The OCD Whisperer Podcast with Kristina Orlova

152. Response Prevention: Most Important Part of ERP for OCD


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What is Response Prevention and why is it the most important part of ERP?

 

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with therapist Natalia Aiza. Together, they explore Response Prevention (the RP in ERP therapy)—why it’s the most crucial step in breaking free from OCD cycles, and how to actually apply it in daily life.

 

Natalia opens up about:

• Why exposures without response prevention don’t work

• The difference between physical vs. mental compulsions

• Tools for handling rumination, avoidance, and reassurance-seeking

• How “good enough” ERP (not perfection) helps real people recover

 

This conversation also dives into:

• How to identify sneaky mental rituals disguised as “thinking”

• Why delaying compulsions builds brain flexibility

• The power of uncertainty, creativity, and new discoveries in recovery

 

Whether you’re struggling with OCD yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and hope to guide your recovery journey.

 

📲 Natalia Aiza (guest):

  • LPC, Founder of Kairos, specializes in OCD, anxiety, ADHD, and parent coaching for all ages.
  • OCD Colorado: https://www.kairoswellnesscollective.com/
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalk.ocd
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    ✂️TIMESTAMPS:

    [00:00] – Welcome back + today’s focus on Response Prevention
    [01:07] – What is response prevention in ERP?
    [01:45] – Mental vs. physical compulsions
    [03:19] – Building a response prevention “ladder”
    [04:17] – Identifying mental rituals as compulsions
    [05:50] – Why belief in compulsions makes ERP harder
    [07:01] – Rumination-focused ERP & breaking mental loops
    [08:57] – Mental distortions + using CBT to challenge analysis
    [10:47] – Sitting with not knowing vs. “maybe, maybe not”
    [13:10] – Distress tolerance + uncertainty in recovery
    [15:52] – Opposite action vs. “good enough” ERP
    [17:37] – When OCD flares up again: going back to basics
    [19:21] – Why response prevention matters long-term
    [21:29] – Designing RP: adaptive vs. compulsive behaviors
    [22:29] – Reality anchoring: using trusted people as baselines
    [23:50] – Creative RP examples & individualizing ERP

     

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