Beyond The Crops

149. We Said We’d Never Homeschool… Now We Are!


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Welcome back to Beyond the Crops, where farm life meets real life! In this episode, Jena and Mary Pat sit down for a real conversation about homeschooling, motherhood, slowing down, and choosing a lifestyle that better aligns with their family values. From the chaos of rushed school mornings and planting season schedules to the freedom and challenges of creating a new normal, the two open up about why they chose homeschooling, what they hope it will bring to their families, and the lessons they’re learning along the way. Whether you homeschool, traditional school, or are simply craving more peace and intentionality in family life, this episode is a reminder that every family gets to define what works best for them.

📌 What We Cover in This Episode:

Life Lately & Farm Season Check-In

Why We Chose Homeschooling: A candid conversation about the decision to homeschool and the deeper “why” behind it.

  •  Feeling like they were getting the “leftovers” of their kids after long school days. 
  •  The emotional toll of rushed mornings, exhausted afternoons, homework battles, and overstimulation. 
  •  Choosing more quality time, flexibility, and family connection over packed schedules and constant busyness. 
  •  Navigating farm life, entrepreneurship, and school schedules that often don’t align with agricultural life. 

The Hard Truth About Time & Family Priorities:

  •  How farming schedules and early August school start dates can make meaningful family time feel impossible. 
  •  The pressure of cramming summer fun into a shrinking calendar while balancing irrigation, spraying, and farm responsibilities. 
  •  Why both women realized they wanted more intentional, everyday moments with their children. 

The Lifestyle Shift of Homeschooling:

  •  Why homeschooling feels like more than an education choice—it’s a lifestyle decision. 
  •  The importance of flexibility, faith, slower mornings, and creating rhythms that actually work for farm families. 
  •  Balancing motherhood, business ownership, content creation, and teaching children at home. 

The Reality Check: Homeschooling Isn’t Always Easy

  •  Jena shares the “honeymoon phase” of homeschooling and the harder moments that followed. 
  •  Honest reflections on hard days, patience, frustration, and learning alongside your kids. 
  •  Why community, support systems, and leaning into faith matter during challenging seasons. 

Curriculum Talk & Homeschool Resources:

  •  Favorite curriculum options they’re exploring and using. 
  •  Thoughts on reading, math, and open-and-go homeschool programs. 
  •  Learning through farm life, real-world experiences, and everyday moments—not just textbooks. 

A Few Hot Takes on School Culture:

  •  Why achievement awards, homework, and busyness culture sparked bigger conversations around priorities. 
  •  Thoughts on sports schedules, packed calendars, and redefining success for their kids. 
  •  The reminder that every family gets to choose what works best for them—without judgment. 

💡 Key Takeaways:

✨ There is no “one right way” to educate your kids. Every family has different needs, priorities, schedules, and values—and what works for one family may not work for another.

✨ Time matters. Sometimes the biggest parenting decisions come down to one simple question: How do we want to spend our time together?

✨ Homeschooling is more than academics—it can be a lifestyle choice rooted in flexibility, faith, family connection, and freedom.

✨ Hard days don’t mean you’re doing it wrong. Whether it’s homeschooling, traditional schooling, parenting, or farm life, growth often comes with challenges.

✨ Community matters. Finding support from people walking a similar road can make difficult seasons feel far less lonely.

✨ Success looks different for every child. Grades, awards, and achievements don’t define your child’s worth—or their future.

🙌 Join the Conversation!
Are you homeschooling, considering homeschooling, or navigating the school-versus-family balance in a busy season of life? We’d love to hear your story! You can connect with us and share your thoughts by tagging Share your thoughts and tag us @beyondthecrops_. And don't forget to leave us a message on our new voicemail line! 

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