Growth: Using Positivity to Heal Trauma
            PTSD Mindset Shift: “I Can’t” vs “How Can I”
            How Positivity Builds Momentum When You’re Healing from Trauma
            Trauma Healing Tools: The Good Things List That Changes Everything
            PTSD Recovery Coaching: Stop Feeding Negativity and Start Expanding Your Life
            Nervous System Regulation Through Positivity and Gratitude
            Healing Trauma Faster: The Simple Daily Practice That Beats the Spiral
            PTSD Coping Skills: How to Stay Open When Life Feels Hard

            Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

            In this episode, Brad leads a practical workshop-style session on positivity—and why it’s not “fluffy,” unrealistic, or optional for PTSD recovery. He breaks down how positivity affects your mindset, your nervous system, your relationships, and your ability to see opportunity instead of danger.

            You’ll hear a powerful reframe that turns a closed, stuck statement (“I can’t”) into an open, forward-moving question (“How can I?”). That one shift alone can change how your brain searches for solutions, momentum, and possibilities.

            Brad also shares simple daily tools that help positivity become automatic over time, including gratitude practices and the “Good Things List.” The goal isn’t perfection—it’s training your brain to expand instead of contract, so your recovery starts to feel lighter, steadier, and more possible.

            If you’ve been wired for negativity because of trauma, this episode will help you understand why that happens—and how to begin rewiring it with small, repeatable actions that create real change.

             

            💡 What You’ll Learn

            • Why positivity creates momentum and opens your mind to opportunity

            • How negativity contracts your world and keeps you in prevention mode

            • The “I can’t” vs “How can I” shift that changes your entire outlook

            • A simple daily “Good Things List” practice to train your brain for optimism

            • How positivity can improve relationships through gratitude and refocusing

            • Why positive focus helps your brain notice solutions you’d otherwise miss

            • The 7-to-1 ratio of positive thoughts needed to balance one negative thought

            • How to pick one area of life and deliberately build positivity there

            • Why positivity can become automatic with consistent repetition

              🧠 Key Takeaway

              If you’re going to skew, skew positive—because positivity expands your life, and your brain will start finding the path forward.

               

              🔗 Next Steps

              Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

              To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

               

              CHAPTERS:

              00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
              00:36 Starting the Live Coaching Session
              01:20 Recap of Previous Session and Announcements
              02:53 The Importance of Positivity
              04:25 Engaging with Positivity
              05:44 Practical Exercises for Positivity
              08:32 The Power of Positive Thinking
              21:42 Manifestation and Visualization
              26:47 Embracing Positivity and Community
              27:16 The Power of Positivity and Opportunity
              28:11 Gratitude in Challenging Times
              29:46 Focusing on Positivity in Daily Life
              30:49 Choosing One Area to Improve
              32:05 Visualizing and Manifesting Positivity
              33:36 Applying Positive Psychology
              36:18 Practical Actions for Positivity
              49:34 The Seven-to-One Positivity Ratio
              53:11 Wrapping Up and Future Plans

               

              Topics Covered:

              PTSD recovery • trauma healing • positivity mindset • gratitude practice • Good Things List • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • positive psychology • reticular activating system • manifestation science • mindset shift • overcoming negativity • self-talk for trauma • confidence building • recovery coaching • PTSD triggers • resilience skills • healing in relationships • openness and acceptance

              56 min
            • #81 Rebuilding Trust | Recovery Secrets Series

              Want to coach with me? Book a free no pressure consultation call here: https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation

              Learn the proven system that’s helped 2,000+ trauma survivors reduce symptoms by 77.9% in just 4.5 months without therapy or medication 👉 https://overcomingptsd.com/

              Rebuilding Trust After PTSD: How To Stop Swinging Between Fear And Blind Faith

              How Trauma Breaks Trust And How To Safely Rebuild It
              Trusting Yourself Again After PTSD: Step-By-Step Healing
              From Hypervigilance To Wise Trust: Trauma Tools To Feel Safe In The World
              Rebuilding Trust In Relationships After Trauma Without Losing Yourself
              PTSD, Trust Issues, And The “Trust-O-Meter” Method For Safer Connections
              How To Trust Authority, People, And Life Again After Trauma
              Trauma, Betrayal, And Learning To Trust Your Own Judgment
              Why PTSD Makes Trust So Hard And How To Heal It In Stages
              Faith, Safety, And Self-Trust: A New Way To Rebuild After Trauma

              Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

              In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kayleen break down one of the biggest trauma topics the community voted on: rebuilding trust after it’s been broken. Whether it’s trust in people, authority, the world, or yourself, they show how trauma quietly rewires what you believe is “safe” and what isn’t.

              Instead of the classic “I either totally trust or totally shut down,” they introduce a more realistic, compassionate approach: rebuilding trust in stages. Using real examples from their own relationship, they walk through how to move from complete distrust to a grounded, earned trust over time—without ignoring red flags or abandoning yourself.

              You’ll learn how processing trauma cuts the emotional “weights” that keep you stuck in blind trust or blind distrust, so you can respond logically to what’s actually happening in front of you. You’ll also hear how to start with the most important piece of all: rebuilding trust in yourself, your choices, and your ability to keep yourself safe.

              If you’ve ever felt like you love someone but don’t know how—or if—you can trust them again, this episode will give you a clear framework, language, and mindset to move forward without rushing, forcing, or pretending.

               

              💡 What You’ll Learn

              • How trauma creates blind trust or blind distrust and what to do about it
              • Why trust doesn’t have to be all or nothing and how to use stages of trust
              • How to rebuild trust in specific areas instead of labeling someone “all good” or “all bad”
              • How to use the “trust-o-meter” idea to gauge what feels safe in each situation
              • Why rebuilding self-trust is the foundation for trusting others, authority, and life
              • How processing trauma helps you respond logically instead of from old emotional wounds
              • Practical ways to “earn back” trust in a relationship through consistent behavior
              • How to move toward people and the world safely without ignoring your instincts
              • How faith in the future and trust in yourself work together in PTSD recovery
              •  

                🧠 Key Takeaway

                You don’t have to trust everyone—or everything—100%; you just need to trust yourself enough to decide who has earned a deeper level of trust and when.

                 

                🔗 Next Steps

                Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

                To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.

                 

                CHAPTERS:

                00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
                00:36 Welcoming the Audience and Weekly Recap
                01:20 Today's Topic: Regaining Trust
                01:46 Personal Experiences with Trust Issues
                02:16 Interactive Session: Audience Trust Challenges
                06:33 Building Trust in Stages
                12:37 Trusting Yourself First
                19:14 Logical Trust vs. Blind Trust
                29:20 The Complexity of Trust in Relationships
                30:24 Trust and Mistakes: A Sliding Scale
                31:42 Rebuilding Trust After It’s Broken
                33:25 Trust in Different Areas of Life
                36:41 The Role of Trauma in Trust Issues
                42:56 Upcoming Health and Wellness Session
                49:28 Final Thoughts and Farewel

                 

                Topics Covered:

                PTSD recovery • trauma healing • rebuilding trust after trauma • PTSD trust issues • trusting yourself after trauma • relationship healing after PTSD • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • how to feel safe again • trust and vulnerability in relationships • processing trauma memories • overcoming fear of people • trusting authority after trauma • self-trust and confidence • overcoming betrayal trauma

                51 min
              • #80 Control in Relationships and Addictions | Recovery Secrets Series

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                How to Stop Letting PTSD Control Your Relationships

                Trauma, Addiction, and Control: How to Take Your Power Back
                PTSD, Sobriety, and Control: What You Can (and Can’t) Change
                From Out of Control to In Charge: Reclaiming Your Life After Trauma
                Breaking Addiction Patterns in PTSD: The Truth About Control
                Trauma, Relationships, and Control: Why You Feel Stuck (and How to Get Unstuck)
                How PTSD Tricks You Into Chasing Control (and What to Do Instead)
                Letting Go and Moving On: Control, Acceptance, and PTSD Recovery
                Emotional Control After Trauma: Redirecting Your Energy to What Actually Helps
                Stop Fighting What You Can’t Control: A Practical PTSD Recovery Reset

                Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

                In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad and Kaylene break down one of the most confusing parts of PTSD and trauma recovery: control. If you’ve ever felt out of control in your relationships, addictions, or habits, this episode helps you see exactly where your real power actually lives.

                You’ll learn why trying to control other people, outcomes, or the past always creates more pain—and how to shift that energy into what you can control: your thoughts, actions, and how you process emotions. Brad and Kaylene walk through real-life examples like drinking, scrolling social media, binge-watching TV, overspending, and nitpicking your partner.

                You’ll also hear a powerful reframe on addiction and “powerlessness,” and how to understand the moment when control really starts to slip. By the end, you’ll have a simple mental checklist you can use daily to stop wasting energy on what you can’t change and start building calm, confidence, and real momentum in your healing.

                 

                💡 What You’ll Learn

                • How to recognize when you’re trying to control things you simply can’t
                • The three things you always have control over, even with PTSD or trauma
                • How to spot the red flags that a habit or addiction is actually running you
                • Why time “slipping through your fingers” is a sign of lost control
                • How to redirect your focus from controlling others to changing your own actions
                • A simple question to ask yourself whenever you feel regret after a behavior
                • How to use short-term resistance to build long-term freedom from addiction
                • Practical ways to stop nitpicking and control battles in your relationships
                • How focusing on what you can control builds confidence and lowers anxiety
                •  

                  🧠 Key Takeaway

                  You can’t control other people, the past, or every emotion—but you can always control your thoughts, your actions, and how you respond, and that’s where your real power is.

                   

                  🔗 Next Steps

                  Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

                  To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.

                  CHAPTERS:

                  00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
                  00:36 Welcome and Announcements
                  01:30 Today's Focus: Control in Relationships and Addictions
                  03:21 Understanding Control and Acceptance
                  08:05 Control in Addictions: Personal Insights
                  13:54 Practical Steps to Regain Control
                  19:30 Identifying and Breaking Habits
                  30:19 Breaking Free from Addictions
                  30:24 The Power of Pushing Through Resistance
                  30:45 Controlling Your Thoughts and Actions
                  30:59 Empowerment Through Control
                  33:24 Steps to Regain Control
                  34:39 Applying Control in Daily Life
                  35:34 The Illusion of Control
                  38:21 Emotional Control and Acceptance
                  43:30 Focusing on What Matters
                  46:39 Upcoming Topics and Final Thoughts
                   

                  Topics Covered:

                  PTSD recovery • trauma healing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • control in relationships • addiction recovery • sobriety and PTSD • letting go of control • acceptance and PTSD • breaking trauma-driven habits • people-pleasing and control • relationship conflict after trauma • recovering from addictive coping • mindset for trauma healing • self-awareness and PTSD • reclaiming personal power • healing from childhood trauma patterns • practical PTSD recovery tools

                  59 min
                • #79 Processing and Personalities Myers Briggs | Recovery Secrets Series

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                  How Your Personality Type Shapes PTSD Recovery

                  Thinker or Feeler? Using Myers-Briggs to Process Trauma Better
                  Processing PTSD: Matching Healing Tools to Your Personality
                  Why Logic Isn’t Enough: Emotional Processing for PTSD Thinkers
                  Feeling Everything: How Deep Feelers Can Navigate Trauma Healing
                  Trauma Recovery for Opposites: When Your Partner’s Personality Is Nothing Like Yours
                  Using the Myers-Briggs Test to Personalize Your PTSD Healing Journey
                  Balancing Head and Heart in Trauma Recovery
                  Is Your Personality Helping or Hurting Your PTSD Recovery?
                  Processing Trauma Smarter: Personality-Based Strategies for Emotional Release

                  Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

                  In this episode, Brad and Kayleen break down how your personality type can directly shape the way you process trauma and move through PTSD recovery. Using the Myers-Briggs framework, they explore why some survivors feel everything intensely but struggle with the logic piece, while others can understand everything in their head yet stay emotionally shut down.

                  You’ll hear how Brad and Kayleen sit on opposite ends of the spectrum—thinker vs feeler, big-picture vs in-the-moment—and how that created totally different-looking healing journeys. Instead of seeing this as a problem, they now use those differences as a roadmap for which tools to use and which skills to intentionally build.

                  Brad walks through why thinkers often need to practice emotional release on purpose, and why feelers usually need more support with belief change and logical reframing. Together they show you how to stop fighting your wiring, accept how you’re built, and then use that self-awareness to make your processing sessions more effective and less confusing.

                  By the end, you’ll know how to match specific processing tools to your strengths and weaknesses, better understand your partner or loved ones, and see that there is nothing “wrong” with the way you’re wired—you just need the right strategy for your unique nervous system and personality.

                   

                  💡 What You’ll Learn

                  • How your Myers-Briggs personality type can influence the way you process PTSD and trauma

                  • The difference between thinkers and feelers when it comes to emotional release and belief change

                  • Why some people cry easily and “drip” emotions while others need structured time to feel anything

                  • How to spot whether you’re over-relying on logic or over-relying on emotion in your healing

                  • Which trauma processing tools to use if you’re more of a logical thinker (belief work and introspective healing)

                  • Which tools to lean on if you’re more of a feeler (protector work and emotional release practices)

                  • How opposite personality types can actually balance each other in relationships during trauma recovery

                  • Why personality tests are helpful starting points but should never limit your growth

                  • Practical ways to accept your wiring while still building skills on the side you’re weakest in

                     

                    🧠 Key Takeaway

                    Healing PTSD requires both a belief shift in your mind and an emotional release in your body—and your personality type will tell you which side you need to intentionally strengthen.

                     

                    🔗 Next Steps

                    Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

                    To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit https://overcomingptsd.com/consultation.

                     

                    CHAPTERS:

                    00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
                    00:36 Welcome and Session Overview
                    01:03 Understanding Personality Types in Trauma Processing
                    02:33 Personality Test Results and Analysis
                    09:46 Emotional vs Logical Processing
                    16:58 Practical Tips for Using Processing Tools
                    20:45 Balancing Logic and Emotion in Healing
                    30:18 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
                    31:13 Feedback on Thinking and Feeling
                    31:53 Upcoming Topics and Voting
                    32:12 Personality Types and Relationships
                    33:03 Understanding Each Other Through Personality Tests
                    35:34 Balancing Different Personality Traits
                    42:51 Health and Wellness Session Announcement
                    46:03 Future Plans for the Community
                    54:20 Concluding Remarks and Final Thoughts
                     

                     

                    Topics Covered:

                    PTSD recovery • trauma healing • Myers-Briggs and PTSD • thinking vs feeling in trauma processing • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • logical vs emotional processing • belief change in PTSD recovery • emotional release techniques • protector tool for trauma • challenging beliefs tool • introspective healing for PTSD • personality types in relationships • opposites in trauma healing • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive

                    58 min
                  • #76 Bootcamp Boundaries Workshop | Recovery Secrets Series

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                    How to Set PTSD Boundaries Without Guilt or Conflict

                    Boundary Bootcamp: The PTSD Workshop That Makes Boundaries Finally Click
                    PTSD and People-Pleasing: The Boundary Reset You Need at Work and Home
                    Internal Boundaries for Trauma Survivors: Stop Self-Sabotage When Triggered
                    PTSD Recovery Boundaries: How to Stay Calm When Someone Gets Negative
                    Trauma Healing Through Boundaries: Build Self-Respect One Rule at a Time
                    The “Book of Law” for PTSD: Create Boundaries You Can Actually Enforce
                    PTSD Emotional Regulation: How to Catch the Trigger Before You Explode
                    Stop the Screaming Matches: Trauma-Safe Communication Boundaries That Work
                    PTSD Recovery Skills: Time, Energy, and Boundary Systems That Change Everything

                    Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

                    In this Boundary Bootcamp workshop, Brad and Kaylene help trauma survivors turn boundary ideas into real-life action. Instead of just talking about what boundaries are, this session focuses on getting specific: what internal boundary you need most, what external boundary you’ve been avoiding, and what will actually help you enforce them when life gets messy.

                    You’ll hear how internal boundaries often start with one powerful goal: stop doing damage when you’re triggered. That could mean not binging substances, not spiraling into reactive conversations, and choosing self-care first so you don’t make tomorrow harder than it needs to be.

                    The workshop also breaks down why many boundaries fail: they’re too vague, you don’t anticipate obstacles, and you don’t have a plan for enforcement. Whether it’s bedtime, screen time, people-pleasing at work, or staying calm with a specific person, the focus is on clear rules, realistic systems, and skill-building over perfection.

                    If boundaries have felt confusing, guilt-heavy, or impossible to maintain, this episode reframes them as self-respect in action—simple, consistent choices that protect your nervous system and make PTSD recovery sustainable.

                     

                    💡 What You’ll Learn

                    • How to define an internal boundary as what you do to stop self-damage and support long-term healing

                    • Why the best early PTSD boundaries focus on “don’t make it worse” before trying to make it better

                    • How to create clearer boundaries by getting specific about behaviors, timing, and routines

                    • How to plan enforcement by identifying the exact obstacles that will challenge your boundary

                    • How to stay calm in hard conversations by catching emotion early and using grounding tools

                    • How to redirect negativity without escalating, including question-based conversation control

                    • How to build time-management boundaries with alarms, reminders, and tracking real time spent

                    • How to do a “hard reset” when overwhelm and unfinished tasks are clogging your mind

                    • How to choose one internal boundary and one external boundary to create immediate momentum in recovery

                       

                      🧠 Key Takeaway

                      Boundaries work when they’re clear, realistic, and enforced with a plan—your nervous system heals faster when you stop doing damage and start protecting your peace consistently.

                       

                      🔗 Next Steps

                      Subscribe for new weekday episodes from the Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching archive.

                      To go deeper or work with Brad directly, visit: https://www.skool.com/brokentounbreakable

                       

                      CHAPTERS:

                      00:00 Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
                      00:36 Welcome to Boundary Bootcamp Day 5
                      01:00 Recap of the Week's Boundary Lessons
                      01:29 Interactive Workshop Begins
                      03:09 Defining Internal Boundaries
                      08:22 Strategies for Enforcing Boundaries
                      11:42 Overcoming Challenges in Setting Boundaries
                      27:46 Addressing Communication Challenges
                      28:26 Overcoming Resistance to Change
                      29:46 Setting Internal and External Boundaries
                      30:07 Practical Tips for Enforcing Boundaries
                      32:02 Time Management and Estimation Skills
                      38:01 Handling Negativity in Relationships
                      41:53 People Pleasing and Work Boundaries
                      45:58 Building Effective Routines
                      49:08 Hard Reset for Overwhelming Tasks
                      52:17 Conclusion and Next Steps
                       

                      Topics Covered:

                      PTSD recovery • trauma healing • boundaries workshop • internal boundaries • external boundaries • self-love and self-respect • emotional regulation • nervous system regulation • trauma coping tools • trigger management • people pleasing recovery • conflict boundaries • communication skills • self-care routines • bedtime boundaries • screen time boundaries • time management for trauma survivors • procrastination and overwhelm • habit building • recovery coaching • practical PTSD tools

                      55 min

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