I get so many emails from husbands. I want to send a message to their wives...the wife I used to be. I was a wife who saw sex as

• Dirty
• Wrong
• Ungodly
• Scary
• He was sinning for wanting it
• Too much work
• I didn't like it / it hurt / I didn't know what to do
• I don't have time
• I don't have energy
• What's in it for me?
• He's way too interested in sex

And so I avoided it and got resentful that the things I was doing wasn't appreciated. He kept asking me to learn more... and I got angrier.

Well God has changed my heart on this. I have discovered that God made my husband's member, and I am his wife. It is my privilege to be a part of intimacy with him. I am his only means of receiving this vital fulfillment righteously.

I believe this podcast will bring you closer to God. If you're anything like I was, I wish I had known this even before I got married. If I could only understand what sex meant to him. If I could only understand God's purposes for it.

I pray this would be something husbands can give to their wives (when she's ready---listen and practice these 3 episodes: Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157 first).

Podcasts I mention:

• 132-S: The Most Important Piece To Amazing Intimacy with Belah Rose
• 144-S: The Discipline of "No" with Belah Rose
• Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157

Praying for you and your marriage,

Belah