In this episode, dating and love coach Violet Lange shares how high-achieving women can finally attract the deep, loving relationships they crave. Many successful women unknowingly approach dating with logic and strategy while ignoring the emotional and body-based aspects that create true connection. Violet explains how unprocessed trauma, overthinking, and dating patterns keep women stuck—and how tuning into your body and emotions can completely transform your love life. She shares practical ways to break toxic attraction cycles, express vulnerability without fear, and communicate in a way that deeply resonates with men. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing everything "right" in dating but still missing that deep, lasting love—this episode is for you.

Takeaways:

1. If he can’t feel you, he can’t find you. – The key to attracting love isn’t logic; it’s emotional presence.
2. Your body remembers what your mind forgets. – Unprocessed pain and patterns get stored in your body, influencing who you attract.
3. Why you keep dating the same type of man. – Until you heal past patterns, you'll keep meeting different faces with the same problems.
4. Stop over-strategizing your love life. – Love isn’t a formula—it’s about alignment between your head, heart, and body.
5. The secret to making a man listen. – Men respond to feelings, not complaints. Expressing emotions (not accusations) changes everything.
6. "Miss him" instead of "Where have you been?" – How a simple shift in communication makes him WANT to step up.
7. Perfection isn’t required—authenticity is. – You don’t need to "fix" yourself to find love; you just need to be you.

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Bob Grant is a professional life coach and clinically Trained Relationship Expert who’s been working with high achieving women since 1997. His relationship expertise has been featured on Digital Romance, Savvy Miss, GalTime, Belief.net, and YourTango.com just to name a few.

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