🧠 Can you grieve “correctly” when you have OCD?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Krista Reed, clinical social worker and specialist in OCD, BFRBs, and Body Dysmorphic Disorder. Together, they explore how grief, loss, and real-life emotional pain interact with OCD — and how deeply the experience can impact identity, relationships, and recovery.

❤️Krista opens up about:

• The childhood loss that first ignited her OCD

• How witnessing traumatic events shaped her fears

• The return of old compulsions — and the arrival of new ones — after recent family deaths

• The struggle of balancing caregiving, parenting, and severe OCD during her father’s hospitalization

Whether you’re navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers compassion, insight, and the reminder that there is no right or wrong way to grieve.

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⚠️ Disclaimer: Please note while the host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy.

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🧠 *Can self-compassion really help you recover from OCD?*

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Lukasz, known online as Intrusive OCD Memes. Together, they explore how humor, community, and self-awareness play a role in managing OCD, and how sharing personal experiences can help both yourself and others.

Lucas opens up about:

• First symptoms of OCD as a child and struggles with contamination fears

• How intrusive thoughts and mental compulsions impacted his relationships

• His journey toward seeking therapy after years of coping alone

• Using humor and memes as a form of self-therapy and community support

Whether you’re navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone else, this episode offers hope, insight, and tools to show that connection, humor, and community can make a real difference.

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• IOCDF Advocate with OCD/ROCD

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intrusiveocdmemes?igsh=dDFyOGl6eXNyNmVz

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🧠 Can self-compassion really help you recover from OCD?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, host Kristina Orlova speaks with Kimberley Quinlan, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, creator of CBT School, and author of The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD. Together, they explore how learning to treat yourself with kindness can transform your relationship with OCD and emotional suffering.

Kimberley opens up about:

• Why self-compassion is not weakness or self-indulgence

• How criticizing yourself actually increases stress hormones

• What it means to “be a safe place” for your own emotions

• Simple ways to start practicing compassion without triggering compulsions

Whether you’re living with OCD or supporting someone who is, this episode offers real strategies to reduce suffering, calm your nervous system, and heal with compassion.

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• Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/youranxietytoolkit/

• YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@youranxietytoolkit

• CBT school: https://www.cbtschool.com/

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🧠 Do you ever feel like something is wrong — even when nothing happened?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Heather Brown, LCSW, OCD and trauma specialist. Together, they explore Just Right OCD, magical thinking, somatic anxiety, and how OCD can sometimes feel like trauma.

Heather opens up about:

• Her personal experience living with Just Right OCD

• Sensations-based OCD: when the fear isn’t a thought, but a feeling

• Magical thinking OCD & “what if something bad happens?” spirals

• ERP, ACT, Brainspotting & CPT for trauma-related OCD symptoms

Whether you're navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone, this episode offers powerful insight, tools, and hope for healing and self-trust.

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• OCD, anxiety, trauma, & perfectionism therapy

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evoluercounseling/

• Evoluer Counseling: https://www.evoluercounseling.com/

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🧠 Could Your Child’s Sudden OCD Be Something Else? Understanding PANS & PANDAS

In this powerful episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Angela Henry, therapist and PANS/PANDAS specialist, and Lindsay Forsyth, a mother and advocate who has navigated this journey with her own child. Together, they shed light on how sudden-onset OCD, tics, and anxiety in children may sometimes point to something deeper — an autoimmune or inflammatory disorder known as PANS or PANDAS.

Angela and Lindsay open up about:

• How PANS/PANDAS can mimic OCD and anxiety — and why it’s often misdiagnosed

• The emotional toll families face when doctors can’t find answers

• How infection-triggered inflammation can alter behavior overnight

• What every parent should know about early warning signs of PANS/PANDAS

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or clinician, this episode offers clarity, validation, and practical tools to navigate the confusing intersection of OCD, PANS, and PANDAS.

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• Certified EMDR Therapist

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ctr_for_collaborative_healing/

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• Mom of 2 kids with PANS/PANDAS.

• Pandas network: https://pandasnetwork.org/

• PANS PANDAS Advocacy, Community & Support Aspire

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[00:00] Welcome — Meet Lindsay, Angela, and Kristina

[01:05] PANS & PANDAS Revealed — How Your Child’s Brain Can Turn Against Them Overnight

[01:50] The Infection Trigger — Strep, Viruses, and Environmental Factors That Can Hijack a Child’s Mind

[02:57] Recognizing Abrupt Neuropsychiatric Symptoms in Kids

[03:24] PANS vs PANDAS — The Shocking Differences You Need to Know

[03:42] “Something’s Not Right” — How Parents Can Spot the Early Warning Signs

[05:05] Lindsey’s Story — From Meltdowns to Mystery Illness

[07:48] The Specialists Who Saved Our Child

[09:12] Lifelines for Parents

[10:02] Why Your Child Can Suddenly Regress Without Warning

[10:45] Tracking the Chaos — Growth Charts, OCD Scores, and Why Labs Don’t Always Show the Truth

[11:06] The Hidden Diagnosis — Blood Work Says “Normal” but Your Child Isn’t

[12:27] Advocacy 101 — How to Get Answers When Doctors Don’t Have Them

[14:13] How to Make Sure Your Pediatrician Takes You Seriously

[15:53] Therapy That Helps — How to Support Children

[17:54] Not Just Bad Behavior — Why Your Child Isn’t Misbehaving

[20:09] Supporting the Whole Family

[22:00] Covert OCD Revealed — When Your Child’s Obsessions Don’t Look Like OCD

[23:47] Why ERP Can Backfire During a Flare

[25:12] Pediatric OCD Exposed — Obsessions, Separation Anxiety, and the Hidden Signs

[27:44] Heavy-Hitter Symptoms — Emotional Outbursts, Bedwetting, ADHD...

[29:03] Are Some Kids Genetically Predisposed?

[30:26] Could Family History Play a Role?

[31:17] Step-by-Step Guidance — Therapy

[32:24] Get Help Now —How to Contact Lindsay and Access Real-World Resources

[33:32] Therapist Support & Networks — Angela’s Consultation Groups for Families and Professionals

[35:09] Closing Words — Hope, Awareness, and Why You’re Not Alone

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Is everything you’ve been told about OCD wrong?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova sits down with Elysse Lescarbeau, writer, advocate, and author of OCD Exposed: 10 Myths and Misconceptions About Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Together, they uncover the hidden sides of OCD—from misunderstood symptoms to the powerful truth about recovery.

Elysse opens up about:

This honest conversation dives into:

Whether you’re navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone you love, this episode offers hope, clarity, and practical tools for real recovery.

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What happens when your mind turns against you — and fills you with thoughts you can’t control?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Maurice, creator of the Obsessless app — a powerful new tool designed to support people living with OCD. Maurice opens up about his terrifying first intrusive thoughts, years of misdiagnosis, and how ERP therapy and mindset work helped him turn pain into purpose.

Together, we explore:

• The hidden side of OCD most people never see

• How intrusive thoughts can completely take over your life

• What it really takes to heal when therapy isn’t immediately available

• The creation of Obsessless — and why tech could change OCD recovery forever

Whether you’re currently navigating OCD or supporting someone who is, this episode offers raw truth, hope, and tools for reclaiming your mind.

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Have you ever felt ashamed of a habit you couldn’t control?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Aneela Idnani, co-founder of HabitAware and mental health advocate. Aneela opens up about living with trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder), how shame kept her silent for decades, and how awareness and acceptance transformed her recovery journey.

Aneela shares:

• Her early experiences with hair pulling and intrusive thoughts

• The hidden shame and secrecy that fueled her struggle for 20+ years

• How pregnancy and stress intensified her compulsions

• The turning point—finally opening up to her husband and seeking help

• How HabitAware’s Keen Smart Bracelet helps build awareness and break the cycle

This conversation also dives into:

• Why awareness is the first step to any lasting change

• The role of self-care, mindfulness, and acceptance in recovery

• How shifting perspective can turn struggle into strength

• The importance of removing shame and embracing your full self

Whether you’re navigating OCD, BFRBs (Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors), or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, tools, and strategies for healing.

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[00:30] Aneela’s Untold Story

[01:39] When Hair Pulling First Began—and Why No One Saw It

[03:46] Living in Silence: The Hidden Shame No One Talks About

[06:11] The Moment Everything Changed—Her Husband Finds Out

[07:33] From Struggle to Solution: How HabitAware Was Born

[11:01] The Game-Changer: Turning Awareness Into Freedom

[14:18] ADHD, Intrusive Thoughts & The Spiral of Self-Criticism

[15:55] Shutting Down the Inner Bully: Mindfulness That Works

[20:47] From Self-Hate to Self-Grace: Reframing the Struggle

[24:43] Losing It All, Finding Meaning: Processing Grief Differently

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What is Response Prevention and why is it the most important part of ERP?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with therapist Natalia Aiza. Together, they explore Response Prevention (the RP in ERP therapy)—why it’s the most crucial step in breaking free from OCD cycles, and how to actually apply it in daily life.

Natalia opens up about:

• Why exposures without response prevention don’t work

• The difference between physical vs. mental compulsions

• Tools for handling rumination, avoidance, and reassurance-seeking

• How “good enough” ERP (not perfection) helps real people recover

This conversation also dives into:

• How to identify sneaky mental rituals disguised as “thinking”

• Why delaying compulsions builds brain flexibility

• The power of uncertainty, creativity, and new discoveries in recovery

Whether you’re struggling with OCD yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and hope to guide your recovery journey.

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What if the story that makes you feel most ashamed… is the exact story you need to face?

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In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova continues her conversation with clinical director Natalia Aiza in part three of the ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) series. Together, they explore live exposures — the practice of confronting OCD fears in real time instead of avoiding them.

Natalia shares her journey of:

• Facing intrusive fears head-on with live ERP

• Learning to trust herself again after doubting her safety around loved ones

• Why “breaking OCD’s rules” is key to recovery

• What it really feels like to sit in the discomfort and not perform compulsions

This episode also dives into:

• Why ERP feels counterintuitive — but works

• How OCD uses secrecy and avoidance to stay powerful

• The role of courage and compassion in confronting fears

• Why recovery means learning to live with uncertainty

Whether you’re struggling with OCD yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and hope to guide your recovery journey.

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