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By Kristina Orlova
If your mind keeps looping, second-guessing, or making things feel too real — this podcast is for you.
The OCD Whisperer Podcast explores OCD, anxiety, and the patt
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What if the thing keeping you stuck in OCD isn’t the thought itself...but everything you do to try to finally feel certain? In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Natalia Aíza, a licensed therapist specializing in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). Together, they take a closer look at what OCD really is, why intrusive thoughts can feel so convincing, and why trying to get rid of the anxiety can actually keep the OCD cycle going. Natalia explains what happens when OCD turns a fear into something you feel you have to solve, and why compulsions aren't always obvious. Checking, avoidance, rereading, rewriting, rumination, overthinking, Googling, searching Reddit, and even asking ChatGPT for reassurance can all become part of the OCD cycle when they're being used to get certainty or relief. This conversation dives into: • Why OCD can be mistaken for anxiety, depression, or even a personality disorder • What an OCD obsession actually is and why you can become so stuck on a possibility • Why compulsions can look completely different from person to person • Why ERP feels so counterintuitive—and why facing the fear can retrain your brain • What “accepting uncertainty” really means in OCD recovery • Why rumination, Googling, Reddit, and searching for answers can become compulsions • What to do when you realize you've already been ruminating for hours • How to interrupt a compulsion without trying to control the intrusive thought itself • Why self-compassion matters when you fall back into an OCD cycle • How to reconnect with your values and return to your real life instead of staying trapped in OCD And one of the most important messages from this conversation is that getting caught in a compulsion doesn't mean you've failed. You can notice it. You can stop. And you can choose what comes next. Whether you're dealing with intrusive thoughts, OCD rumination, reassurance seeking, checking, avoidance, or another form of compulsive behavior, this episode offers a deeper understanding of the OCD cycle and how ERP can help you respond differently. 📲 About Natalia Aiza (guest): • OCD therapist, experiencer, author, and advocate • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalk.ocd/ • Book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/818083/self-guided-exposure-and-response-prevention-therapy-for-ocd-by-natalia-aiza-lpc-ma/ ✂️ TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] – What Is OCD Really, and Why Is It So Often Misunderstood? [03:07] – What Is an OCD Obsession? [05:02] – Why Does ERP Work When It Feels So Counterintuitive? [06:44] – Why Facing the Fear Can Retrain Your Brain [07:54] – What Does “Accepting Uncertainty” Actually Mean? [10:09] – What If You’re Stuck in Rumination Again? [12:10] – What If You Give In to the Compulsion? [13:40] – The Moment You Realize You’re Stuck in the OCD Cycle [14:32] – What Should You Do After You Catch Yourself Ruminating? [15:29] – How Do You Get Back to Your Real Life? [17:37] – When Is Distraction Actually Avoidance? [18:46] – How OCD Can Make You Lose Touch With What You Enjoy [19:57] – What If You’re Secretly Doing Rituals Without Realizing It? [21:32] – The Hidden and “Sneaky” Compulsions of OCD [24:00] – Shame, Guilt & What Recovery Can Look Like ✅ Free Resources & Links 🎁 Free OCD Survival Kit & Classes → www.shorturl.at/KcTxM 📖 OCD CBT Journal → www.shorturl.at/7pUxB 🌐 Website → www.korresults.com/ ✍️ OCD Academy→ www.ocdacademy.thinkific.com/ 📲 Stay Connected Facebook: www.facebook.com/korresults Instagram: www.instagram.com/ocdwhisperer/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@ocdwhisperer Twitter (X): www.x.com/korresults Website: www.korresults.com/ Website podcast: www.theocdwhisperer.com 📩 Business Inquiries: [email protected] ✅ About OCD Whisperer Welcome to OCD Whisperer! Each episode shares tools and insights for OCD recovery, managing intrusive thoughts, ERP therapy, CBT techniques, anxiety relief, and mindfulness practices. Join me for expert interviews and personal insights into overcoming OCD. Subscribe to find support, strategies, and hope for your OCD journey. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Please note while the host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy. 🔑 SEO Keywords • OCD recovery • OCD rumination • OCD intrusive thoughts • OCD compulsions • ERP therapy for OCD • Exposure and Response Prevention • how to stop OCD rumination • OCD reassurance seeking • OCD checking and compulsions • accepting uncertainty OCD • how to stop overthinking OCD • OCD treatment • intrusive thoughts and OCD • living with OCD • OCD anxiety cycle © OCD Whisperer

What if the person treating your OCD has lived through it too? In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Andrea Gutiérrez-Glik, LCSW, an OCD, anxiety, and complex PTSD specialist who also has lived experience with OCD. Together, they explore OCD, trauma, lived experience, I-CBT, and what it means to find treatment that actually fits the person behind the diagnosis. This honest conversation dives into: • How trauma and OCD can become entangled, and why trauma isn’t necessarily the sole cause of OCD • Why OCD can be especially difficult to recognize in marginalized communities • The differences between ERP and Inference-Based CBT (I-CBT) and why a more trauma-informed approach may be helpful for some clients • How OCD can be experienced both viscerally in the body and cognitively through doubt and rumination • What healing can look like when the sources of trauma are still present in your life • Andrea’s concept of compassion, community, and freedom as important elements of healing • Why lived experience can teach therapists things that textbooks cannot fully capture • How to recognize when you may need a therapist who provides specialized OCD treatment • Why medication can sometimes help people who feel stuck and make it easier to engage in therapy Whether you’re navigating OCD yourself, supporting someone with OCD, or looking for a therapist who truly understands the disorder, this episode offers validation, practical insight, and hope...and a reminder that there may be more effective treatment options available than simply talking about what you’re going through. 📲 About Andrea Gutiérrez-Glik (guest): • Webpage: https://www.andreaglik.com/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somaticwitch/ • Book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/740123/healing-the-oppressed-body-by-andrea-gutierrez-glik/ ✂️ TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] – How Does Having OCD Change the Way You Show Up as a Therapist? [02:45] – How Do Trauma and OCD Become Entangled, Especially in Marginalized Communities? [05:59] – Why Is Inference-Based CBT (I-CBT) Controversial, and Who Can It Help? [07:40] – Is OCD Experienced More Viscerally or Cognitively—and Does Treatment Differ? [09:40] – If I-CBT Targets Obsessional Doubt, What Are You Actually Exposing Yourself To? [10:38] – What Does Healing Look Like When the Source of Trauma Is Still in Your Life? [11:57] – What Does “Healing the Nervous System” Actually Mean? [16:10] – What Can Clinicians With Lived Experience Understand That a Textbook Can't Teach? [17:06] – Do You Have to Have Lived Experience to Be a Good Therapist? [19:19] – What Would You Tell Someone Who Feels Stuck in OCD Treatment? [20:48] – How Do You Know When It's Time to Find an OCD Specialist? [21:24] – Where Can People Find Andrea and Her Work? ✅ Free Resources & Links 🎁 Free OCD Survival Kit & Classes → www.shorturl.at/KcTxM 📖 OCD CBT Journal → www.shorturl.at/7pUxB 🌐 Website → www.korresults.com/ ✍️ OCD Academy→ www.ocdacademy.thinkific.com/ 📲 Stay Connected Facebook: www.facebook.com/korresults Instagram: www.instagram.com/ocdwhisperer/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@ocdwhisperer Twitter (X): www.x.com/korresults Website: www.korresults.com/ Website podcast: www.theocdwhisperer.com 📩 Business Inquiries: [email protected] ✅ About OCD Whisperer Welcome to OCD Whisperer! Each episode shares tools and insights for OCD recovery, managing intrusive thoughts, ERP therapy, CBT techniques, anxiety relief, and mindfulness practices. Join me for expert interviews and personal insights into overcoming OCD. Subscribe to find support, strategies, and hope for your OCD journey. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Please note while the host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy. 🔑 SEO Keywords OCD therapist with lived experience OCD and trauma trauma and OCD Inference-Based CBT I-CBT for OCD ERP therapy for OCD OCD treatment OCD misdiagnosis OCD vs anxiety OCD specialist OCD recovery living with OCD OCD intrusive thoughts OCD rumination obsessive compulsive disorder OCD and marginalized communities complex PTSD and OCD finding an OCD therapist lived experience with OCD Healing the Oppressed Body © OCD Whisperer

Is your anxiety keeping you stagnant or is it really helping you? In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova examines generalized anxiety in more detail, including how it impacts the body and mind and why it's important to distinguish between OCD and daily anxiety. She explains how anxiety reacts to uncertainty, why our minds automatically focus on the worst-case scenario, and how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques might be useful. Kristina covers: • Why future issues and uncertainty are viewed by the brain as possible threats • How racing thoughts, bodily sensations, and persistent "what if?" concerns are signs of anxiety • The key distinction between OCD and general anxiety • How anxiety-related thoughts, actions, and emotional reactions can be altered with CBT Additionally, this episode delves into: • Typical thought patterns such as assuming the worst and catastrophizing • Why avoidance can actually exacerbate anxiety • How the brain eventually learns, "I can handle this," when confronted with fearful situations • Easy strategies to reduce the bodily signs of worry include moving and breathing slowly. • Why it's not necessary to completely eradicate worry and how developing new coping mechanisms can prevent it from taking over your life • Why typical cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) thought-challenging may be helpful for generic anxiety but may actually exacerbate obsessive analysis and rumination in OCD This episode provides useful skills, clarity, and a better knowledge of how to react when anxiety manifests, regardless of whether you're struggling with anxiety yourself or attempting to comprehend what you're going through. ✂️ TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] – What Is Anxiety and Why Does the Brain Create It? [02:59] – General Anxiety vs. OCD: Understanding the Difference [04:12] – How CBT Can Help With Anxiety [05:23] – Catastrophizing and Other Common Anxiety Thinking Traps [06:17] – Why Avoidance Makes Anxiety Stronger [06:57] – Facing Anxiety Step by Step [07:12] – Calming the Body When Anxiety Takes Over [07:48] – Anxiety Is Normal: Learning How to Respond to It [08:32] – Why the Right Treatment Depends on the Problem [09:07] – Why Standard CBT Can Backfire With OCD [09:37] – OCD, Rumination, and the Search for Certainty ✅ Free Resources & Links 🎁 Free OCD Survival Kit & Classes → www.shorturl.at/KcTxM 📖 OCD CBT Journal → www.shorturl.at/7pUxB 🌐 Website → www.korresults.com/ ✍️ OCD Academy→ www.ocdacademy.thinkific.com/ 📲 Stay Connected Facebook: www.facebook.com/korresults Instagram: www.instagram.com/ocdwhisperer/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@ocdwhisperer Twitter (X): www.x.com/korresults Website: www.korresults.com/ Website podcast: www.theocdwhisperer.com 📩 Business Inquiries: [email protected] ✅ About OCD Whisperer Welcome to OCD Whisperer! Each episode shares tools and insights for OCD recovery, managing intrusive thoughts, ERP therapy, CBT techniques, anxiety relief, and mindfulness practices. Join me for expert interviews and personal insights into overcoming OCD. Subscribe to find support, strategies, and hope for your OCD journey. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Please note while the host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy. 🔑 SEO Keywords generalized anxiety generalized anxiety disorder anxiety vs OCD difference between anxiety and OCD CBT for anxiety anxiety treatment how to manage anxiety anxiety and uncertainty anxiety thinking traps catastrophizing and anxiety overcoming avoidance anxiety and overthinking OCD rumination CBT for OCD intrusive thoughts and anxiety © OCD Whisperer

Ever wonder why people with OCD can seem incredibly strong... yet still feel completely alone? In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Tom Smalley, MS, CMPC—mental performance consultant, OCD advocate, and speaker. Together, they explore the hidden impact of OCD stigma, why uncertainty is at the heart of OCD recovery, and how community, education, and self-compassion can change lives. Tom opens up about: • His OCD diagnosis at age 16 and living with up to 15 hours of compulsions a day • How ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) helped him reclaim his life • Why embracing uncertainty—not eliminating it—is the key to recovery • His powerful story of experiencing discrimination because of OCD and transforming pain into purpose This conversation also dives into: • Why reassurance can accidentally keep OCD alive • How everyday phrases like "I'm so OCD" contribute to stigma • Why community and advocacy play such an important role in healing • The connection between sports, mental health, perfectionism, and OCD • How choosing education over anger helps reduce stigma and create lasting change If you've ever felt misunderstood because of your OCD—or wondered how to support someone who struggles with it—this conversation will leave you feeling seen, understood, and hopeful. Whether you're navigating OCD yourself or supporting someone you love, this episode offers practical insights, encouragement, and a powerful reminder that you are never alone in your recovery. 📲 About Tom Smalley (guest): • MS, CMPC—mental performance consultant, OCD advocate, and speaker • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/s2s_smalls/ • Website: https://www.struggleintostrength.com/ ✂️ TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] – What Do Most People Get Wrong About Supporting Someone with OCD? [06:59] – When Did You Realize Uncertainty Wasn't the Enemy? [11:48] – How Does Everyday Language Add to OCD Stigma? [19:48] – What Would You Tell Someone Feeling Judged Because of OCD? [22:06] – Tom's Story: Being Bullied and Abused Because of OCD [29:31] – Sports, Mental Health & Breaking the Stigma [31:32] – The Therapist Quote That Changed Everything [38:02] – Final Thoughts & Where to Find Tom ✅ Free Resources & Links 🎁 Free OCD Survival Kit & Classes → www.shorturl.at/KcTxM 📖 OCD CBT Journal → www.shorturl.at/7pUxB 🌐 Website → www.korresults.com/ ✍️ OCD Academy→ www.ocdacademy.thinkific.com/ 📲 Stay Connected Facebook: www.facebook.com/korresults Instagram: www.instagram.com/ocdwhisperer/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@ocdwhisperer Twitter (X): www.x.com/korresults Website: www.korresults.com/ Website podcast: www.theocdwhisperer.com 📩 Business Inquiries: [email protected] ✅ About OCD Whisperer Welcome to OCD Whisperer! Each episode shares tools and insights for OCD recovery, managing intrusive thoughts, ERP therapy, CBT techniques, anxiety relief, and mindfulness practices. Join me for expert interviews and personal insights into overcoming OCD. Subscribe to find support, strategies, and hope for your OCD journey. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Please note while the host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy. 🔑 SEO Keywords • OCD stigma • OCD recovery • Exposure and Response Prevention • ERP therapy • Living with OCD • Intrusive thoughts • Uncertainty and OCD • Mental health stigma • Sports psychology and mental health • OCD advocate • Harm OCD • Pure OCD • OCD support • OCD community • Anxiety recovery © OCD Whisperer

A guided meditation to help with overthinking, anxiety, and a mind that just won’t slow down. Some days your head feels on overdrive. You sit down to relax and the thoughts keep racing anyway. This meditation doesn’t ask you to stop the thoughts. You’ll rest your attention on your breath, lose it, get pulled into a thought, and come back. That’s it. That’s the skill of mindfulness, and it gets stronger every time you practice. No experience is needed to start. Feel free to sit on the floor, sit in a chair, or even lie down. Headphones can help, but they aren’t required. You can’t do this exercise wrong. Having your mind wander off and coming back isn’t the practice failing, it’s actually the practice working. I’m Kristina Orlova, a licensed marriage and family therapist. I treated anxiety and OCD, and I live with OCD myself, so I understand what a loud brain feels like. This meditation is general and may work for anyone, whether you deal with anxiety or just want to reset your day. One honest note. This is for general wellbeing, not a substitute for therapy. If breath focus ever makes you more anxious, that's a real thing that happens to some people. Open your eyes, listen to the sounds around you instead, or take a break. DISCLAIMER: This guided meditation is provided for educational, informational, and relaxation purposes only. It is not medical advice, psychotherapy, or mental health treatment, it is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any physical or psychological condition, and it is not a substitute for care from a licensed professional. Although Kristina Orlova is a licensed marriage and family therapist, watching or listening to this content does not create a therapist-client relationship with Kristina Orlova or KOR Results Family Therapy Inc. No specific result, benefit, or improvement is promised or guaranteed, and results vary from person to person. If you have a pre-existing medical or mental health condition, including epilepsy, a seizure disorder, severe depression, psychosis, PTSD, or any other psychiatric condition, consult your physician or a qualified mental health provider before practicing meditation or using relaxation content. Never listen while driving, operating machinery, or doing anything that requires your full attention. If you feel worse at any point, stop listening. By using this content, you acknowledge that you do so voluntarily and at your own risk, and you agree that KOR Results Family Therapy Inc., Kristina Orlova, and anyone involved in creating or distributing this content are not liable for any claim, injury, loss, or damage arising from or connected to its use. If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 in the US or contact your local emergency number. #guidedmeditation #meditationforanxiety #overthinking #mindfulness #calmmind Please visit my website to get more information: http://korresults.com/ for private practice inquiries and www.theocdwhisperer.com for the show. ✅ Stay Connected With Me. 👉Facebook: / korresults 👉Instagram: / ocdwhisperer 👉Tiktok: / ocdwhisperer 👉Twitter (X): / korresults
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